Recommendations

This is the main part of the site. Here you can read the words of people who have experienced the guidance methods and recovered, partially or completely. Here you can see if the methods discussed on this site actually work. * The testimonies were collected from various sources, whether written or oral, so they are written in different forms: sometimes in spoken style, sometimes in simple Hebrew. Still, you should look and see if there is a story that is close to your heart. Each topic in the list below has one or more stories. At the end of the reading, click "Return to List" to return here and select another topic.

Video recommendations

Play Video
Play Video
Play Video

Letters of thanks and recommendation from patients

Topic recommendations

Depression

Working with Eliezer and TAT has turned me from a depressed,drunk,suicidal person into the functioning woman that I thought had died within me.

Words alone cannot describe how painlessly my life turned completely around.

By removing the traumas that I had suppressed for so many years I was able to regain my strength, self respect and faith in myself.

The speed and ease with which I have been able to cope with my family, whose efforts to help me were so destructive to my inner being and had been such a contributing factor to the state that I found myself in is amazing.

Although I am nearly healed I will continue my sessions as this has taught me so much about myself that I want to know more as the peace and strength that this knowledge brings is so rewarding.

 

From depression back to full life

A few months ago, I began treatment with Eliezer Spetter who uses the TAT technique. The reason I turned to him was because I had felt “stuck” during the last few years without the ability to advance. I didn’t have either the strength or the motivation, I lacked initiative and imagination; I was treading in the same place. Although I did all sorts of things, I was unable to pull myself up. This caused friction at home with my wife who saw me as idle, stuck.

Ever since I began to go to Eliezer Spetter, things began to move forward, a few steps at a time. I began to be brave, initiative, began to look for work, to sign up for studies. I took on myself a project that demanded responsibility, initiative and creativity. Thank G-d, I’m succeeding well. Suddenly I found myself very busy with no time to spare.

I advanced in other fields as well. In one of my tasks, I must give lessons. Standing in front of an audience was quite hard for me; I was pressured by the thought of how people would look at me and judge me. Thank G-d, today I feel freer and more confident to speak in front of an audience without losing my self-identity.

The advantage that I found in this technique is that you don’t have to expose yourself too much; you don’t have to confront your lackings head-on, but rather you leave them behind you in simple, immediate way , a way that is astounding in its simpleness.

I had a number of treatments; I can explicitly say that I saw a significant change in a short period of time that I never saw in any other technique.

a traffic accident, the amputation of both legs

Dear Eliezer,

I started coming to you after a traffic accident that my husband and I were involved in nine months ago. I saw my husband was being seriously injured, and I was miraculously saved. I saw the strongest person I knew (who is also the person who means most to me) literally fall apart in front of me, and I then had to continue to deal with the consequences and a new life.

When I would walk in the street, any truck that was in the area, and it could have been distant, would make me shake uncontrollably and “freeze”; any car journey, slow as it may be, would leave me extremely tense.

I couldn’t really deal with my husband’s injury – the amputation of both legs –, and that was what I really wanted to take care of. It was providence that sent me to you, Eliezer. I must admit that I did not have great expectations for quick results yet I was enormously and pleasantly surprised.

I found a God fearing man who does extremely special work with a technique that seems to be very simple, but changes the world. After each treatment, I would leave rejuvenated and happy. The anxieties dissipated, the fear of trucks disappeared, and I accepted the situation with love; I am now able to continue to deal with what lies ahead with new strengths.

During the treatments, old matters that I had never dealt with came up, and these were dealt with most effectively and quickly.

I tell my story to everyone, wherever I am, and publicize my personal miracle and the Divine Providence that were my lot.

Thank you, Eliezer, and may God bless you.

 

 


 

Release from trauma to happy life

 

By the time I reached Jerusalem, I had reached the end of both my patience at how much pain I was in and my ideas of what to do about it. I had been through many different kinds of therapy and body work. I was even a licensed therapist and certified body worker myself. So I knew how to think about healing. But I could not heal my own body, at least not enough to feel at ease and comfortable.

Because I was having difficult learning Hebrew and knew that I had been diagnosed with an auditory processing disorder, I made an appointment with a speech therapist for an evaluation. She suggested that I find a neurolinguistic programmer and change some of the basic messages that I had been living with all my life. She said that I had some dyslexia with Hebrew but before I worked on that, I had to clear out some of the incorrect information that I was using to live my life with. I was given Eliezer’s name as someone who practiced neurolinguistic programming and called to interview him. I wanted to be sure I was working with the right person. I was on a fixed income and wanted what little money I had to go for the right treatment.

When I spoke to Eliezer, I knew I wanted to see what he could do for/with me. He first said he thought I did not need NLP work, that I needed to get the trauma out of my body and it was the trauma that was creating the pain. I had spent many years working with trauma survivors and what he said rang true to me. As long as the trauma remains in our bodies, we are not free to live the life we were meant to live. Free to live up to our true potential and creativity. I decided to make and appointment and see what would happen.

The method that we worked with (Tapas Accupressure Technique-TAT) is deceptively simple and easy to use. The theory is we have 12 energy centers that basically match our organ system. For example, there is a heart meridian, lung meridian, stomach meridian, etc. Each of those organs and consequently energy centers absorb unresolved trauma and create a negative reaction in our bodies. The more we hold on to the trauma, the more our bodies are filled with stress and tension. TAT engages the meridians, the seat of the body’s healthy reactions and replaces the traumatic messages with the most important information for the survivor, that the trauma happened long ago, is over and the person is now okay. But this is okay, not in the sense that there is no pain or reason to focus on the trauma but that the person is out of the trauma, is not still endanger because of it. But can feel themselves free from that situation and free to create a different kind of life based on the reality of what is happening right now, not what already happened in the past.

This was crucial information to me. It’s not that I had not known that concept before but no matter how many times I told myself that, I still felt like I was sitting or standing or lying in the middle of the trauma with no way to escape. But working with TAT, I found myself out of the trauma experience. Sometimes I was sitting alone in the room, sometimes dancing with myself or others, sometimes laughing and joking with people who had before been my tormenters.

For the first few sessions, I felt complete release. My body had never felt so good. I was relaxed, peace, had so much more energy, and was more social. People who saw me said I looked as though I had just woken up from a long nap and was refreshed.

But I would not be telling the whole story if I did not add this next piece. After the first 3 or 4 weeks, the work became harder and I was dragging myself through my past traumas with less ease. But and this is very important, with the same kind of equanimity that I had discovered during the first few sessions. I could feel more of the pain of the trauma but I felt it through a veil of healing. I knew it was leaving my body and I knew new layers of trauma were coming up but I was not reliving the trauma. Rather I was releasing the trauma and through that release, I was discovering different parts of myself that I did not know were there or rediscovering parts that I hadn’t had access to for many years.

Between sessions I tracked my progress. There was always some positive change even if I also had more memories or more experiences of different traumas than the one I was working on. But the positive changes didn’t leave even when something new was coming up. I maintained the work I did in the office and added to it both during the week and at the next session. I paid very close attention to what I was feeling, thinking, doing. How high my level of stress was. How much I wanted to be with people, or be alone. I tend to want to be alone so I paid attention to when that was intensified and when I was able to be more social.

The biggest piece of trauma that I worked on was a car accident that happened when I was five. I had three serious injuries and was incapacitated, in bed for 4 months. In doing this work, I connected pains in my head, leg, and shoulder and back with injuries I had received from this accident. Some of them were obvious but I had not connected them. Some were not obvious at all and I was stunned at how long I had been carrying this pain with me. As I focused my attention on each part of the trauma, my body released the trauma and breathed life into itself.

Besides the dimension of working with trauma that actually happened in my life, we also worked on the trauma that happened to my ancestors and to me in other gilgulim. I had done a lot of work about my family and my own past lives but this work got to the heart of the issues-how the traumas of my family affected them and also affected me through them.

There is one thing I would caution you about. It is crucial to be willing to change, to be willing to let go and have your life become more natural and comfortable. All of us can get used to the affects of the trauma and assume that a physical pain or emotional pattern will be with us always. The pain of the trauma has to be more severe than the fear of letting the trauma go. We have to be willing to go through some pain to let go of the pain. One of the wonderful things about TAT is that it does not require us to relive the trauma in order to heal. We may experience some discomfort and some

fear but it passes quickly and easily. TAT makes room in our bodies for the natural body/psychic rhythms to take over.

 


 

One year after my treatment sessions TAT

of my Physical and Mental Abuse

I started my treatments with Eliezer Spetter over a year and a half ago.

I needed to treat traumas and difficulties of which I never dreamed that I would be able to release (after trying other types of treatment as well).

Today, thank G-d, after seeing how TAT has helped me become stable and relaxed, I can stay with this remarkable technique that G-d enabled me to find.

I now experience feelings of release and the disconnection from the traumas that haunted me day and night which hopefully will never come back. I feel free

The most worthwhile and profitable gift that I can have imagined for myself is life after TAT – throwing away all of the waste and garbage that separate us from the wonderful life that G-d has given us.

I do not regret one shekel spent on these treatments, and I spent hundreds, if not thousands, of shekels.

If you have heard about TAT, do not forfeit the opportunity to liberate yourself.


Back Pain, Hand Pain and Physical and Mental Abuse

“I suffered terribly from strong back pain and hand pain. Regarding the hand pain, I was told that there was no chance that the hand would recover; the hand barely functioned. In an X-ray, slipped discs were found and other problems showed up in a CAT scan.

During EFT and TAT treatments with Eliezer Spetter, the pain disappeared almost entirely and the hand resumed functioning. It appears that there is a powerful connection between a person’s physical feeling and his emotional state. I came for treatment because of a personal trauma that I had recently experienced; the trauma was very difficult and I received immense help from the Eliezer Spetter’s unique treatments. My childhood trauma was that of my mother not loving me. After that, between the ages of seven and twelve, I suffered severe physical and mental abuse (I was not raped). The treatments freed me from this trauma as well.

Recently, I experienced a family trauma concerning my husband, a very difficult situation of domestic discord not found normally in a family.

This was a really exceptional problem that I could not discuss, and anyone hearing about it would think it was imaginary, not real. Eliezer’s treatment helped me get back on my feet when I was feeling helpless and afraid. I had been in a terrible state, barely functioning.

Today I am functioning, as is my hand, the one on which that the doctors gave up. I hope that through another few treatments my hand will function fully. I warmly recommend these treatment methods to anyone interested.”


Rape

“How can I cope with people who share my unpleasant past? How can I cope with seeing them? How can I not avoid the area? How can I not be hurt by their behavior around me? Through and during the treatment, I had several encounters; initially, I went into total shock; I didn’t know what to do, where to turn. During the treatment, I learned to face up to people who were unpleasant to be with. For me, that was a victory, because I didn’t run away. I stood my ground. Previously, I could not even speak, but I learned to keep this person away from me, without the whole thing becoming a nuisance. Thank you.”


Physical and Mental Abuse

“Not a day passed in which I didn’t see in my mind’s eye the terrible experiences of physical and mental abuse I experienced. During my last NLP treatment this simply disappeared, and I am able now to live a normal life.

There is a well-know saying of our sages, “G-d provides the solution before the problem”, and I have merited seeing the truth in this with my own eyes. G-d has provided the world with TAT through R. Eliezer, who has helped and saved many people, including my husband and myself.

There are no words to describe our appreciation to you for all your hours and efforts, which saved our lives and our souls.

After the horrible and appalling trauma that continued for 13 years, in which a family member abused me in unspeakable ways. After my marriage, thank G-d, my eyes were opened, and I understood the truth about these unspeakable things that had been withheld from me for 13 years. At that moment a darkness fell upon me, and I felt that I couldn’t continue living after having experienced such physical and emotional traumas, and which are prohibited by the Torah.

G-d, in His infinite mercy and kindness, did not abandon me and I wandered from counselor to counselor and from therapist to therapist, but everything remained the same. I reached despair and total depression but G-d had pity on me, and made me aware of a special therapist, a humble and unassuming person, who lives in pure faith that he is a tool of the Almighty’s, put in this world to help and heal souls among the people of Israel. R. Eliezer Spetter, recommended by worthy and G-d-fearing rabbis, does wonders in healing body and soul for any Jew who needs him.

When I first came to Eliezer I was weak and despairing, full of anger and a desire to take revenge on my whole family. I lived every moment with intense and terrible feelings, together with the bitter traumas that never left me. I very much wanted to become free of the past, of everything in every sense, and to begin life anew. With G-d’s help, R. Eliezer was able to provide solace. It’s unbelievable, but today, thank G-d, after a year of therapy, I live my life in equanimity and self-confidence, strong and independent, empowered, forgiving of the past. Thank G-d, I strive only to move forward in the total belief that everything that happened was decreed by heaven, and that G-d will give me strength to continue doing holy work to His satisfaction in every way. Therefore, Eliezer, you have been a good servant of G-d, saving me in body and soul and for future generations; all the mental, physical and emotional changes I underwent throughout the year of therapy have affected not only me and my husband, but all those around me.

My energy has been changed, and a new life has unfolded before me – it seems like a miracle from above! Therefore I warmly recommend R. Eliezer, who is a worthy messenger from G-d, who aids all in need of help and healing of the soul, which in turn heals the body. With G-d’s help, you can also achieve a new and improved life in every sense, and thus serve Him and do His work whole-heartedly.

Those who seek treatment should not forget that they must be fully committed and desirous of change, and should not be afraid of changing.

Eliezer, it is said that if one saves one person it is as if one saved the entire world. With a heart overflowing with appreciation and many thanks, and blessings that your work bears fruit and brings satisfaction to our Father in heaven, and that G-d’s grace be with you always. The _______ Family


 

Release from trauma to happy life

By the time I reached Jerusalem, I had reached the end of both my patience at how much pain I was in and my ideas of what to do about it. I had been through many different kinds of therapy and body work. I was even a licensed therapist and certified body worker myself. So I knew how to think about healing. But I could not heal my own body, at least not enough to feel at ease and comfortable.

Because I was having difficult learning Hebrew and knew that I had been diagnosed with an auditory processing disorder, I made an appointment with a speech therapist for an evaluation. She suggested that I find a neurolinguistic programmer and change some of the basic messages that I had been living with all my life. She said that I had some dyslexia with Hebrew but before I worked on that, I had to clear out some of the incorrect information that I was using to live my life with. I was given Eliezer’s name as someone who practiced neurolinguistic programming and called to interview him. I wanted to be sure I was working with the right person. I was on a fixed income and wanted what little money I had to go for the right treatment.

When I spoke to Eliezer , I knew I wanted to see what he could do for/with me. He first said he thought I did not need NLP work, that I needed to get the trauma out of my body and it was the trauma that was creating the pain. I had spent many years working with trauma survivors and what he said rang true to me. As long as the trauma remains in our bodies, we are not free to live the life we were meant to live. Free to live up to our true potential and creativity. I decided to make and appointment and see what would happen.

The method that we worked with (Tapas Accupressure Technique-TAT) is deceptively simple and easy to use. The theory is we have 12 energy centers that basically match our organ system. For example, there is a heart meridian, lung meridian, stomach meridian, etc. Each of those organs and consequently energy centers absorb unresolved trauma and create a negative reaction in our bodies. The more we hold on to the trauma, the more our bodies are filled with stress and tension. TAT engages the meridians, the seat of the body’s healthy reactions and replaces the traumatic messages with the most important information for the survivor, that the trauma happened long ago, is over and the person is now okay. But this is okay, not in the sense that there is no pain or reason to focus on the trauma but that the person is out of the trauma, is not still endanger because of it. But can feel themselves free from that situation and free to create a different kind of life based on the reality of what is happening right now, not what already happened in the past.

This was crucial information to me. It’s not that I had not known that concept before but no matter how many times I told myself that, I still felt like I was sitting or standing or lying in the middle of the trauma with no way to escape. But working with TAT, I found myself out of the trauma experience. Sometimes I was sitting alone in the room, sometimes dancing with myself or others, sometimes laughing and joking with people who had before been my tormenters.

For the first few sessions, I felt complete release. My body had never felt so good. I was relaxed, peace, had so much more energy, and was more social. People who saw me said I looked as though I had just woken up from a long nap and was refreshed.

But I would not be telling the whole story if I did not add this next piece. After the first 3 or 4 weeks, the work became harder and I was dragging myself through my past traumas with less ease. But and this is very important, with the same kind of equanimity that I had discovered during the first few sessions. I could feel more of the pain of the trauma but I felt it through a veil of healing. I knew it was leaving my body and I knew new layers of trauma were coming up but I was not reliving the trauma. Rather I was releasing the trauma and through that release, I was discovering different parts of myself that I did not know were there or rediscovering parts that I hadn’t had access to for many years.

Between sessions I tracked my progress. There was always some positive change even if I also had more memories or more experiences of different traumas than the one I was working on. But the positive changes didn’t leave even when something new was coming up. I maintained the work I did in the office and added to it both during the week and at the next session. I paid very close attention to what I was feeling, thinking, doing. How high my level of stress was. How much I wanted to be with people, or be alone. I tend to want to be alone so I paid attention to when that was intensified and when I was able to be more social.

The biggest piece of trauma that I worked on was a car accident that happened when I was five. I had three serious injuries and was incapacitated, in bed for 4 months. In doing this work, I connected pains in my head, leg, and shoulder and back with injuries I had received from this accident. Some of them were obvious but I had not connected them. Some were not obvious at all and I was stunned at how long I had been carrying this pain with me. As I focused my attention on each part of the trauma, my body released the trauma and breathed life into itself.

Besides the dimension of working with trauma that actually happened in my life, we also worked on the trauma that happened to my ancestors and to me in other gilgulim. I had done a lot of work about my family and my own past lives but this work got to the heart of the issues-how the traumas of my family affected them and also affected me through them.

There is one thing I would caution you about. It is crucial to be willing to change, to be willing to let go and have your life become more natural and comfortable. All of us can get used to the affects of the trauma and assume that a physical pain or emotional pattern will be with us always. The pain of the trauma has to be more severe than the fear of letting the trauma go. We have to be willing to go through some pain to let go of the pain. One of the wonderful things about TAT is that it does not require us to relive the trauma in order to heal. We may experience some discomfort and some fear but it passes quickly and easily. TAT makes room in our bodies for the natural body/psychic rhythms to take over.


 

Dear Rav Eliezer Spetter,

I approached you after many years of emotional, social and family difficulties, all due to a troubled childhood. At that stage I felt that it would be better if I were dead.

After trying different methods, including psychology, I did not believe that there was anything that could help me easily or quickly.

The main thing that I liked about TAT is that there was no need to talk about the past, and the treatment worked anyway.

Today, after only twelve treatments, I feel that I have succeeded in separating the facts and traumas of my past from the feelings. I am now able to function on a day-to-day basis without having to deal with the stormy emotions that accompanied me until I began the treatment.

I would like to thank you for being a true and faithful emissary, for the devoted and caring treatment, and for your great efforts that enabled me to feel comfortable and safe.

There are no words to express my wishes to you, but that you continue to help all those who are needy, and the G-d pay your true reward.

Gratefully yours,


I Was Molested Over a Period of Four Years

Dear Eliezer Spetter,

Thank you for your tremendous help with my trauma.

When I was a young child I was molested over a period of four years, and for twenty-four years, I lived in fear, detached from the world and my surroundings. I did not believe that I could heal from this.

With your help, I am now able to begin living.

I often see the person who hurt me, and in the past I would get frightened and tense up. After several sessions I feel much better. I see this person and feel nothing.

You have helped me put the past where it belongs so that I can live in the present and have a hopeful future.

I cannot thank you enough.


Sexual, physical and mental abuse that I suffered from my father

Dear Eliezer.

Thank you very much for the excellent, professional treatments .

When I realized I needed to find a treatment for myself, I was looking for something that would help me get out of the rut I was in, but would not force me to re-experience everything that had happened, and that would give me the strength to properly take care of my children.

Rabbanit Naomi Shapiro recommended TAT, while Rabbanit Levanon had once discussed the technique with me.

The main problem was domestic peace – shlom bayit – especially when I was physically weak: during pregnancy and postpartum. I felt that my husband did not understand me, he was unapproachable and disappointed in me. But the biggest problem, the one that I was afraid treat was the sexual, physical and mental abuse that I suffered from my father, a very complex affair that affected my life more than I realized.

What motivated me to seek help were difficulties that came up with my three year old son who was diagnosed with a developmental delay: he did not talk, would salivate, had motoric difficulties in his hands, and required physical therapy for his clumsiness, occupational therapy, and speech therapy . He found it difficult to go to kindergarten and to become toilet trained.

I was very surprised and troubled my all these, and began to become confused and All this is very surprising to me and weighed me as a mother. I became confused and depressed.

And there were other, various issues which shocked, confused and frightened me, and they awoke all of my repressed problems.

Another cause of trouble was the death of my sister in a car accident during when I was young and which had stayed with me an unresolved trauma throughout my life.

Exactly one year ago, I was cured by Eliezer, who I regard as a messenger from God. My life has changed and greatly improved. I’m happier, relaxed and more at ease, and am amazed that there was something that could help me.

I came to the TAT workshops so I could learn how to continue to treat myself, my dear husband, my sweet children, and others who may have difficulties . I found my calling . I had searched far and wide to find satisfying work whereby I could help others, and thank God, through you, I found it .

 

Allergy

 

No help for my eczema and my weightproblem

 

During our final meeting, when you asked that I write about my treatment, it seemed so simple and clear, but when I sat down to write, I found that I did not know where to begin and I couldn’t bring myself to write. I kept on putting it off until I thought, “Why don’t I just do TAT on this?” So I did…

For the longest time I felt that I was in a whirlpool of pressure and emotional tension, which disturbed me greatly. I could not come to terms with the way I was and I had an enormous amount of mixed thoughts that would overwhelm me. Sometimes I thought that I would explode from the tension. Actually, I did not have any “blowouts”, but inside everything was turbulent and boiling. I was busy with what was going on inside of me, and my head sometimes hurt just too often. I wanted to take care of my issues, to be relaxed and calm, not to get upset about every little thing, just to know how to calm down when I was upset. But in the meantime I didn’t do anything – I just wanted to…

One day, I felt a painful itching on my legs, and saw that my skin was red and peeling. I went to the doctor who told me that I had eczema. For the next few months I used creams and bathed my skin, but to no avail. It would come and go, spread and then lessen and suddenly come back. I had allergy tests to see if I was sensitive to anything. Then I heard that there is a connection between skin problems and stress, and I decided that it was about time to take the matters in hand.

I had already heard about you, but I now made the step and came to see for myself. I had heard that you use a unique technique called TAT, a special gift that G-d has given us by which we can influence the energies within us and thus control our feelings and thoughts. After the first meeting, I could see that the eczema had abated.

Sometimes when I am under pressure or am unable to concentrate or do something, I stop, do TAT, and then continue with renewed strength. I now feel more at ease and relaxed, as though I have been reborn. I can now flow with society, with my family and, most importantly, I am happy within myself.

During my treatments, I also worked on my Weight problems and eating disorders. I am now able to maintain a normal weight.

I would like to thank you for the personal attention, for your openness and care, for the wonderful feelings that accompanied me during each treatment and which I relish when I look back on those treatments.

I also thank G-d who enabled me to know you and this wonderful technique.

Meir

 

 


 

 

Garlic Allergy

 

During the last year, I noticed that when I eat garlic, I feel bad. It affects me and causes digestive problems, nausea, and general feeling of illness. As if the body refuses to accept the garlic.

I decided to treat this because I felt that it really limits me; it bothers me to visit anyone because I didn’t know what is in the food and if they used garlic. I couldn’t stand the smell or even the sight of garlic.

After treatment with TAT under the auspices of Eliezer, I was able to conquer the allergy and I discovered amazing things about myself. I understood that the allergy stemmed from trauma. When I was a child, I suffered from worms in my digestive tract. My parents chose to treat me with garlic. A “power struggle” developed between us. As I child, I refused to accept their aid and apparently my body developed “anti-garlic” tendencies. After the TAT treatment, my body and soul were able to receive the garlic again out of “friendship”.

TAT- a solution for an easy, happy life that flows and is “tasty”. That same day I prepared garlic bread! And it tasted very good, I love it.

It’s important for me to tell people about the miracles that the technique caused. The tool is easy, practical and every person can aid himself with it.

It’s a must for every home!

Thank you, Eliezer

And thanks to G-d,

S from Jerusalem

Do you believe in God or your erroneous beliefs?

Until I started performing TAT,

I did not know how many mistaken beliefs flutter in my head without paying attention to them.

Performing a TAT gave me a lot of publicity,

And today I “hear” different “voices” in my head.

This way I can find out their credibility and change them if necessary.

The therapist needed many explanations until I understood the idea of ​​misconceptions, and even more explanations were needed until I agreed with him.

Instead of explaining, let’s give an example.

I was in the advanced stages of my pregnancy, and the therapist asked me what I wanted to work on about childbirth. I did not have to think much. I was very apprehensive about the pains I suffered from breastfeeding in the first few days after the birth of my previous children. The contractions designed to shrink the extension back to its original shape are far from pleasant, as all mothers who have experienced these know. The appearance of breastfeeding mothers who contort their faces due to the pain, a permanent appearance is in the breastfeeding rooms.

So intense is the pain that some people take painkillers before breastfeeding.

When I told this to the therapist he exclaimed aloud, “But this is a mistaken belief!”. “But it’s true.” I replied, “Ask any mother, especially those who have had many births. They will tell you that it is a fact. Every doctor will explain it to you.” But the therapist insisted it was a misconception. It is not true for real. Only God, and He alone, is the absolute truth! Every truth and every statistic has exceptions. We hear things, and supposedly invite them to happen. This is similar to the prophecies against which we warn parents in raising an offspring to whom they are nevertheless flawed.

Since “victory of the spirit” is not only an expression but a reality within the human mind, our thoughts and beliefs about life and ourselves have a great impact on all of us.

In any case, in the recurring debate between us, he suggested that we simply work on the issue. So it was.

They say a house shows eyes by means of ears. I can truly testify that this was the first time I did not suffer to mean after the birth. Did I have an intention? Yes, there were. But I did not suffer from them. I will explain the meaning of this to you. This time, thanks to TAT it was a completely different experience. Every time I breastfed, and the hormone secreted with the milk while breastfeeding contracted the wide, I wanted to shout, “Yes! The hormones are working, I will have milk and my uterus is shrinking back into place.”

If so, I felt the pain but it was not a negative pain but definitely positive. I also did not fight against the feeling, but rather welcomed it. On top of that, because I saw the pain in a positive light, I did not burden him with all the associations of pain and his fear that would cause me even more pain but a superior feeling of the contracting muscle.

This is very similar to the Swiss birth method in which the midwife is taught to translate the feeling of wide contractions not as a pain from which one must flee,

But as a blessed feeling with which one can act.

This life experience has clearly shown me that the solution lies in the brain. We make it difficult for ourselves because of the wrong thoughts. This concept is also known today in conventional medicine as a psychosomatic disease. Diseases that seem imaginary, but the patient has real physical pain even though physically everything is fine.

The pain is due to irritation in the patient’s brain. However, conventional medicine admits that certain diseases are caused – in part or in full – by stress or fear. This means that an imbalance in a person’s feelings and thoughts can have a direct effect on his physical health, such as high blood pressure, heart disease or cancer.

A few days ago I again saw clearly how our brains cause trouble. I went to the post office hoping the session could go through the computer with some details of banking activity. He was unable to find the information I requested. As I was leaving the post office I noticed a headache. I immediately realized the headache was caused by my anger at the post office. I did a quick TAT and told myself that “even if things don’t work out the way I want, I don’t need a headache.” When I performed the TAT I was amazed to feel how the headache passes.

A few days later I discovered another discovery. We are not aware of the amount of misconceptions we have. Throughout childhood we absorb all the information about life as the sponge absorbs water. Children do not have the ability to analyze or critique the information they absorb, rather they record it in true gravity, and the information is stored in the lower drawers of our brain, in the subconscious. Later for free, we respond and manage to agree on what is stored in our minds. I will bring a personal example again.

Some time ago I had a very busy Friday, a day where I stood on my feet for an entire day. After lighting the Shabbat candles, I fell into a chair and noticed leg pain. I said to myself, “No wonder, you stood on the continuation r all day, and more with being overweight.” “Just a moment,” I wondered to myself, “this is a misconception. Many people stand on their feet all day long, and many are overweight too, but their legs do not hurt.”

There must be a misconception here. I performed a TAT and what appeared? Suddenly I saw in the depths of my mind my mother tying special health shoes for many hours of standing and cleaning for Passover – and she was really overweight. there it is. Although my mother never said anything in that direction, just seeing her wear the shoes she remembered in the memory of the girl that standing for a long time can cause leg pain. After I finished the TAT I noticed, to my surprise, that my legs stopped hurting. Really amazing.

The list is very long. Today, using placebo drugs, the medical world has established impressive statistics that talk about the concept of “victory of the spirit.”

A person who knows he is not a victim of circumstances has a sense of power. He can deal positively with any experience God puts before him. It all depends on his response, he must check his mind and make sure he does see life in the right way.

Successfully!

I was privileged to draw closer to the soul within me that was given to me by the Name

In honor of Eliezer Speter

I want to tell a little about all the moves I went through, much thanks to the fact that I got to know this special method that Gd brought into the world in a generation of such attempts – the TAT server.

From a young age I went through traumas that left a mark on my soul that I just never saw a chance to get out of, but I came to Eliezer through a friend, literally from heaven, when I no longer wanted to live because water had reached my soul.

Already to the fireplace

R. The first treatment with Eliezer I started to feel that something was starting to move, to let go… But I knew it was going to be a process. So after a number of treatments in which I invested all my attention in terms of time – because I had to spend a lot of time traveling from the north to Jerusalem – I felt an improvement.

And wherever a person wants to walk, God leads him.

And since then my life has changed from end to end: I have been privileged to approach the soul within me given to me by the Name, to purify and remove from it all the “shells” that have been inflicted on me as a result of the traumas; I began to approach the Creator of the world who wanted to give me another life, a life of liberation and joy, a life of truth and purpose.

Today I have had a Teshuvah for seven years, I was privileged to do a gradual and healthy process out of love and desire to find out what God wants from me and I discovered a life of Torah and mitzvos that today I do not replace them for any life. That everything he does – for the better he does. The traumas have been released from me, and I feel much healthier, accepting and whole with myself.

After a few years I went to study the TAT course with Eliezer in order to get tools and continue working with myself. So now I am in the stages of the internship and I also get to do a TAT on myself and release emotional barriers, and also help others and take care of them as part of the experience.

So in conclusion, what is left for me is to say a big thank you to the Creator of the world who has privileged me to approach Him through faithful messengers to whom I owe a great deal of gratitude, who take care of the TAT method: Eliezer Spetter and his dear wife Eve.

Thank you so much.

Distress and inability to learn

I learned a lot of Torah and then I went into a very big period of decline and lack of desire both in learning

I learned a lot of Torah, kept to very many leaderships in Judaism, and then entered a very great period of decline and lack of desire in both study and leadership, until I reached a breaking point, from where I wanted to ascend, and did not know what I like, and what I do not like. I was very scared to go up again lest I fall again, I was very scared of “what will they say about me” and so on.

The treatment was at first funny and then even frustrating. That is, instead of dealing intellectually with the soul, R. Eliezer memorizes all kinds of sentences for you and you, like a robot / machine, release yourself – but slowly. I have put a lot of trust in the method and way of treatment to cleanse ourselves of all sorts of foundations that we are laid and act on.

Nowadays after treating TAT, I feel I have the power to decide for myself what I want. I have more courage to go back to places of learning at a good level, and go back to leadership, the courage to be more balanced and happy like that, and the ability to look at myself rather than those around me and what they want from me.

Thanks,

To Eliezer

Today, on the eve of my wedding, I owe you one simple, short, but very deep word:

“Thanks!”

Thank you that thanks to your care I have returned to doing and engaging in what I love so much, and what I am so connected to – Torah study and prayer.

About a year ago I came to you for the first time, mentally wounded, in pain and full of internal anguish, in a brace, unable to function.

It happened gradually, I studied in a yeshiva for several years and as the years went by I felt more and more difficult to learn, I felt an inner distress every time I studied, until one morning I got up and felt I could not go to a yeshiva. It just created in me some intense inner distress that did not allow me to get close to any book, study and even prayer became a burdensome and oppressive burden. I got up in the morning when my whole world was taken from me…

Studying was all my occupation and all my ambition, and suddenly, I could not realize and deal with what was most important and precious to me, I went through a very difficult period.

In consultation with a rabbi, I took a year off from studying for a year and turned to engaging in education, but I was still dealing with terrible anguish. Every prayer was a distress that I just wanted to end, the stay in the synagogue was like a heavy and oppressive burden for me. Of course asked for holy books I could not get close.

After a year I went back to study in the morning for a month, it was nice. But after a month, I once again had the distress and turmoil of everything to do with learning. I felt like I was standing with my back to the wall, I have nowhere to run…

I talked about it with Rabbi Elyakim Lebanon Shlita and he referred me to you. We met for several months, dozens of meetings, and slowly, I released distress after distress, with thorough and deep work, we managed to get to different experiences I went through that actually made me accumulate distress and suffocation. Nothing, prevented me from studying.

Monday I went back to study and teach Torah and I feel great.

The method you work with is a real miracle, an amazing method! No words. Your treatment I gave me throughout the treatment was wonderful.

Also there is no doubt that you should take this method to life, continue to apply it even after your treatment, in dealing with everyday difficulties.

You have won the privilege of helping a Jew to return to the Torah and to pray out of joy and peace of mind.

I congratulate you for helping many people over the days and years.

Thank you Thank you Thank you!

I could not read at all ..

My name is Ephraim.

A few years ago, I could not read at all. I went from institute to institute and from doctor to doctor to professors…

I progressed, but when I read I read slowly and it just did not flow to me, and more than that, reading before people was a death for me. Stress, Fear, Fever… I blushed when asked to read. Until I got to Eliezer Speter…

Now, after a few sessions, I’m just happy. I read fast. I do not have the stress and fear I had before the treatment!

I thank Eliezer very much and I wish him to continue to succeed in advancing the patients in this way and that God will send him blessing and success in all his deeds.

post Scriptum. I really enjoy Eliezer’s kindness and warmth and patience. I had fun coming.

Thank you.

Making dreams come true

“I am a fan of cricket, and my only wish, to reach 100 points, seemed like a dream that would not come true at the age of 47. A year ago I came to you and the next day I got 106 points!
And the day after that 113 points! Since then I have always been successful in the game and my friends do not believe in the big change that has taken place in my ability! I use EFT whenever there is an emotional challenge. “
Chris, cricket coach

I had been suffering from low self-confidence and self-image

I came to TAT because I had been suffering from low self-confidence and self-image, poor social skills, fear of success, and a need for approval from others for most of my life, all stemming from childhood trauma.

TAT has helped me reconnect with my true self by healing and removing the fears, pain, and false concepts I had about myself and my capabilities, step by step, painlessly and enjoyably. I say enjoyably because I was amazed at the changes within me after each session. Early on I had already found myself being more confident and secure at home and at work.

B”H, I am no longer plagued by self-doubts or feelings of inadequacy, and it shows in my professional and interpersonal relationships.

I can truly say that through TAT I have not just discovered a “new” me, but have rediscovered the real me — and I’m forever grateful!


Pressures & Self Confidence

 

I reached the conclusion that something was preventing me from succeeding.

Through a self-examination of the job interviews I had had in the past few years in my occupational and family life, I reached the conclusion that I had a problem with my self-confidence. As a result, I was overly pressured. After discussing the subject with my wife, she said that she loved

me, but I was the most stressed person she knew.’

I found out that Eliezer deals with this area, too.

The results:

I was bent over and stressed and after the first meeting, I left upright and unburdened.

After four meetings, I had a new job.

After a number of meetings, I had my blood pressure tested. The results: I hadn ‘ t had such low blood pressure in 12 years !

I am more open now- less concentrated on myself ,willing to accept criticism and capable of understanding other people more easily. I express myself ,more clearly. I have learned basic tools to help myself.

In conclusion, the turn to treatment was an investment in interpersonal skills and in health. And it has repercussions on all aspects of life.

My thanks to G-d and to Eliezer for the tool to the rectification of the serious mistakes that were made in the past.


 

I was insecure about the way I looked and who I was.

I began treatment with TAT because I felt stuck due to things I had experienced throughout my life: I felt that I could not open up to people and connect with them, especially so when I tried to go out with men. I also felt that I did not appreciate myself enough; I felt that although they told me that they love me, those around me did not really do so and I felt very negative about myself. I was insecure about the way I looked and who I was. I have a complex relationship, with my mother and never knew how to deal with it.

Following treatment, I felt things released within. Suddenly I believe in myself. I believe that people really like me for who I am. I decided to appreciate myself far more! I never felt this way before – I’ve always been self-critical in everything but, due to TAT, I don’t feel that way any longer: I am now far more open and connect with people. I hope that soon I’ll be able to go out on shiduchim and be’ezrat Hashem soon find a husband. My attitude towards my mother has also improved due to small tips I received during the treatment sessions.

This is an opportunity to say a huge “thank you” for everything; I do not know what I’d have done without TAT. By the way, I previously never believed in any kind of treatment, but a friend managed to convince me to try “just once”. Thank G-d I listened. My experience with TAT was very successful and has helped me tremendously.

 

 


 

 

Total humiliation to a new life and feeling a new person

I am married with three children. I came to Eliezer Spetter due to the accumulation of thoughts that made me crazy. From the beginning of the first treatment, I saw a light at the end of the tunnel: an overflowing light to a new world and liberation from the oppressive thoughts and troubles that I had suffered from the beginning of my childhood: in short, to begin my start life over again relaxed and feeling free.

From a feeling of worthlessness that came after being humiliated and called names from my childhood through adulthood, after pressure from others and zero tolerance towards me, I realized that I was worth something, someone who can act positively and not be hurt by other people’s anger; I can look people in the eye and forgive them without a trace of fear – Now I know how to respond, how to relate to other people and succeed in life.

 


 

I had problems with my belief in myself and was really scared to talk to people.

Greetings to all who read this letter,

I first met dear Eliezer six years ago. I can honestly say that I did not know what to expect. I had problems with my belief in myself and was really scared to talk to people. I felt that I was really “small” and had to always consider other people’s opinions without allowing myself to express my own feelings. This was all before I met Eliezer.

Eliezer was able to solve everything through an thorough series of steps while explaining everything that we were doing. We found that I had hidden problematic behaviours that I did not know about, and these were cured as well and an emotional block that I had carried with me for years was released.

To summarize, I would like to encourage everyone who is on this journey. Believe in yourselves and believe in the method! It works one hundred percent.

Good luck to all, and thank you Eliezer from the bottom of my heart.

 

_____________

 

 

“I have undergone many changes; I have always managed somehow, but never felt as I do now; I’m much more self-confident.

 

 

We also worked on my hearing and it has improved. Now I have much more belief in my abilities. Even if I do something incorrectly, I check and fix it. I am also more confident in my work. Thank you.”

 


 

Self-confidence, Fears, Illness


-Why did you come to me?

“I came because of a lack of self-confidence that resulted from all kinds of internal fears.

-Illnesses, serious illnesses?

“Yes”.

-How are you feeling now?

“After treatment? Thank G-d, I feel better. More relaxed from day to day, not thinking about those things”.

-Do you believe that, in your current condition you are able to find a marriage partner?

“G-d willing. I feel much more confident, for sure”.

-Are you feeling stronger?
“I view myself differently, I see myself in a different light. I can do more than I could previously”.

-Faith?
“Faith, you have to share faith, everyone should share, that’s fine.

 

 


 

Self-confidence, a difficult life, sadness and pressure

“I had many difficult things happen in my life, much strife and much sadness and much pressure, and, thank G-d, due to Eliezer and the TAT method I left all that. Today I am able to function on my own, and, happily, feel like an entirely different person.

-Concerning your mother? That was difficult, right?
“Towards my parents, the situation was the worst. Thank G-d I rid myself of all that, with much help from Heaven and from Eliezer Spetter, who really saves people with the efforts he expends. Step by step things clear up. May G-d bless Eliezer and grant him success.

I have a physical problem that has not been resolved, but the physical problem is only the result of the spiritual problem. With this method, I feel that I have received help. I came with the objective of improving myself in avodat HaShem-serving G-d.

 

This method has definitely helped me find a way to overcome my anger that results from my physical problem, but I think it is only on condition that we continually say that the Almighty is always with us and that He can help us. Then we actually do have Divine assistance, and you are G-d’s instrument to help us improve our attributes, to improve ourselves, and to help ourselves.
There is no doubt that this method helped me. G-d willing, we will succeed in overcoming many things and you will continue this work.

I came here suffering from lack of self-confidence, which stemmed from various childhood traumas that caused me to have a wrong self-image, and, therefore, I viewed my family incorrectly.

I demanded from them things that I wished would change in myself, and this created distance from my family, a feeling of lack of love from my parents.

This increased my need for love, my pursuit of love, and my lack of receiving love, resulting in a wide radius of very difficult feelings. I came here feeling that my whole world was falling apart and that there was no hope left in my life.

Since I began this method, things have changed dramatically. Suddenly, no problems, everything is fine, I lack nothing, and I am satisfied with my life. Now I need nothing, I just live and love. I had all kinds of imaginations that caused me to feel unconnected, because of traumas in my head and in my heart. Thank you very much.

 

 


 

I came to you in order to be a better person , I felt that I had become the real “me”.

Dear Eliezer

I came to you in order to be a better person. I thought that my job was the problem, and that was what caused all difficulties in my life; that due to my job I have to be the one who determines the facts, and run my life and other people’s lives as I see fit.

I thank God that I found you and that you were a faithful messenger to help me see that my behavior can be changed and has nothing to do with my job, that if I don’t heal the root of the problem, it will appear somewhere else. What happens to people is not the issue – the issue is what happens within a person because of what has happened in the past. Whatever goes on inside is because of all kinds of damaged parts of the past that did not have a chance to heal, they were not treated or processed correctly.

I left with tears in my eyes. Thank God I was able to work at my job, the same job that what so challenging, and it was there that I was able to decide not to judge or make decisions but to pay attention and listen. I succeeded in changing my views easily and without a lot of effort.

I felt that I had become the real “me” and had no need to judge others the way I had judged myself.

I thank Hashem who gave you the ability and the talent to develop this system in ways that helped release the anguish that had been with me for so many years.

 

Physical, Mental Abuse

 

 

One year after my treatment sessions TAT

of my Physical and Mental Abuse

 

I started my treatments with Eliezer Spetter over a year and a half ago.

I needed to treat traumas and difficulties of which I never dreamed that I would be able to release (after trying other types of treatment as well).

Today, thank G-d, after seeing how TAT has helped me become stable and relaxed, I can stay with this remarkable technique that G-d enabled me to find.

I now experience feelings of release and the disconnection from the traumas that haunted me day and night which hopefully will never come back. I feel free

The most worthwhile and profitable gift that I can have imagined for myself is life after TAT – throwing away all of the waste and garbage that separate us from the wonderful life that G-d has given us.

I do not regret one shekel spent on these treatments, and I spent hundreds, if not thousands, of shekels.

If you have heard about TAT, do not forfeit the opportunity to liberate yourself.

 

 


 

Back Pain, Hand Pain and Physical and Mental Abuse

 

“I suffered terribly from strong back pain and hand pain. Regarding the hand pain, I was told that there was no chance that the hand would recover; the hand barely functioned. In an X-ray, slipped discs were found and other problems showed up in a CAT scan.

During EFT and TAT treatments with Eliezer Spetter, the pain disappeared almost entirely and the hand resumed functioning. It appears that there is a powerful connection between a person’s physical feeling and his emotional state. I came for treatment because of a personal trauma that I had recently experienced; the trauma was very difficult and I received immense help from the Eliezer Spetter’s unique treatments. My childhood trauma was that of my mother not loving me. After that, between the ages of seven and twelve, I suffered severe physical and mental abuse (I was not raped). The treatments freed me from this trauma as well.

Recently, I experienced a family trauma concerning my husband, a very difficult situation of domestic discord not found normally in a family.

This was a really exceptional problem that I could not discuss, and anyone hearing about it would think it was imaginary, not real. Eliezer’s treatment helped me get back on my feet when I was feeling helpless and afraid. I had been in a terrible state, barely functioning.

Today I am functioning, as is my hand, the one on which that the doctors gave up. I hope that through another few treatments my hand will function fully. I warmly recommend these treatment methods to anyone interested.”

 


Rape

 

“How can I cope with people who share my unpleasant past? How can I cope with seeing them? How can I not avoid the area? How can I not be hurt by their behavior around me? Through and during the treatment, I had several encounters; initially, I went into total shock; I didn’t know what to do, where to turn. During the treatment, I learned to face up to people who were unpleasant to be with. For me, that was a victory, because I didn’t run away. I stood my ground. Previously, I could not even speak, but I learned to keep this person away from me, without the whole thing becoming a nuisance. Thank you.”

 


Physical and Mental Abuse

 

“Not a day passed in which I didn’t see in my mind’s eye the terrible experiences of physical and mental abuse I experienced. During my last NLP treatment this simply disappeared, and I am able now to live a normal life.

There is a well-know saying of our sages, “G-d provides the solution before the problem”, and I have merited seeing the truth in this with my own eyes. G-d has provided the world with TAT through R. Eliezer, who has helped and saved many people, including my husband and myself.

There are no words to describe our appreciation to you for all your hours and efforts, which saved our lives and our souls.

 

After the horrible and appalling trauma that continued for 13 years, in which a family member abused me in unspeakable ways. After my marriage, thank G-d, my eyes were opened, and I understood the truth about these unspeakable things that had been withheld from me for 13 years. At that moment a darkness fell upon me, and I felt that I couldn’t continue living after having experienced such physical and emotional traumas, and which are prohibited by the Torah.

G-d, in His infinite mercy and kindness, did not abandon me and I wandered from counselor to counselor and from therapist to therapist, but everything remained the same. I reached despair and total depression but G-d had pity on me, and made me aware of a special therapist, a humble and unassuming person, who lives in pure faith that he is a tool of the Almighty’s, put in this world to help and heal souls among the people of Israel. R. Eliezer Spetter, recommended by worthy and G-d-fearing rabbis, does wonders in healing body and soul for any Jew who needs him.

When I first came to Eliezer I was weak and despairing, full of anger and a desire to take revenge on my whole family. I lived every moment with intense and terrible feelings, together with the bitter traumas that never left me. I very much wanted to become free of the past, of everything in every sense, and to begin life anew. With G-d’s help, R. Eliezer was able to provide solace. It’s unbelievable, but today, thank G-d, after a year of therapy, I live my life in equanimity and self-confidence, strong and independent, empowered, forgiving of the past. Thank G-d, I strive only to move forward in the total belief that everything that happened was decreed by heaven, and that G-d will give me strength to continue doing holy work to His satisfaction in every way. Therefore, Eliezer, you have been a good servant of G-d, saving me in body and soul and for future generations; all the mental, physical and emotional changes I underwent throughout the year of therapy have affected not only me and my husband, but all those around me.

My energy has been changed, and a new life has unfolded before me – it seems like a miracle from above! Therefore I warmly recommend R. Eliezer, who is a worthy messenger from G-d, who aids all in need of help and healing of the soul, which in turn heals the body. With G-d’s help, you can also achieve a new and improved life in every sense, and thus serve Him and do His work whole-heartedly.

Those who seek treatment should not forget that they must be fully committed and desirous of change, and should not be afraid of changing.

Eliezer, it is said that if one saves one person it is as if one saved the entire world. With a heart overflowing with appreciation and many thanks, and blessings that your work bears fruit and brings satisfaction to our Father in heaven, and that G-d’s grace be with you always. The _______ Family

 

 

 


 

Release from trauma to happy life

 

By the time I reached Jerusalem, I had reached the end of both my patience at how much pain I was in and my ideas of what to do about it. I had been through many different kinds of therapy and body work. I was even a licensed therapist and certified body worker myself. So I knew how to think about healing. But I could not heal my own body, at least not enough to feel at ease and comfortable.

Because I was having difficult learning Hebrew and knew that I had been diagnosed with an auditory processing disorder, I made an appointment with a speech therapist for an evaluation. She suggested that I find a neurolinguistic programmer and change some of the basic messages that I had been living with all my life. She said that I had some dyslexia with Hebrew but before I worked on that, I had to clear out some of the incorrect information that I was using to live my life with. I was given Eliezer’s name as someone who practiced neurolinguistic programming and called to interview him. I wanted to be sure I was working with the right person. I was on a fixed income and wanted what little money I had to go for the right treatment.

When I spoke to Eliezer , I knew I wanted to see what he could do for/with me. He first said he thought I did not need NLP work, that I needed to get the trauma out of my body and it was the trauma that was creating the pain. I had spent many years working with trauma survivors and what he said rang true to me. As long as the trauma remains in our bodies, we are not free to live the life we were meant to live. Free to live up to our true potential and creativity. I decided to make and appointment and see what would happen.

The method that we worked with (Tapas Accupressure Technique-TAT) is deceptively simple and easy to use. The theory is we have 12 energy centers that basically match our organ system. For example, there is a heart meridian, lung meridian, stomach meridian, etc. Each of those organs and consequently energy centers absorb unresolved trauma and create a negative reaction in our bodies. The more we hold on to the trauma, the more our bodies are filled with stress and tension. TAT engages the meridians, the seat of the body’s healthy reactions and replaces the traumatic messages with the most important information for the survivor, that the trauma happened long ago, is over and the person is now okay. But this is okay, not in the sense that there is no pain or reason to focus on the trauma but that the person is out of the trauma, is not still endanger because of it. But can feel themselves free from that situation and free to create a different kind of life based on the reality of what is happening right now, not what already happened in the past.

This was crucial information to me. It’s not that I had not known that concept before but no matter how many times I told myself that, I still felt like I was sitting or standing or lying in the middle of the trauma with no way to escape. But working with TAT, I found myself out of the trauma experience. Sometimes I was sitting alone in the room, sometimes dancing with myself or others, sometimes laughing and joking with people who had before been my tormenters.

For the first few sessions, I felt complete release. My body had never felt so good. I was relaxed, peace, had so much more energy, and was more social. People who saw me said I looked as though I had just woken up from a long nap and was refreshed.

But I would not be telling the whole story if I did not add this next piece. After the first 3 or 4 weeks, the work became harder and I was dragging myself through my past traumas with less ease. But and this is very important, with the same kind of equanimity that I had discovered during the first few sessions. I could feel more of the pain of the trauma but I felt it through a veil of healing. I knew it was leaving my body and I knew new layers of trauma were coming up but I was not reliving the trauma. Rather I was releasing the trauma and through that release, I was discovering different parts of myself that I did not know were there or rediscovering parts that I hadn’t had access to for many years.

Between sessions I tracked my progress. There was always some positive change even if I also had more memories or more experiences of different traumas than the one I was working on. But the positive changes didn’t leave even when something new was coming up. I maintained the work I did in the office and added to it both during the week and at the next session. I paid very close attention to what I was feeling, thinking, doing. How high my level of stress was. How much I wanted to be with people, or be alone. I tend to want to be alone so I paid attention to when that was intensified and when I was able to be more social.

The biggest piece of trauma that I worked on was a car accident that happened when I was five. I had three serious injuries and was incapacitated, in bed for 4 months. In doing this work, I connected pains in my head, leg, and shoulder and back with injuries I had received from this accident. Some of them were obvious but I had not connected them. Some were not obvious at all and I was stunned at how long I had been carrying this pain with me. As I focused my attention on each part of the trauma, my body released the trauma and breathed life into itself.

Besides the dimension of working with trauma that actually happened in my life, we also worked on the trauma that happened to my ancestors and to me in other gilgulim. I had done a lot of work about my family and my own past lives but this work got to the heart of the issues-how the traumas of my family affected them and also affected me through them.

There is one thing I would caution you about. It is crucial to be willing to change, to be willing to let go and have your life become more natural and comfortable. All of us can get used to the affects of the trauma and assume that a physical pain or emotional pattern will be with us always. The pain of the trauma has to be more severe than the fear of letting the trauma go. We have to be willing to go through some pain to let go of the pain. One of the wonderful things about TAT is that it does not require us to relive the trauma in order to heal. We may experience some discomfort and some fear but it passes quickly and easily. TAT makes room in our bodies for the natural body/psychic rhythms to take over.


 

Dear Rav Eliezer Spetter,

 

I approached you after many years of emotional, social and family difficulties, all due to a troubled childhood. At that stage I felt that it would be better if I were dead.

After trying different methods, including psychology, I did not believe that there was anything that could help me easily or quickly.

The main thing that I liked about TAT is that there was no need to talk about the past, and the treatment worked anyway.

Today, after only twelve treatments, I feel that I have succeeded in separating the facts and traumas of my past from the feelings. I am now able to function on a day-to-day basis without having to deal with the stormy emotions that accompanied me until I began the treatment.

I would like to thank you for being a true and faithful emissary, for the devoted and caring treatment, and for your great efforts that enabled me to feel comfortable and safe.

There are no words to express my wishes to you, but that you continue to help all those who are needy, and the G-d pay your true reward.

Gratefully yours,


I Was Molested Over a Period of Four Years

Dear Eliezer Spetter,

Thank you for your tremendous help with my trauma.

When I was a young child I was molested over a period of four years, and for twenty-four years, I lived in fear, detached from the world and my surroundings. I did not believe that I could heal from this.

With your help, I am now able to begin living.

I often see the person who hurt me, and in the past I would get frightened and tense up. After several sessions I feel much better. I see this person and feel nothing.

You have helped me put the past where it belongs so that I can live in the present and have a hopeful future.

I cannot thank you enough.


Sexual, physical and mental abuse that I suffered from my father

Dear Eliezer.

Thank you very much for the excellent, professional treatments .

When I realized I needed to find a treatment for myself, I was looking for something that would help me get out of the rut I was in, but would not force me to re-experience everything that had happened, and that would give me the strength to properly take care of my children.

Rabbanit Naomi Shapiro recommended TAT, while Rabbanit Levanon had once discussed the technique with me.

The main problem was domestic peace – shlom bayit – especially when I was physically weak: during pregnancy and postpartum. I felt that my husband did not understand me, he was unapproachable and disappointed in me. But the biggest problem, the one that I was afraid treat was the sexual, physical and mental abuse that I suffered from my father, a very complex affair that affected my life more than I realized.

What motivated me to seek help were difficulties that came up with my three year old son who was diagnosed with a developmental delay: he did not talk, would salivate, had motoric difficulties in his hands, and required physical therapy for his clumsiness, occupational therapy, and speech therapy . He found it difficult to go to kindergarten and to become toilet trained.

I was very surprised and troubled my all these, and began to become confused and All this is very surprising to me and weighed me as a mother. I became confused and depressed.

And there were other, various issues which shocked, confused and frightened me, and they awoke all of my repressed problems.

Another cause of trouble was the death of my sister in a car accident during when I was young and which had stayed with me an unresolved trauma throughout my life.

Exactly one year ago, I was cured by Eliezer, who I regard as a messenger from God. My life has changed and greatly improved. I’m happier, relaxed and more at ease, and am amazed that there was something that could help me.

I came to the TAT workshops so I could learn how to continue to treat myself, my dear husband, my sweet children, and others who may have difficulties . I found my calling . I had searched far and wide to find satisfying work whereby I could help others, and thank God, through you, I found it .

 

 

 

________________________

 

Heavy Mental Disorders

 

From Difficult Psychiatric condition to Sanity

First of all I would like to address those of you who have had the bitter experience of the lack of ability on the part of conventional medicine, and especially psychology and psychiatry, to answer patients’ needs; meaning to help improve their conditions even the slightest relief  (I am not talking about the large amounts of anti-psychotic medications, for example Zyprexa which in many instances definitely release the patient from his psychosis, but treats only the symptoms and not the illness itself).

You should not forget that every medication has its side effects (usually more than one). It would be funny if it were not so sad that one of the side effects of quite a few of the medications for depression is the contemplation of suicide…

Therefore, in psychiatry, the patient is his own guinea pig since the effect of the medication differs among individuals.

Regarding psychology: in order to reach any kind of progress, one has to undergo years upon years of visits, a few times a week and to waste a ton of time and bags of money – and in addition to your previous troubles, you become dependent upon your therapist.

Medicine has nothing to offer most of our present-day afflictions, may they be eating disorders or personal problems.

I would like to relate my story: I am one of those in whose medical chart it is written, “Well known in the psychiatric ward”. I began my acquaintanceship with the psychiatric ward at the age of fifteen. That was over twenty years ago. My history has recorded approximately fourteen (full) hospitalizations, the longest being for nine months…suicide attempts, innumerable scars on my body… and what do they have to say about it? “You are fortunate that you’ve passed your thirtieth birthday. It gets easier now.” I really don’t know what they are talking about because I have been hospitalized more than twice since my thirtieth birthday.

I was also in rehabilitation – not the best institution in the country but certainly one of the better ones. I was there for two years, and the best part was that I made a few good friends.

The only people within the system (psychology and psychiatry) who were of any help were those who cared about me. Their caring helped. I can’t see much connection between caring and psychology. The majority of psychologists who I have met usually say, “And how do you feel?” “What do you think about that?” “We are sorry that you feel this way” Is that what we need psychologists for? Moreover, the “treatment” can cost up to IS 600 per hour.

After the first meeting with Eliezer Spetter I already felt some relief, and even more so – hope. Hope that I had lost so long ago.

After a few more meetings, not only did I feel like a different person, I also saw and understood myself and the world differently.

I am a different person. I am healthy.

The choice is in one’s hands. Please choose life and contact Eliezer.

Thank you Eliezer.


Psychotic Post Natal Depression

Dear Eliezer,
Thank you so much for all of your help and for the tools that you gave me to deal with the difficulties that I had encountered.
Here are a few details about my past:
I have been married for five years and we have four children: twin boys aged four, a year-old son, and a daughter who is four months old.
After the birth of the twins (who were born through caesarian section) I began to get very confused, I was unable to fall asleep – often due to unpleasant and disturbing dreams, I developed a fear of anything around me, including people, objects, decorations on clothes, etc.  I cried a lot, I was sad, I had sudden mood swings, childhood memories affected my moods and I was concerned regarding my functioning as a mother.
The same thing happened after the second birth (which was a normal delivery). This time it was worse, and I had to go to a psychiatrist who treated me with medication until the condition was resolved.
I naturally did not want this to happen after the third birth, and I was naturally rather anxious.  A good friend told me about Eliezer, and I contacted him.
At first I was hesitant about exposing personal details, but after realizing that I did not have to tell any more than I wanted, I became more and more comfortable during the meetings.
I started meeting with Eliezer during the fourth month of my pregnancy.  I wanted to feel more comfortable regarding the pregnancy itself, and after a number of meetings I felt quite different.  My anxieties disappeared, the whole pregnancy was more pleasant and I was confident that I would experience a positive labour. The birth was indeed peaceful and I felt fine.
A few days after the birth, the dreams started to recur, and I recontacted Eliezer.  After two meetings the dreams stopped – with no medical intervention.
Now that I am familiar with the system, I am able to treat myself in any situation when I feel that I am getting nervous or upset.
I feel that Eliezer’s treatment has an influential effect on the source of physical and emotional problems that are within our bodies.

 


 

 

Treatment of a Psychotic Client

You arrived with a patient who was psychotic, that’s my understanding. Perhaps you could say a few words about that? What happened with him, how did things develop?
The patient came to me in a state of total distraction, which caused him much hardship. Thank Heaven, G-d sent me a messenger, who told me that there is a person, Eliezer Spetter, who can do wonders in just a few treatment sessions. By nature I am unimpressed with these sorts of things – it’s a known fact that it is said about many people that they have amazing abilities, when in actuality, it isn’t true. However, since the person who gave the recommendation is highly authoritative and reliable, and he told me that Eliezer is a person with much heavenly guidance in helping persons in need, I reached him, and, thank G-d, was extremely favorably impressed. I was convinced that in a few sessions Eliezer succeeds in setting a person upon the right path.
Before the treatment session, the patient suffered from a number of traumas, which caused him difficulties – these all disappeared entirely. This wasn’t a trauma or two, but a whole collection of traumas that greatly hindered the patient’s normal functioning. Thank G-d, Eliezer peeled the layers off of the onion, layer by layer, until reaching splendid results!
The patient’s life changed dramatically. Every worry and fear was corrected. Each disturbance that he suffered from was eliminated, and he returned to living a normal life with more strength and might. The patient began to exhibit initiative that he had never expressed before these treatment sessions. These sessions revealed additional things, new-found capabilities, and courage to speak and express heartfelt thoughts and feelings, that had never been heard. After these treatments great improvement was seen, thank G-d.

 


 

Help in Overcoming Schizophrenia

I was diagnosed with schizophrenia and depression, and was given medications accordingly.
I contacted Eliezer Spetter by recommendation from the chassidic rabbi Rabbi Shmuel Munk, after my hospitalization in the psychiatric ward, which did not help me at all. Of course I take pills, but after three months of noticing that the pills alone were not helping me, I turned to Rabbi Shmuel Munk, and he recommended that I travel to Jerusalem to Eliezer Spetter.
Five months have passed since then, and I feel much better, thank G-d.
When I arrived for the first session, I was in bad shape, confused, dysfunctional, helpless, and very perplexed.
Through Eliezer Spetter’s guidance, using methods that he explained how to use, I returned, step-by-step, to almost full functioning, both at home and in public.
Eliezer Spetter is a wise and sensitive person, and, most important, he wants to provide help to anyone to overcome difficult emotional states. Thank G-d he helped me with his special methods, and through understanding, without stress.
Many, many thanks for all the patience and help.

 


 

Depersonalization and Derealization

 

I am twenty-one years of age. I first came to Eliezer two months ago in a complicated emotional state that included depersonalization and realization – feelings of disconnection and severe helplessness.

After reading about these conditions on psychological and psychiatric sites of the internet, I understood that mine was a serious condition and nothing could help me.

After much desperate searching, I decided to try this technique – TAT.

I met with Eliezer and after the first meeting, I felt an enormous release, and thus we continued until all the symptoms disappeared – all through Eliezer, his understanding, his sensitivity, and his amazingly strong will to heal me completely.

After two months of treatment, I am a new person, strong and with the tools to deal with any problem that I may come up against.

Eliezer, I would like to thank you from the bottom of my heart for your dedicated treatment.

With love and much appreciation.

 


Post-Partum Depression and Psychosis

After previously suffering from post partum depression, I naturally wanted to prevent its return. I wanted to experience a normal childbirth and post partum period.

When I began TAT and sessions with you, I did not want to live anymore. I lay in bed throughout the day and started to smoke again. My life was simply a disaster and bringing children into the world normally was a problem for me.

We worked hard with TAT and I slowly I sensed improvement. Then, after a number of sessions, I had a relapse, because I started to think about something terrible that a rabbi had once told me. You helped me to express this terrible edict from the rabbi; he had said that in my situation it was impossible to have more children because each time I gave birth I would be psychotic.

Therefore, Eliezer, you began work with me on this, and from then on my progress and healing knew no bounds. I had kept this so long within me and had suffered from it; I did not know what my purpose in this life was and nothing interested me any more. It all turned around in one moment. Yet this healing was not yet enough for us since even though the depression had left me, how did I know that the psychosis that repeatedly attacked me was healed. You continued to work on my psychosis with TAT from a different angle each time until finally the bad memories of the psychosis dissipated. If I started to think about the psychosis, only very happy and joyful memories of my children visiting me in the hospital came up and I could not think about the problem any more. It simply healed.

Now today I feel strong, I am happier and more alive. I have more energy and I have stopped smoking. I really want to live and do not stay in bed anymore. My relationship with my mother also improved since her criticism does not bother me any more. The same goes for my husband.

Thank you so much Eliezer for restoring my life.

 


My daughter suffered from epilepsy

A few months later I found myself with a new challenge: I have a 17 year old daughter who was born with slight CP (cerebral palsy), but as a result she suffers from epilepsy. For many years the epilepsy was under control thanks to medication. Suddenly, for no apparent reason, she began to have multiple seizures – sometimes eight a day! Nothing we did (together with her neurologist) helped; we tried to change the doses of her medicine, to change the drug … but to no avail.

This went on for two months and then I decided that we should treat her with TAT. After the first meeting some of the seizures decreased. After two meetings the seizures began to be less severe, and after the third meeting they all but disappeared!!!

Absolutely unbelievable.

And what’s more, the MRI was normal.

Thank you Hashem and thank you Eliezer.

 

 

___________________

 

a traffic accident, the amputation of both legs

Dear Eliezer,

I started coming to you after a traffic accident that my husband and I were involved in nine months ago. I saw my husband was being seriously injured, and I was miraculously saved. I saw the strongest person I knew (who is also the person who means most to me) literally fall apart in front of me, and I then had to continue to deal with the consequences and a new life.

When I would walk in the street, any truck that was in the area, and it could have been distant, would make me shake uncontrollably and “freeze”; any car journey, slow as it may be, would leave me extremely tense.

I couldn’t really deal with my husband’s injury – the amputation of both legs –, and that was what I really wanted to take care of. It was providence that sent me to you, Eliezer. I must admit that I did not have great expectations for quick results yet I was enormously and pleasantly surprised.

I found a God fearing man who does extremely special work with a technique that seems to be very simple, but changes the world. After each treatment, I would leave rejuvenated and happy. The anxieties dissipated, the fear of trucks disappeared, and I accepted the situation with love; I am now able to continue to deal with what lies ahead with new strengths.

During the treatments, old matters that I had never dealt with came up, and these were dealt with most effectively and quickly.

I tell my story to everyone, wherever I am, and publicize my personal miracle and the Divine Providence that were my lot.

Thank you, Eliezer, and may God bless you.

 

 


 

Release from trauma to happy life

 

By the time I reached Jerusalem, I had reached the end of both my patience at how much pain I was in and my ideas of what to do about it. I had been through many different kinds of therapy and body work. I was even a licensed therapist and certified body worker myself. So I knew how to think about healing. But I could not heal my own body, at least not enough to feel at ease and comfortable.

Because I was having difficult learning Hebrew and knew that I had been diagnosed with an auditory processing disorder, I made an appointment with a speech therapist for an evaluation. She suggested that I find a neurolinguistic programmer and change some of the basic messages that I had been living with all my life. She said that I had some dyslexia with Hebrew but before I worked on that, I had to clear out some of the incorrect information that I was using to live my life with. I was given Eliezer’s name as someone who practiced neurolinguistic programming and called to interview him. I wanted to be sure I was working with the right person. I was on a fixed income and wanted what little money I had to go for the right treatment.

When I spoke to Eliezer, I knew I wanted to see what he could do for/with me. He first said he thought I did not need NLP work, that I needed to get the trauma out of my body and it was the trauma that was creating the pain. I had spent many years working with trauma survivors and what he said rang true to me. As long as the trauma remains in our bodies, we are not free to live the life we were meant to live. Free to live up to our true potential and creativity. I decided to make and appointment and see what would happen.

The method that we worked with (Tapas Accupressure Technique-TAT) is deceptively simple and easy to use. The theory is we have 12 energy centers that basically match our organ system. For example, there is a heart meridian, lung meridian, stomach meridian, etc. Each of those organs and consequently energy centers absorb unresolved trauma and create a negative reaction in our bodies. The more we hold on to the trauma, the more our bodies are filled with stress and tension. TAT engages the meridians, the seat of the body’s healthy reactions and replaces the traumatic messages with the most important information for the survivor, that the trauma happened long ago, is over and the person is now okay. But this is okay, not in the sense that there is no pain or reason to focus on the trauma but that the person is out of the trauma, is not still endanger because of it. But can feel themselves free from that situation and free to create a different kind of life based on the reality of what is happening right now, not what already happened in the past.

This was crucial information to me. It’s not that I had not known that concept before but no matter how many times I told myself that, I still felt like I was sitting or standing or lying in the middle of the trauma with no way to escape. But working with TAT, I found myself out of the trauma experience. Sometimes I was sitting alone in the room, sometimes dancing with myself or others, sometimes laughing and joking with people who had before been my tormenters.

For the first few sessions, I felt complete release. My body had never felt so good. I was relaxed, peace, had so much more energy, and was more social. People who saw me said I looked as though I had just woken up from a long nap and was refreshed.

But I would not be telling the whole story if I did not add this next piece. After the first 3 or 4 weeks, the work became harder and I was dragging myself through my past traumas with less ease. But and this is very important, with the same kind of equanimity that I had discovered during the first few sessions. I could feel more of the pain of the trauma but I felt it through a veil of healing. I knew it was leaving my body and I knew new layers of trauma were coming up but I was not reliving the trauma. Rather I was releasing the trauma and through that release, I was discovering different parts of myself that I did not know were there or rediscovering parts that I hadn’t had access to for many years.

Between sessions I tracked my progress. There was always some positive change even if I also had more memories or more experiences of different traumas than the one I was working on. But the positive changes didn’t leave even when something new was coming up. I maintained the work I did in the office and added to it both during the week and at the next session. I paid very close attention to what I was feeling, thinking, doing. How high my level of stress was. How much I wanted to be with people, or be alone. I tend to want to be alone so I paid attention to when that was intensified and when I was able to be more social.

The biggest piece of trauma that I worked on was a car accident that happened when I was five. I had three serious injuries and was incapacitated, in bed for 4 months. In doing this work, I connected pains in my head, leg, and shoulder and back with injuries I had received from this accident. Some of them were obvious but I had not connected them. Some were not obvious at all and I was stunned at how long I had been carrying this pain with me. As I focused my attention on each part of the trauma, my body released the trauma and breathed life into itself.

Besides the dimension of working with trauma that actually happened in my life, we also worked on the trauma that happened to my ancestors and to me in other gilgulim. I had done a lot of work about my family and my own past lives but this work got to the heart of the issues-how the traumas of my family affected them and also affected me through them.

There is one thing I would caution you about. It is crucial to be willing to change, to be willing to let go and have your life become more natural and comfortable. All of us can get used to the affects of the trauma and assume that a physical pain or emotional pattern will be with us always. The pain of the trauma has to be more severe than the fear of letting the trauma go. We have to be willing to go through some pain to let go of the pain. One of the wonderful things about TAT is that it does not require us to relive the trauma in order to heal. We may experience some discomfort and some

fear but it passes quickly and easily. TAT makes room in our bodies for the natural body/psychic rhythms to take over.

 


 

One year after my treatment sessions TAT

of my Physical and Mental Abuse

I started my treatments with Eliezer Spetter over a year and a half ago.

I needed to treat traumas and difficulties of which I never dreamed that I would be able to release (after trying other types of treatment as well).

Today, thank G-d, after seeing how TAT has helped me become stable and relaxed, I can stay with this remarkable technique that G-d enabled me to find.

I now experience feelings of release and the disconnection from the traumas that haunted me day and night which hopefully will never come back. I feel free

The most worthwhile and profitable gift that I can have imagined for myself is life after TAT – throwing away all of the waste and garbage that separate us from the wonderful life that G-d has given us.

I do not regret one shekel spent on these treatments, and I spent hundreds, if not thousands, of shekels.

If you have heard about TAT, do not forfeit the opportunity to liberate yourself.


Back Pain, Hand Pain and Physical and Mental Abuse

“I suffered terribly from strong back pain and hand pain. Regarding the hand pain, I was told that there was no chance that the hand would recover; the hand barely functioned. In an X-ray, slipped discs were found and other problems showed up in a CAT scan.

During EFT and TAT treatments with Eliezer Spetter, the pain disappeared almost entirely and the hand resumed functioning. It appears that there is a powerful connection between a person’s physical feeling and his emotional state. I came for treatment because of a personal trauma that I had recently experienced; the trauma was very difficult and I received immense help from the Eliezer Spetter’s unique treatments. My childhood trauma was that of my mother not loving me. After that, between the ages of seven and twelve, I suffered severe physical and mental abuse (I was not raped). The treatments freed me from this trauma as well.

Recently, I experienced a family trauma concerning my husband, a very difficult situation of domestic discord not found normally in a family.

This was a really exceptional problem that I could not discuss, and anyone hearing about it would think it was imaginary, not real. Eliezer’s treatment helped me get back on my feet when I was feeling helpless and afraid. I had been in a terrible state, barely functioning.

Today I am functioning, as is my hand, the one on which that the doctors gave up. I hope that through another few treatments my hand will function fully. I warmly recommend these treatment methods to anyone interested.”


Rape

“How can I cope with people who share my unpleasant past? How can I cope with seeing them? How can I not avoid the area? How can I not be hurt by their behavior around me? Through and during the treatment, I had several encounters; initially, I went into total shock; I didn’t know what to do, where to turn. During the treatment, I learned to face up to people who were unpleasant to be with. For me, that was a victory, because I didn’t run away. I stood my ground. Previously, I could not even speak, but I learned to keep this person away from me, without the whole thing becoming a nuisance. Thank you.”


Physical and Mental Abuse

“Not a day passed in which I didn’t see in my mind’s eye the terrible experiences of physical and mental abuse I experienced. During my last NLP treatment this simply disappeared, and I am able now to live a normal life.

There is a well-know saying of our sages, “G-d provides the solution before the problem”, and I have merited seeing the truth in this with my own eyes. G-d has provided the world with TAT through R. Eliezer, who has helped and saved many people, including my husband and myself.

There are no words to describe our appreciation to you for all your hours and efforts, which saved our lives and our souls.

After the horrible and appalling trauma that continued for 13 years, in which a family member abused me in unspeakable ways. After my marriage, thank G-d, my eyes were opened, and I understood the truth about these unspeakable things that had been withheld from me for 13 years. At that moment a darkness fell upon me, and I felt that I couldn’t continue living after having experienced such physical and emotional traumas, and which are prohibited by the Torah.

G-d, in His infinite mercy and kindness, did not abandon me and I wandered from counselor to counselor and from therapist to therapist, but everything remained the same. I reached despair and total depression but G-d had pity on me, and made me aware of a special therapist, a humble and unassuming person, who lives in pure faith that he is a tool of the Almighty’s, put in this world to help and heal souls among the people of Israel. R. Eliezer Spetter, recommended by worthy and G-d-fearing rabbis, does wonders in healing body and soul for any Jew who needs him.

When I first came to Eliezer I was weak and despairing, full of anger and a desire to take revenge on my whole family. I lived every moment with intense and terrible feelings, together with the bitter traumas that never left me. I very much wanted to become free of the past, of everything in every sense, and to begin life anew. With G-d’s help, R. Eliezer was able to provide solace. It’s unbelievable, but today, thank G-d, after a year of therapy, I live my life in equanimity and self-confidence, strong and independent, empowered, forgiving of the past. Thank G-d, I strive only to move forward in the total belief that everything that happened was decreed by heaven, and that G-d will give me strength to continue doing holy work to His satisfaction in every way. Therefore, Eliezer, you have been a good servant of G-d, saving me in body and soul and for future generations; all the mental, physical and emotional changes I underwent throughout the year of therapy have affected not only me and my husband, but all those around me.

My energy has been changed, and a new life has unfolded before me – it seems like a miracle from above! Therefore I warmly recommend R. Eliezer, who is a worthy messenger from G-d, who aids all in need of help and healing of the soul, which in turn heals the body. With G-d’s help, you can also achieve a new and improved life in every sense, and thus serve Him and do His work whole-heartedly.

Those who seek treatment should not forget that they must be fully committed and desirous of change, and should not be afraid of changing.

Eliezer, it is said that if one saves one person it is as if one saved the entire world. With a heart overflowing with appreciation and many thanks, and blessings that your work bears fruit and brings satisfaction to our Father in heaven, and that G-d’s grace be with you always. The _______ Family


 

Release from trauma to happy life

By the time I reached Jerusalem, I had reached the end of both my patience at how much pain I was in and my ideas of what to do about it. I had been through many different kinds of therapy and body work. I was even a licensed therapist and certified body worker myself. So I knew how to think about healing. But I could not heal my own body, at least not enough to feel at ease and comfortable.

Because I was having difficult learning Hebrew and knew that I had been diagnosed with an auditory processing disorder, I made an appointment with a speech therapist for an evaluation. She suggested that I find a neurolinguistic programmer and change some of the basic messages that I had been living with all my life. She said that I had some dyslexia with Hebrew but before I worked on that, I had to clear out some of the incorrect information that I was using to live my life with. I was given Eliezer’s name as someone who practiced neurolinguistic programming and called to interview him. I wanted to be sure I was working with the right person. I was on a fixed income and wanted what little money I had to go for the right treatment.

When I spoke to Eliezer , I knew I wanted to see what he could do for/with me. He first said he thought I did not need NLP work, that I needed to get the trauma out of my body and it was the trauma that was creating the pain. I had spent many years working with trauma survivors and what he said rang true to me. As long as the trauma remains in our bodies, we are not free to live the life we were meant to live. Free to live up to our true potential and creativity. I decided to make and appointment and see what would happen.

The method that we worked with (Tapas Accupressure Technique-TAT) is deceptively simple and easy to use. The theory is we have 12 energy centers that basically match our organ system. For example, there is a heart meridian, lung meridian, stomach meridian, etc. Each of those organs and consequently energy centers absorb unresolved trauma and create a negative reaction in our bodies. The more we hold on to the trauma, the more our bodies are filled with stress and tension. TAT engages the meridians, the seat of the body’s healthy reactions and replaces the traumatic messages with the most important information for the survivor, that the trauma happened long ago, is over and the person is now okay. But this is okay, not in the sense that there is no pain or reason to focus on the trauma but that the person is out of the trauma, is not still endanger because of it. But can feel themselves free from that situation and free to create a different kind of life based on the reality of what is happening right now, not what already happened in the past.

This was crucial information to me. It’s not that I had not known that concept before but no matter how many times I told myself that, I still felt like I was sitting or standing or lying in the middle of the trauma with no way to escape. But working with TAT, I found myself out of the trauma experience. Sometimes I was sitting alone in the room, sometimes dancing with myself or others, sometimes laughing and joking with people who had before been my tormenters.

For the first few sessions, I felt complete release. My body had never felt so good. I was relaxed, peace, had so much more energy, and was more social. People who saw me said I looked as though I had just woken up from a long nap and was refreshed.

But I would not be telling the whole story if I did not add this next piece. After the first 3 or 4 weeks, the work became harder and I was dragging myself through my past traumas with less ease. But and this is very important, with the same kind of equanimity that I had discovered during the first few sessions. I could feel more of the pain of the trauma but I felt it through a veil of healing. I knew it was leaving my body and I knew new layers of trauma were coming up but I was not reliving the trauma. Rather I was releasing the trauma and through that release, I was discovering different parts of myself that I did not know were there or rediscovering parts that I hadn’t had access to for many years.

Between sessions I tracked my progress. There was always some positive change even if I also had more memories or more experiences of different traumas than the one I was working on. But the positive changes didn’t leave even when something new was coming up. I maintained the work I did in the office and added to it both during the week and at the next session. I paid very close attention to what I was feeling, thinking, doing. How high my level of stress was. How much I wanted to be with people, or be alone. I tend to want to be alone so I paid attention to when that was intensified and when I was able to be more social.

The biggest piece of trauma that I worked on was a car accident that happened when I was five. I had three serious injuries and was incapacitated, in bed for 4 months. In doing this work, I connected pains in my head, leg, and shoulder and back with injuries I had received from this accident. Some of them were obvious but I had not connected them. Some were not obvious at all and I was stunned at how long I had been carrying this pain with me. As I focused my attention on each part of the trauma, my body released the trauma and breathed life into itself.

Besides the dimension of working with trauma that actually happened in my life, we also worked on the trauma that happened to my ancestors and to me in other gilgulim. I had done a lot of work about my family and my own past lives but this work got to the heart of the issues-how the traumas of my family affected them and also affected me through them.

There is one thing I would caution you about. It is crucial to be willing to change, to be willing to let go and have your life become more natural and comfortable. All of us can get used to the affects of the trauma and assume that a physical pain or emotional pattern will be with us always. The pain of the trauma has to be more severe than the fear of letting the trauma go. We have to be willing to go through some pain to let go of the pain. One of the wonderful things about TAT is that it does not require us to relive the trauma in order to heal. We may experience some discomfort and some fear but it passes quickly and easily. TAT makes room in our bodies for the natural body/psychic rhythms to take over.


 

Dear Rav Eliezer Spetter,

I approached you after many years of emotional, social and family difficulties, all due to a troubled childhood. At that stage I felt that it would be better if I were dead.

After trying different methods, including psychology, I did not believe that there was anything that could help me easily or quickly.

The main thing that I liked about TAT is that there was no need to talk about the past, and the treatment worked anyway.

Today, after only twelve treatments, I feel that I have succeeded in separating the facts and traumas of my past from the feelings. I am now able to function on a day-to-day basis without having to deal with the stormy emotions that accompanied me until I began the treatment.

I would like to thank you for being a true and faithful emissary, for the devoted and caring treatment, and for your great efforts that enabled me to feel comfortable and safe.

There are no words to express my wishes to you, but that you continue to help all those who are needy, and the G-d pay your true reward.

Gratefully yours,


I Was Molested Over a Period of Four Years

Dear Eliezer Spetter,

Thank you for your tremendous help with my trauma.

When I was a young child I was molested over a period of four years, and for twenty-four years, I lived in fear, detached from the world and my surroundings. I did not believe that I could heal from this.

With your help, I am now able to begin living.

I often see the person who hurt me, and in the past I would get frightened and tense up. After several sessions I feel much better. I see this person and feel nothing.

You have helped me put the past where it belongs so that I can live in the present and have a hopeful future.

I cannot thank you enough.


Sexual, physical and mental abuse that I suffered from my father

Dear Eliezer.

Thank you very much for the excellent, professional treatments .

When I realized I needed to find a treatment for myself, I was looking for something that would help me get out of the rut I was in, but would not force me to re-experience everything that had happened, and that would give me the strength to properly take care of my children.

Rabbanit Naomi Shapiro recommended TAT, while Rabbanit Levanon had once discussed the technique with me.

The main problem was domestic peace – shlom bayit – especially when I was physically weak: during pregnancy and postpartum. I felt that my husband did not understand me, he was unapproachable and disappointed in me. But the biggest problem, the one that I was afraid treat was the sexual, physical and mental abuse that I suffered from my father, a very complex affair that affected my life more than I realized.

What motivated me to seek help were difficulties that came up with my three year old son who was diagnosed with a developmental delay: he did not talk, would salivate, had motoric difficulties in his hands, and required physical therapy for his clumsiness, occupational therapy, and speech therapy . He found it difficult to go to kindergarten and to become toilet trained.

I was very surprised and troubled my all these, and began to become confused and All this is very surprising to me and weighed me as a mother. I became confused and depressed.

And there were other, various issues which shocked, confused and frightened me, and they awoke all of my repressed problems.

Another cause of trouble was the death of my sister in a car accident during when I was young and which had stayed with me an unresolved trauma throughout my life.

Exactly one year ago, I was cured by Eliezer, who I regard as a messenger from God. My life has changed and greatly improved. I’m happier, relaxed and more at ease, and am amazed that there was something that could help me.

I came to the TAT workshops so I could learn how to continue to treat myself, my dear husband, my sweet children, and others who may have difficulties . I found my calling . I had searched far and wide to find satisfying work whereby I could help others, and thank God, through you, I found it .

 

I would drink a bottle of wine or half a bottle of whiskey every day

 Dear Eliezer, and to everyone who reads these lines!

 I had two serious problems when I came to Eliezer’s treatment – drinking alcohol and sleeping.

 It took not too long (less than 15 treatments) to solve my alcohol problem (I would drink a bottle of wine or half a bottle of whiskey every day). I stopped drinking completely and don’t want to drink any more. I can be with people who are drinking and I have absolutely no urge to drink!

 The truth is that I never dreamed that I could solve the second problem, since for over twenty years I had been in the habit of going to sleep after midnight, –even if I had to get up at 5.00 a.m. the next morning.

 We solved the second problem as well. After not too many treatments I go to sleep every night at day to sleep at 10.00. I don’t remember doing this since I was in school.

 Thank G-d, you helped me a lot, and I thank you with all my heart!

A. 42 years old, Jerusalem

 


 

I was Addicted to Drugs and Alcohol

For four years, I was addicted to drugs and alcohol. I also damaged myself by taking an overdose of drugs.

I came to drugs and alcohol because I wanted to forget the problems at home where I received a lot of punishments through beating because of my parents’ anger. This, of course, also caused me to be angry with them.

I came to Eliezer Spetter and found the kind of help that I could never have imagined existed before. Previously, I fell off the wagon each time I managed to leave the drugs.

During the treatment that I receive with TAT, Eliezer kept on looking and digging to get to the root of my addiction. We worked for several months until we were sure that nothing was left. He checked me over and over and over again.

Now I am learning and working hard, back in normal life. I feel great and strong and I feel no attraction to drugs or alcohol. I feel clean.

Thanks Eliezer.

 


 

I needed not only my wife..

 

Eliezer, my dear brother,

I’m so glad I met you!

You are amazing and you have made me a healthier person.

So that others can understand how you have helped me become this healthier person and what this means, I will talk about myself and my sickness. I am ultra-orthodox and have led an ultra-orthodox lifestyle all my life. I have been married to the most amazing woman in the world for six and a half years. I’m the father of three sweet girls. I have a bachelor’s degree, am an army graduate, and have a nice job in a nice workplace.

About three months after the wedding, I began to think of other women besides my wife. I did not attribute any significance to this because we all have hormones, so it seemed normal to me. In short, I began to fantasize, listened to things and simply indulged myself in talking to others, men and women alike.

At some point, every time I had sexual relations with my wife I needed to fantasize about more …

I shared it with her and she hurt quite a bit throughout this period.

I got to the point where I needed not only my wife, but other women, men, transgenders and everything else you can or cannot imagine. I was in this state even though I truly loved her. Since I really love and respect her, I felt that had to share it with her  – so she was forever getting hurt.

I owe her a lot for staying with me! I have no idea what caused this condition and why, but I was in a bad state. Because of the fear of consulting someone and taking care of things, I told myself deep inside (and my wife) that I was okay, that everything was good and that it was normal. Yet in reality I was burning up inside. I imagined myself burning away my whole life because of my lust. Every time I saw porn, corresponded with someone – male or female – ate out at a bar, I physically felt the hurt in my relationship with myself, my wife, and my children.

I’m not sure what made me agree to meet Eliezer, and why I did, in fact, agree to meet him, but I am convinced that my life changed from the moment I met him.

Yes, I cried during the first two or three sessions. Yes, I thought about things I preferred not to think of. Yes, today I am still the same person just a little better. Yes, I have sexual relations my wife and they are much better.

My healing took just about eight sessions. As far as I’m concerned, this is the best investment I’ve ever made.

I hope that what I have written will help someone else somewhere in the world. If it would help, I would be more than happy to speak to that person directly.

 


 

I suffered from negative forbidden thoughts

Dear Chava,

The truth is that words cannot express mental salvation.

I suffered strange and forbidden negative thoughts for many, many years and which became more frequent as time went on. It was hard to believe that I could be saved from them, and I was scared that, G-d forbid, they would get even worse.

With the help of the merciful G-d and through the journey that I experienced with you and TAT, I slowly found that of most of my troubles stemmed from lack of belief in G-d and His unconditional love for me. I lacked the trust that He bestows only good, and needed to realize that He gives unconditionally, that I need to accept myself without judging each and every thing that I do and not feel guilty for everything step that I make.

Reinforcement through TAT helped me integrate the positive thoughts in my subconscious so that the small rays of light were able to extinguish the darkness within. Consequently, I was able to see myself and my surroundings in a more loving and less judgmental manner, which also helped relaxed me and enabled me to allow His everlasting love fill me…

Thank you so much Hashem, and thank you Chava

Bulimia

From Liat’s Diary (fictional name)

“The only time that I can eat sweets, cookies, etc. is when bingeing. During a binge nothing else is important. I have no control of my thoughts and my conscience turns off, I don’t care. not interested.I know that I will vomit it all, but after I finish eating everything I can get my hands on, my conscience begins to bother me. why?”

“.All the systems of equilibrium in my body are ruined; I don’t know when I am hungry and when I’m full. I even forget how it feels to be hungry of satiated.”.

“.There were times that I thought that I was going crazy, that I would explode, and I didn’t know what was worse: that my brain would blow up because I wasn’t on a food binge, or that my stomach would explode because I was bingeing. The second possibility is easier, since I didn’t have to deal with what I was feeling; the only thing I thought about all day was how and when to vomit”.

“I am tired of it, sick of it, I can’t stand it.help! A constant feeling of restlessness and no peace, that I can stifle only by escape and the escape is through food binges, crazy and uncontrolled. I feel like I’m drugged. I salivate just from thinking that I’m about to binge, and I grab on any food, sweet, bitter, salty, fresh, frozen, etc. without discrimination. I eat knowing that soon I will need to continue my routine: work, etc.

But the binge overtakes my senses. I suppress my mind, and after the binge I tell myself: what have I done? I ruined my day. Instead of being like any other 24-year-old, that spends his time moving ahead, I am regressing without control. What haven’t I tried, where haven’t I gone? I’ve gone to almost every type of treatment and nothing has helped (or maybe helped for a month). I’ve wasted thousands of shekels while my friends used their money for st udi es, I wasted vacation time, etc. and I wasted money on buying food.

Solving the Problem
Finally I heard of a treatment method used by Eliezer Spetter. At first I was skeptical, but Eliezer Spetter appeared to be a trustworthy person, so we began treatment. It was unbelievable: the bingeing attacks vanished gradually, I am able to control my mind, and I got my life returned to me. My life got back on a normal track, therefore, I warmly recommend joining the treatment method of NLP and EFT.

Through this treatment I learned to recognize the real Liat, and not the Liat that forced herself to fit society (a twisted society invented in my own mind).

I learned to love myself, and not to try to be someone or something that I’m not.

I learned to recognize and to activate the potential within me.

I gained recognition of my inner feelings and of how to express them in words.

My view of the world changed, from a twisted and mistaken critical view to a more rational and honest view, and I put my life into real and proper proportions.

 

Bulimia

“After three sessions of EFT I no longer have a compulsion and inner need to fall upon food like an addict”.

 

 

Swallowing food and drinks and my learning Torah

 

10th Av 5771

Dear Eleazar Spetter,

“Praise the Lord for He is good, His kindness is everlasting”

I am so happy, Eleazar, that you have helped so many people with so many problems in a wide range of areas for such a long time. So many people, myself among them, are now able to stand on their own feet and are living better lives due to your help.

I first came to you six months ago, lacking self confidence and afraid of my own shadow. I was anxious and living in perpetual stress. I was unable to eat and drink properly, and was simply sad. I very much wanted to get on with my life and believed that I could, yet I did not success in doing so alone. As our sages of blessed memory said, “A prisoner is unable to free himself from prison”.

Eleazar helped to free me from the many strange things that had been my lot since childhood and that throughout the years had just piled on top of each other without the help of suitable treatment. Added to that were the traumatic deaths of my Rabbi and his wife who were killed in a car accident four and a half years ago. As much as I tried, I was unable to recover from that trauma.

Thanks to the treatment, I am now happy and all who know me remark how I shine with a special light. I feel an internal happiness and gratitude to the Creator and his faithful emissary, Eleazar Spetter, and consequently try to help those in need.

Since I started becoming more religious over thirteen years ago, I have felt very pressured learning Torah and have strived to make my learning more pleasurable and peaceful. This distressed me and caused me to enjoy my learning less. Due to Eleazar’s devoted treatment, I was able to improve my learning drastically, and today I learn with more happiness and zeal, and am satisfied with my lot. May it be G-d’s will that we all grow in Torah, and that Rav Eleazar Spetter continue to reap his rewards.

May it be G-d’s will that there should be others like him.

 

Anorexia ,no one knew and no one could find a solution,

I was very anxious, sad and insecure!

 

To Dear Chava Spetter

 

Words are really not enough to truly thank you, nor to describe or illustrate…

When I first came to Chava, I was very anxious, sad and insecure, very emotional and helpless and that was how my days were – how my life was; no self-confidence and not connecting with myself. At first, I was not even aware of my situation (only of one particular problem that I wanted to solve by myself). I had a lot of anger and frustration of which I was unaware. The past traumas of childhood and adolescence were below the surface. I also suffered from a certain physical problem, the cause of which no one knew and no one could find a solution – not even modern medicine. These were cured during the treatment, and I was truly cleansed in a manner that cannot be described in words.

The wonderful thing about the treatment is there is no need to relive the pain of the past experience or to talk about it, or even to know the cause. The subconscious knows all. It knows why you have a specific problem or a certain thought pattern, if you are stuck emotionally or in behavioral traits. It knows the root of one’s suffering and the treatment with TAT cures things without the conscious mind even knowing it. It is fast and specific and everything can be cured! Everything!

The healing method is awesome! A fascinating journey of self-discovery and connection. A healing process of understanding, acceptance and true release!

During the treatment, one also acquires tools for fast and targeted incredible self-help. These tools can be used after treatment as well.

TAT is not painful, it is not difficult to do, and does not necessarily take a long time. Quite the opposite. Things can happen very quickly. The healing is physical, mental and emotional in the best possible way.

Every problem that we have, be it physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, has its own source. We are not at fault and anything can be healed. I thank God so much; he just is good and healing.

Moreover, I thank you, dear and precious Chava. I am now far more relaxed, accept myself and understand myself on a level that I did not know existed. (My physical problem also disappeared, this after having thought that G-d forbid, I could not bear children), childhood traumas disappeared as though they had almost never existed, anger and fear were cleansed my thoughts and mind are now clear and happy, I feel wonderful with a happy and optimistic view that changes everything!

The thing is that did not know previously about the existence of trauma and lies from my past and present , that I was influenced by them and that they affected my perceptions, habits and certain behavioral traits. Before the treatment, I thought that things happen and one moves on with one’s life. Through the treatment with TAT, I realize that the subconscious remembers everything in every cell, in our bodies and our memories. Therefore one needs a thorough healing and internal cleansing because if not, there may be unknown negative factors of which we are unconscious and which run our lives.

The treatment is tranquil, empowering and simple. One really has to experience it to really understand! It is really amazing and I recommend it to everyone! Without exception!

With thanks to the Creator. My self-confidence has returned and is getting stronger by the day and is reaching levels that I could never have imagined previously. I am far more loving, respectful and I understand myself. I am relaxed, happy and satisfied.

____________________

Dealing with overeating and I hated my mother

 

I first came to Mr. Spetter for treatment about four months ago.

I was in a obsessive state of thinking about food. Food was what I thought of from the moment I woke up to the moment I went to sleep, and I did not find the strength to begin to reduce the amounts that ate, nor to stop thinking about it. I put on a lot of weight in a short period of time, and I realized that things were going from bad to worse.

At the beginning of the treatment, I realized that I had two other things that needed to be dealt with before dealing with overeating: one was my grieving over my father’s death 24 years ago; the second was lack of any emotion or feeling towards my mother, my anger at her, and my inability to express positive feelings for her.

I was treated for these two issues. I could not believe when I soon hugged my mother and when I agreed to hear that she loved me and actually believed it. To be in her company without getting upset was new to me.

So I received two gifts on the way to taking care of excessive eating. The other was that my grief over my father’s death has actually diminished, and now I feel a sense of gratitude that he was my father and not the deep sorrow of his passing.

With regard to food, today the thoughts that I wake up with in the morning are not related to food, and this is a new world for me. The desire to eat has lessened, as has the amount of food that I eat. I learned that you do not have to finish what is on the plate, and you can also leave the food that is already in front of me.

I highly recommend Mr. Eliezer Spetter’s caring and devoted care.

 

 

To Dear Chava Spetter

Words are really not enough to truly thank you, nor to describe or illustrate…

When I first came to Chava, I was very anxious, sad and insecure, very emotional and helpless and that was how my days were – how my life was; no self-confidence and not connecting with myself. At first, I was not even aware of my situation (only of one particular problem that I wanted to solve by myself). I had a lot of anger and frustration of which I was unaware. The past traumas of childhood and adolescence were below the surface. I also suffered from a certain physical problem, the cause of which no one knew and no one could find a solution – not even modern medicine. These were cured during the treatment, and I was truly cleansed in a manner that cannot be described in words.

The wonderful thing about the treatment is there is no need to relive the pain of the past experience or to talk about it, or even to know the cause. The subconscious knows all. It knows why you have a specific problem or a certain thought pattern, if you are stuck emotionally or in behavioral traits. It knows the root of one’s suffering and the treatment with TAT cures things without the conscious mind even knowing it. It is fast and specific and everything can be cured! Everything!

The healing method is awesome! A fascinating journey of self-discovery and connection. A healing process of understanding, acceptance and true release!

During the treatment, one also acquires tools for fast and targeted incredible self-help. These tools can be used after treatment as well.

TAT is not painful, it is not difficult to do, and does not necessarily take a long time. Quite the opposite. Things can happen very quickly. The healing is physical, mental and emotional in the best possible way.

Every problem that we have, be it physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, has its own source. We are not at fault and anything can be healed. I thank God so much; he just is good and healing.

Moreover, I thank you, dear and precious Chava. I am now far more relaxed, accept myself and understand myself on a level that I did not know existed. (My physical problem also disappeared, this after having thought that G-d forbid, I could not bear children), childhood traumas disappeared as though they had almost never existed, anger and fear were cleansed my thoughts and mind are now clear and happy, I feel wonderful with a happy and optimistic view that changes everything!

The thing is that did not know previously about the existence of trauma and lies from my past and present , that I was influenced by them and that they affected my perceptions, habits and certain behavioral traits. Before the treatment, I thought that things happen and one moves on with one’s life. Through the treatment with TAT, I realize that the subconscious remembers everything in every cell, in our bodies and our memories. Therefore one needs a thorough healing and internal cleansing because if not, there may be unknown negative factors of which we are unconscious and which run our lives.

The treatment is tranquil, empowering and simple. One really has to experience it to really understand! It is really amazing and I recommend it to everyone! Without exception!

With thanks to the Creator. My self-confidence has returned and is getting stronger by the day and is reaching levels that I could never have imagined previously. I am far more loving, respectful and I understand myself. I am relaxed, happy and satisfied.

I did not find solution for 20 year of Claustrophobia till…TAT

To the Dear and Dedicated Therapist, Eliezer Spetter.

God has so many emissaries, but you are one of the special ones. I came to you because of various problems I suffered from, such as claustrophobia – fear of closed places full of people, and a fear of sweet things due to a trauma from food, and a fear of materials like bleach (I suffered from claustrophobia for 20 years. It was an extended period of extremely hard suffering and pain).

I was hurt during my youth … and it affected me for several years.

Anyway, following my aunt’s advice, I reached out to Rabbi Eliezer Spetter, and I still cannot believe that he released me from absolutely everything in three treatments.

I thank God that I was fortunate to find you, and I thank you and wish you only good, that God will bless you with all that you deserve. Words are not enough for my gratitude for what you have done, and I only wish that there were more like you.

With much appreciation and respect,

Dear R’ Eliezer,

I will try to express in a few words my feelings after experiencing treatment with TAT.

Before I came to you, I felt very bad about myself due to traumas that began during my childhood and that continued through my adulthood. The traumas really started to bother me and made me anxious and depressed.

The traumas were rooted in my height – or lack thereof. When I was a child, my brothers did not want to walk with me on the street, they were ashamed to be seen with me and refused to go anywhere with me. When I got married, people laughed and asked, “Mazal Tov on your Bar Mitzvah?” These things accompanied me throughout my life and I could not get rid of the negative feelings that were a constant part of every day.

As an older man, with a beard, whenever I met new people I was afraid, and I did not know how they regarded at me, how they judged me. All the negative thoughts stayed with me.

Today, after a few individual treatments with you, I feel a different person, do not feel the social pressure as I did before, I don’t judge myself, have much more power to think positively about everything and the traumas from my past are no longer part of my day.

I recommend that anyone who has experienced traumas, anyone who wants to improve his life, come to R’ Eliezer for treatment, and to literally.start life anew.

Thank you for the tranquility and the beautiful life that I have, thanks to you.

_______________

I was immersed in a sea of self-pity and fear

Dear Eliezer and anyone who reads this letter,

I wanted to say that TAT works. What it did for me is just a wonder. I believed that the various problems that I had could be solved. A person who is drowning in the sea will be happy for a lifeline being thrown to him, and Eliezer was that lifeline for me. I was immersed in a sea of self-pity and fear, and today, thanks to the treatment, my problems were solved.

As we worked on one problem, another problem resolved itself and the next was solved in turn; thus tower after tower came toppling down. Subsequently, I learned to look at life in a more relaxed way and suddenly everything was resolved.

Eliezer, thank you so very much.

________________

fear of death and blood tests

To the Dear Good Rav Eliezer Spetter,

I would like to thank you for the amazing treatment that released the anxieties and fears from which I had suffered for so long. For years I suffered, fearing death, a fear that prevented me from performing mitzvot and an anxiety which all but paralyzed me. My hands shook, my heart pounded… Maybe it will happen now…

I was a teacher in a yeshiva. Sometimes the attacks appeared during class and the internal battle was harsh – to understand and notice each and every question and to answer correctly while I was petrified inside. My heart and chest ached. Maybe it will be now… maybe I should stop the class?

The straw that broke the camel’s back was when we decided to undergo medical examinations. I told the doctor about my fear of blood tests and that I had fainted in the past. After I told him that I had almost fainted when I took one of my children for a blood test he came to our house just to do the test for me. After the blood test I told him that I felt faint. I collapsed on the bed, went into convulsions and lost consciousness. Thank G-d, the doctor managed to revive me.

I was so scared that I had not had a dental examination for forty years. Who knows? I could bleed. After the previous episode, I needed root canal work. I approached the same doctor and he tried to avoid me. Finally he said that I needed medication that would help my anxieties, and then added that that he thought that maybe I suffered from epilepsy and that I had kept it secret from my wife for the past twenty years…

The situation was both serious and unpleasant. In addition to all this, I needed the emergency dental treatment. I approached Rav Gross שליט”א, who referred me to Rav Eliezer Spetter.

During the first meeting, Rav Eliezer asked me to go back to the story of my fainting. I refused out of fear of fainting again. Eliezer cleverly and calmly guided me back through the experience. Towards the end of my second meeting with Rav Eliezer he reached into a drawer and took out two syringes. I jumped. What is this? What are you doing? (Previously, the sight of a syringe would make me panic. The doctor who had done the blood tests at my home had left one and I threw it away.)

Suddenly, I realized that I could roll up my sleeve and take my own blood! Since then, thank G-d, the situation has much improved. In addition to the exercises that Rav Eliezer gave me, I feel much more calm and relaxed. If, in the past, it was hard for me to see terrorist attacks in the newspaper (for example the bloodstained books after the slaughter in Yeshivat Mercaz HaRav). I can now look and not feel faint.

Today I help others to release their emotions at Rav Eliezer’s clinic. Thank G-d, I can give my classes calmly, and I have even been to the dentist a few times. None of this is exaggeration.

I can only thank Rav Eliezer Spetter from the bottom of my heart. I am so grateful and am forever in his debt. May he and his household know only goodness and mercy for the rest of their lives.


 

Fear of Dogs

“I was afraid of dogs; also, I was afraid of the whole situation here in Israel . Now, after treatments, nothing bothers me, everything is fine”.


Self-confidence, Fears, Illness

-Why did you come to me?
“I came because of a lack of self-confidence that results from all kinds of internal fears.

-Illnesses, serious illnesses?
“Yes”.

-How are you feeling now?
“After treatment? Thank G-d, I feel better. More relaxed from day to day, not thinking about those things”.

-Do you believe that in your current condition you are able to find a marriage partner?
“G-d willing. I feel much more confident, for sure”.

-Are you feeling stronger?
“I view myself differently, I see myself in a different light. I can do more than I could previously”.

-Faith?
“Faith, you have to share faith, everyone should share, that’s fine.


Phobia

“In the past, I was unable to enjoy trips or to view splendid landscapes, because I suffered from fear of heights. Since NLP I enjoy every trip without fear”.


Dealing with TAT with seeing a dead person Lying in my garden

Chavah’s treatment was amazing.

In the middle of my life I had a terrible experience.  Someone fell or committed suicide in my garden. I was hanging the laundry and turned around for a moment.  When I turned back a few moments later there was a body in front of me!

My life simply stopped. I became depressed, scared, and unable to get out of bed even — to go the bathroom without my husband helping me.

Today, thank G-d and thanks to his dear emissary, Chavah, I am once again healthy and was even able to deal with other issues that came up during the specific treatment which I underwent.

I highly recommend these dear, good people to anyone who needs treatment.  Don’t hesitate and come to them.

I Thank G-d that I had the privilege to be treated by these amazing people.

With best wishes for glad tidings for all.


Extreme fears of death

I started seeing Chavah due to extreme fears that were expressed when I was driving, if I was in a high place or when I  heard the word “suicide”, when I was alone at home or when I had to console the bereaved. Many things that I cannot explain such having to walk alone in the street or having to buy something. My life wasn’t a life.

I thank G-d for sending me Rabbanit Hadassah from Kiryat Sefer who had participated in a TAT seminar and strongly recommended that I do so as well.

A year has past since my fears disappeared. I am healthy and feel wonderful. I do not stop thanking Hashem for the wonderful emissary in the form of Chavah Spetter. She does  the most wonderful things and was able to cure me. There are no words to thank her enough, and just as important, I have acquired tools that will accompany me all of my life.

In my humble opinion they are good angels.


Fear of  entering in dark caves

I was a boy, fifteen years of age, and was exploring the neighborhoods and nature. I loved to go to the mountains. I was a curious boy so I went into caves. I wanted to explore more so I went deeper into one of the caves. It was very dark. I had a flashlight with me. I fell three meters into a hole and was stuck. I dropped my flashlight. It was completely dark and no one knew I was there. I thought that my end had come and I would die in the cave.

I started to daven to Hashem. Nothing happened and I started to make a deal with him. I told Hashem that if he gets me out I promise that I will better my life. Before I knew it, I was out. I don’t remember how.

I am now 40 years old and work as a tour guide. My work includes going into caves yet the trauma stayed with me. Caves scare me to death.

I recently led a trip and told the people with me of my fear. It turns out that they were TAT professionals – Eliezer and Hava Spetter.

Eliezer and Hava made me sit down and do TAT. Within fifteen minutes, I felt that the fear had left me.

Yet I was still a little skeptical. I had to check it out to make sure that it was true. A month later I was with another group and had to go into a cave. We went in. I was surprised. I was waiting for something to happen but nothing did. It was like walking into a room. No fear, no panic. Nothing.

After 25 years of suffering I felt normal.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

With all my love, I

______________

Fear of the Dentist

Fear of the Dentist

Because I had a lot of mouth trauma as a child, I had a very difficult time going to the dentist. Not only was I frightened of the procedures, even a simple cleaning caused me great anxiety, I was also always in a lot of pain unless I had been heavily anesthetized. Sometimes I even avoided going to the dentist which was not good at all for my oral hygiene.

After doing several session of TAT on my mouth traumas, I found myself pleasantly surprised that on my next visit to the dentist, I not only felt calm but also was not in pain. This was nothing short of miraculous for me. For so long I dreaded those visits but now I can easily go to my appointments.

I strongly recommend TAT for releasing traumas from your body.

A Total Change: I opened old wounds childhood traumas, the Holocaust= my home, a difficult father etc.…

Dear Eliezer,

I first came to you about five months ago to try to solve some childhood traumas.

I did not know what I was letting myself in for and thought that we would have approximately three meeting. Over time I opened old wounds that I had never dared touch previously. It was hard! Sometimes extremely painful!

There were many fears about what I was thinking but I did not give up. I dive into extremely dark places… the fear of being alone, self-confidence, childhood traumas (the Holocaust), my home, a difficult father etc.…

But today I am stronger, understand more, and have experienced an amazing process! And all with your help. Through you kind heart, your direction, love, devotion, care and sincere desire to help.

I thank you with all my heart that you opened a new world for me where I can understand and have a renewed possibility to live a full and vigorous life.

 

Hospital and Surgery

Traumas from Hospital and Surgery

To Dear Chava, Purim Sameach and best wishes,

 

We would like to express our deepest thanks for the treatment that you gave on 17th Tevet, prior to Faigie’s jaw operation.
The method and the deep, powerful and true message evoked an immediate and long lasting tranquility. Faigie was prepared for the surgery; she was calm and had complete trust in Hashem.
Thank G-d, with Heaven’s help, she is over it all – without any trauma. She says that she feels that she is able to encourage others who may have to undergo similar treatment. The session with you also helped me as a mother!
Many thanks and much success for your wonderful work in support, help and positive encouragement.

Greenhaus (Mother) & Greenhaus (Daughter)


Trauma from Hospitals as a Result of Childhood Operation

 

I spent my childhood in the hospital. I had to undergo difficult tests and it was very hard for me as a child to deal with the shots and the needles. I was very frightened and I lost all trust in my parents. After numerous tests, the decision was reached that I must undergo an operation. It’s impossible to forget that whole period of time. But, after the TAT treatment, it’s possible to forgive. To forgive the doctors who seemed to be so cruel at the time, to forgive my parents whom I didn’t understand and who I thought didn’t understand me and even to forgive the needles which seem friendlier now.

I got married and for a long time did not become pregnant. After Eliezer Spetter’s dedicated treatment and his professional ability to reach a person’s very soul and the amazing technique that actually erases the traumas and connects us to our Creator, Thank G-d, I received the good news and today I’m in the eighth month of my pregnancy. We are hoping very much to expand our family in happiness and release.

The treatment is recommended for everyone; it helps anything from trivial problems to serious traumas. Life after the treatment is different in so many ways. It effects the whole environment. I feel that my family life has changed since the treatment. We have a much better relationship. I understood that my parents did the best they could do for me. The treatment helps my self-security and my life is more relaxed and freer.

______________

Traumas

 

After Trauma more connected to my true self

Dear Chava.

Now that everything is over, after three months of treatment, I must tell you that the process I’ve undergone is so significant that I’m thrilled!

I never thought that the traumatic situation I experienced more than 10 years ago and which lasted only a few minutes, just a few moments, had affected my life so much: my personality, the choices and decisions I made in life, my reactions to certain situations, even those that had not seemed extremely significant.

I can tell you that throughout the process, between the sessions and after them, I really felt how the “layers” surrounding my personality peeled off of me, layer after layer, and I keep on feeling freer and more connected to my true self.

I am sure that I am not the only one enjoying this change in my personality; I am sure that those in my immediate environment, my husband, my parents, and all the other people with whom I meet in everyday life benefit from it as well.

Thank you so very much for the treatment, for touching the deepest, innermost, hidden spots within me – with such professionalism, as if my heart were open to you.

I thank God for these meetings between us, and I thank him for the ability he has given you to awaken me to who I really am, without experiencing any of the external influences that the trauma had caused.

Thank you.

Childhood traumas and scars from my past and negative thoughts.

I would like to extend my sincere thanks to Eliezer Spetter for his devoted care down to the smallest detail, for his genuine concern about my health and his dealing with everything gently and calmly.

I came to Eliezer with severe childhood traumas and scars from my past. He helped me as though I was his only patient. Today, I who feel that it is all behind me. I am happier and light-hearted, positive and optimistic, and my thoughts are all positive ones. My life changed totally with TAT.

Eliezer is truly concerned about his patients` well-being, and I am sure that if I need to return to him for treatment, I will still receive the professional, caring help that I received before.

I thank G-d who directed me here, to a haven where we are able to confront our problems and deal with them from the source in such a way that they disappear and return no more.

My sincere gratitude,

  1. A.

____________________________

Traumas from Physical Violence

 

-“Can you tell me what happened to you?”

“Beatings”. –

“Can you tell me what he did, was it a punishment?”

“Also”. –

“What were you beaten with?”

“Sticks. Cords. Electrical wires”. –

“You also said shoes. What else?”

” Lot ‘s of punishments. Lot ‘s of trauma. We had a lot of trauma”. –

“A lot of pain?”

“Yes”. –

“Where?”

“In the lower abdomen”. –

“And now the pain is gone?”

“Totally. Less pain, no pain at all”. –

“And how do you feel now?”

“Better…” –

“Have you anything to add?”

“It’s better than before. Thank you”.

– “You’re welcome”.

 

Trauma and Dyslexia

 

Can you tell about some of the difficult traumas that we have worked through?

Some of my worst traumas have to do with my parents and my growing up, and my struggles that were due to dyslexia and learning disabilities. I can say I had a great many traumas relating to my education and school and the way I was treated there. For me, college for me was a big trauma.

I was still fearful of the traumas that had a gigantic influence on my life. My marriage has not been the most comfortable. My twenty years in Israel were not the best of my life. I have worked through all of these with TAT.

My relationship with my father has gotten exceptionally better. My relationship with people in general has changed as well. I can understand myself and other people a lot better through the work with TAT.

At the start of our sessions, you told me that if you were on a phone call with your father, you went into a rage when you put down the phone!

Exactly. I would be in a total rage; I would feel disoriented and would repeat the conversation in my mind for days. I would exhaust myself just by thinking about it. Today, it is the opposite. We often have pleasant conversations. We have a good relationship. My father is a Holocaust survivor, so he has his own problems. Now I can accept him, understand him, and have a warm relationship with him – and I can deal with him correctly. Moreover, with my wife I can now deal with all the things between us in an appropriate way.

You told me that you were thrown out of the yeshiva soon after your marriage. You had a problem reciting Kiddush and you stopped laying tefillin!

Right. In addition to that, I had a hatred of Hashem yet on the other hand, I felt connected with Him. It was a strong issue. It was a very schizophrenic relationship with Hashem. A love-hate relationship. Yes, He exists and you are dependent on Him, yet I hated Him for the life that I had to live. Now, Baruch Hashem, I lay tefillin again. I am back to davening and I learn once more.

You also told me that in the beginning of your marriage, since your Kiddush was so bad because of your dyslexia, your wife asked the Rav about it. And because of that, you always felt you were before a Beit Din, being judged.

Correct. During those first twenty years of my marriage, saying Kiddush was a big trauma each time over. Now, I do not feel judged anymore when I say Kiddush. Today, I hardly make any mistakes if I need to say a bracha in front of others. Second, if I make a mistake, I correct myself and go on. It’s not a big deal any more and I don’t need to feel that I have failed and that the world is going to collapse. Once I felt that I was a failure in everything. Now, I feel fine and far more secure.

Not long ago you called me after you had been to a Sheva Brachot and you told me, “I am released from the ghost of dyslexia”. Right, right. I always felt haunted when I had to say a bracha publicly. Two weeks ago I was honored to have been given one of the Sheva Brachot. Normally I would have been petrified before I said it. This time, I had no fear; I said the bracha loud and clear and without mistakes.

Do you mean that you do not turn words upside down?

That’s right.

Do you mean that you don’t turn words around any more? You can read normally now?

That’s also true.

I don’t turn words around any more. My reading in general has improved. I am far more relaxed, much more confident, much more sure of myself. It may not be my best skill, but it certainly has improved due to the months of therapy here.

You said something like that when you were davened in shul, people could not usually hear you, but suddenly you were davening out loud.

Right. Very often, because of my dyslexia, I was afraid to say the prayers aloud; afraid I would make a mistake. Now I can read more fluently, and I can pray out loud in the synagogue in a reasonably loud voice without the fear that someone will stare at me and laugh at my poor pronunciation or mistakes, and without the feeling of being judged because of my inability to perform.

Are you saying that by working with TAT you find that your dyslexia was connected with trauma?

I would say that a large percentage was due to trauma.

How much of it?

Probably over 90%. With a traumatic connection, there may be a slight neurological or anatomical problem, but all that was far less than the emotional part.

At first, you thought that you could never overcome this.

Yes. I thought this was a permanent handicap and a death sentence. I was born with it, born to a lifetime of captivity, of being a disabled reader and not being able to function in society since I was not able to read – and much of Judaism is based on reading.

So perhaps now you have thoughts of starting a career, of a new start to life, to learn something?

I’m thinking of maybe going to “Ulpan” – after 20 years living in Israel. I was always afraid of that idea because it was a pass/fail situation. Now I look at it differently. At this stage of my life it may not be easy to start learning – because of discipline, and not because of a neurological handicap. I also need to find the time for thinking about a livelihood. I have a wife, children; it’s not easy to devote yourself to studies. In general, my enthusiasm has increased, my devotion has increased. The feeling that I can be successful in my life has increased a considerably in the upper 90%. Originally I had thought that I would go to this “TAT” for three sessions, assuming I would disqualify it, that it wasn’t worth anything after three sessions. I had to do this for the divorce, to do something to show the Beit Din that I had made some effort towards “shalom bayit” – that was my actual intention in coming. I didn’t expect anything to come out of it.

I came here with the idea “Let’s get a divorce, and let’s get this over with”. I very quickly discovered that this TAT was something else, different to what I had thought. Then I decided to continue for about two or three months more, which soon became three to six months. Now I’ve been with you for fifteen months, and now I realize that not only did I need it, but that it was very worthwhile work. I feel it helped me very much.

Thank you for this explanation.

Trauma

 

Eliezer – this writing is an opportunity for me to thank you for the tools and the lift you have given my life. You have been a faithful servant who has pulled me up from the dark pit that my life had been.

I remember the first time we met at a mutual acquaintance’s. You asked me if I believe that it is possible to totally overcome a traumatic experience. I told you that I believe it is possible to acquire tools to learn to live with it, but not to overcome it. You are the first person to bring me to the realization that it is possible to live life without carrying the blackness within me.

Taking small, subtle steps, using this simple, quiet, non-intrusive healing method, you helped me to wipe the traumatic experience out of my consciousness and end its influence over my body. Your treatment method was an introduction to living.

Step by step, under your guidance, I have opened up to the possibilities of life, of living at ease. When I came to you I was distant, locked out of being able to develop relationships. I was afraid of making contact with the world of males. Now I am in the stages of preparation for married life. This is something I want; I am open and involved with the practical process of forming a serious

relationship.

Trauma

 

I started working with you last August; I remember myself, very traumatized and that you told me that my appearance shows that I’m holding on something traumatic.

You invited me to come to a treatment, since I was desperately looking for some real healing, even though I’d been on a healing process for 8 years trying to save myself from a traumatic experience. I relied on you gradually, since you offered something, I was willing to try it. And I trusted you as a person, I was willing to go on that journey with you.

Do you remember how the first few times were really helpful?

The traumas really came up; I had physical sensations and suicidal feelings and I remember pains, physical pains. I remember that I was in deep pains physically; I remember, also, that it was hard for me to concentrate, I jumped from one thing to another, I couldn’t focus on one thing, and everything was so dark I couldn’t even hope. I didn’t even believe in what I was experiencing .Until I met you, my basic experience was that what I was feeling is true; this is life.

I used to s off from my body, that was a symptom from years and years ago from childhood, which I’ve always tried to work on, cutting off from my body. I don’t know how-you just gave your skills and time and care and attention and thought and prayers and sometimes you used to meet me overtime and sometimes I would call you and say SOS and you would just stay over in Jerusalem, just to help me.
You stayed over to work with me. I remember there were a few times I really wanted out of this life and I felt you were just fighting for my life; you were just traveling with me to stay alive. And I don’t know- somehow you always got me out of it, somehow this treatment kept me moving on and on and on. Really the effect of the treatment, I can’t feel it right away, a stream of energy in my body, but I feel the effect afterwards, in my daily life.

What are the changes you feel in your life?

Every thing -my relationship with my children, my relationship with food, afterwards, we’ll still work on two other subjects. Also,I used to rag- not anger, rage- I can’t find it any more. It’s like, last week I was angry, as much as I could be, and yet I was so calm. I just don’t know -this is just a miracle, all my life till now, rage has ruined my life.

You were sauced into your problems?

And you felt everything again.

How is it now?
Now even today I worked on it, for a while I haven’t been sauced into it. Even when we worked on traumas, today I did, but first of all, it wasn’t as intense as it used to be.It was really minor. I had all the symptoms, but they were not so intense and the most important thing was that I knew it was not true. I know that I was struggling through something from an earler time, but this was not true, this is not life, there is something else there which I already know, and have experienced enough. Even though I experienced a trauma, I still have enough of a good experience to know that this is not true. This is a miracle; this is the first time this is happening to me, that I’ve succeeded in getting into the trauma and I know it is not true, I have symptoms and I can say to myself that this is a symptom. I can stop it now- and I really can.

This is the first time this is happening. In the past, when you used to move, I would panic. Today you left and I had the symptoms but kept on breathing and kept on working on whatever the symptoms gave me. And then when you walked in, I had a totally different experience. I had a soothing experience; the steps were soothing for me that was also the first time.

How are you now in your relations with other people? Relating with people all around?

First of all, I think this is the first year I have real friends, not just healing partners. But just friends to socialize with, to whatever, just for fun, to decorate the house, to study, to live. I have four very close friends.

I used to only have close healing friends, but these are not healing friends. We could also talk about healing, but this does not connect us.

How is your work different than it was before?

That I still have to work on, it is not solved, and I know there are some points I still have to work on. This is one of them, my work .My relationship with food has healed a lot, though. To deal with my food, I eat normally and it’s not that I have to think about; Tthere is something in my system which is more, I eat when I’m hungry, and when I don’t, I think it’s normal. It became really normal, everything- I bought a house, this is definitely connected to that. That something has opened up.

Do you consider that you have a normal life now?
Not yet.
How would you rate it?
80%

Do you have other things that have to be worked on?
Yeah.

Do you believe that you can reach 100%?
I want to believe it.

You can see it?

This is something I have to work on. I used to have an anxiety from cats- it would paralyze me for days. Sometimes I feel anxiety, but it doesn’t over take, Either I can function with it, or I can somehow work it out, so I see places that I still need to work on, it’s not over. I feel that there is so much healing being done that I’m on my way, that I just need to choose to progress in life. Not just a healing progress.

I understand with this there is another life waiting for you?
Yeah. We didn’t count the miracles; I need a miracle book to write it down. Every day and to say thank you, thank you to G-d. And all the messengers on the way. Whoever came up with this inspiration and you that are so devoted; I can’t receive from everyone, I’mvery skeptic, but I was very open with you and can trust you.

 

Traumas and Abuse from Youth

“My childhood was one big trauma, because of which I hated my father. He was always angry with me, yelled at me, and often hit me, abused me. Due to this method I lost that hate and can truly forgive him”.

Trauma from Anti-Semitism

 

“When I was six I was attacked, hit, and humiliated as a “dirty Jew” (as they called me); a very difficult experience for me. EFT helped me to cope with this trauma; all the emotional problems dealing

with this subject have entirely disappeared”.

War Trauma

During a TAT seminar, I closed my eyes and was back in Vietnam in the back seat of a helicopter on a training flight. Several B-52’s had dropped hundreds of 500-pound bombs in the distance.

I took a deep breath as I remembered the helicopter slowly tilting back as it began to skid into a simulated emergency landing with an engine failure, but this time we were very tilted back.
My knees were above my head, and the “stinger” – the tube that sticks out the back of the helicopter to keep the tail rotor from hitting the ground and that has never even touched the ground in my entire two years of flying – was bumping along as if over plowed rows in a cornfield. Then the tail rotor blades hit the ground and next the tail boom hit. When the helicopter finally skidded to a stop, it was upside down, and I was face down with my arms flung out in front of me.

The frame of my seat pressing on the back of my helmet forcing my face into the dirt and solidly pinning both my arms and my face into the ground. I was trapped! Everyone else was dead or unconscious. With the engine still running we were sure to bum or explode. I was going to die. Eventually, another helicopter that had seen the crash came to the rescue. Whenever I remember this my chest gets tight, my arms feel tingly and heavy, my palms sweat, and if I am telling the story to someone, I hear my voice change as my throat tightens, but as I did TAT, all of a sudden I was aware that I had survived that crash! In the years following the crash, I had shared, cried, , work shopped and catharted this into exhaustion, but this level of awareness of the fact that I SURVIVED was much stronger than any sense of survival I ever had before.
It was the truth and I was suddenly aware of something new: there was NO HELICOPTER on top of me. Even as I had that thought, it seemed silly. Of course there wasn’t a helicopter on top of me, but I sat there amazed by my new awareness of that reality. For a brief moment, I saw the crash scene from above. Although it was just a flash, I noticed that it looked different. It was lighter. I closed my eyes. It WAS lighter. It had always been kind of dark in my memory, as if there were a giant shaded Plexiglas dome covering the site.

I then became aware that as I was thinking about the crash, my chest, arms, throat and hands were relaxed. All I was having was a memory of an event that had taken place over twenty-eight years ago. Nothing more. The next thought I had was that I wanted the tension back. I had lived with it for so long that it had seemed a part of me. I closed my eyes again, but it wasn’t there and I couldn’t get it to come back, no matter how hard I focused on the memory.

Dick Morrill, Air America

A Fight with Bedouin and Terrorist Attacks

 

When we started to work together with TAT you had the following traumas: 

Bedouin beat you up and things happened to you in the army. You were in psychological therapy for a period of five months. What happened with you when we worked with TAT?

First of all, what happened here with TAT was crazy! During a period of 7-8 years, in addition to the events in the army, I underwent more than 40 terrorist attacks, among them the attack on the children’s bus in Kfar Darom. I went to a psychologist for five months but it didn’t help me whereas with TAT everything passed within three quarters of an hour!

Three months ago, I underwent a serious incident of a beating by Beduins. That caused me to suffer from insomnia, headaches and other problems.

With the help of TAT everything has completely disappeared. The thoughts and memories of the incident disappeared within three quarters of an hour and the headaches improved vastly!Now, when I look back at all these incidents , it’s as if I’m looking at something that happened thirty years ago or even  more.

You really don’t feel connected to the method, right?

I really don’t believe it. I came because people really pressured me to try. I really don’t believe in these kinds of things. But, even so, thank you very much for the treatment.

Even though you don’t feel connected to the method, it worked for you?

Every time I come, I make sure to say that I don’t believe in this, but, even so,it works for me! Thank you very much!!!

Elazar Amitai

Trauma From Being Burnt at Two Years of Age

 

On Erev Pesach, I was burnt by fire and ever since then, whenever I think of fire I get a panicky feeling inside – even though I know that it over.

Since then, at any time when there is stress – Erev Pesach, Lag Ba’Omer or having to enter a hospital etc – I panic,

Now I feel more relaxed with no stress. Even during tense times, it is much easier for me to get through them. If only my whole life had been like this.

was hit by stones thrown by Arabs

Dear Chava,

I was hurt when the bus I on which was travelling to the Western Wall on the bus was hit by stones thrown by Arabs. I was taken to the hospital. There, I underwent examination and after one night I was released home.

I was in a state of panic and fear of the future .

Someone told me about Chava. I decided I would try one treatment and see if there was an improvement. I came to Chava for the treatment, after which I felt better. I came back for another three or four, and now, thank haShem, I feel even better. This was a true miracle from heaven. I thank haShem who got me out of it, and Chava, who succeeded in freeing my confusion within: I had been sitting on the sofa, staring into the air. Now, thank haShem, I go to my seminary every morning and I’m busy again.

I thank haShem for leading me to Chava, without whom I do not know what I would have done.

Can you tell

____________

Hospital and Surgery

Traumas from Hospital and Surgery

 

To Dear Chava, Purim Sameach and best wishes,

 

We would like to express our deepest thanks for the treatment that you gave on 17th Tevet, prior to Faigie’s jaw operation.
The method and the deep, powerful and true message evoked an immediate and long lasting tranquility. Faigie was prepared for the surgery; she was calm and had complete trust in Hashem.
Thank G-d, with Heaven’s help, she is over it all – without any trauma. She says that she feels that she is able to encourage others who may have to undergo similar treatment. The session with you also helped me as a mother!
Many thanks and much success for your wonderful work in support, help and positive encouragement.

Greenhaus (Mother) & Greenhaus (Daughter)


Trauma from Hospitals as a Result of Childhood Operation

 

I spent my childhood in the hospital. I had to undergo difficult tests and it was very hard for me as a child to deal with the shots and the needles. I was very frightened and I lost all trust in my parents. After numerous tests, the decision was reached that I must undergo an operation. It’s impossible to forget that whole period of time. But, after the TAT treatment, it’s possible to forgive. To forgive the doctors who seemed to be so cruel at the time, to forgive my parents whom I didn’t understand and who I thought didn’t understand me and even to forgive the needles which seem friendlier now.

I got married and for a long time did not become pregnant. After Eliezer Spetter’s dedicated treatment and his professional ability to reach a person’s very soul and the amazing technique that actually erases the traumas and connects us to our Creator, Thank G-d, I received the good news and today I’m in the eighth month of my pregnancy. We are hoping very much to expand our family in happiness and release.

The treatment is recommended for everyone; it helps anything from trivial problems to serious traumas. Life after the treatment is different in so many ways. It effects the whole environment. I feel that my family life has changed since the treatment. We have a much better relationship. I understood that my parents did the best they could do for me. The treatment helps my self-security and my life is more relaxed and freer.

Pains and aches

 

Healing of physical pain

I am an older woman, seventy years of age. I came to Chava because of pain in my right arm which affected my daily functioning, and after conventional treatments did not help.

Through TAT I was able to release emotional stress that I had throughout my life. Subsequently, the pain disappeared. I was also release from feelings of guilt and had more self confidence and the ability to stand up for myself.

 

During the treatments, a forgotten matter with one of my children came up, which caused me to cry. I was released from some kind of pain that I felt regarding this son. I later found out that a medical problem that he suffered from subsided almost completely without any logical reason. As Chavah has said, the treatment has positive effects on the whole family.

 


 

 

Back Pain, Hand Pain, and physical en metal abuse


“I suffered terribly from strong back pain and hand pain; about the hand pain I was told that there wasn’t a chance that the hand would recoverand the hand barely functioned. In an X-ray, slipped discs were found and other problems showed up in a CAT scan.

During treatments with Eliezer Spetter using EFT and T.A.T., the pain disappeared almost entirely, and the hand resumed functioning. It appears that there is a powerful connection between a person’s physical feeling and his emotional state.

I came for treatment because of a personal trauma that I recently had undergone; the trauma was very difficult, and on this point, too, I received vast help from the unique treatments of Eliezer Spetter . My childhood trauma was being unloved by my mother; after that I was sexually exploited from age 7 until 12 , not rape, but physical en metal abuse, and the treatments also freed me from this trauma.

Recently I underwent a family trauma concerning my husband, a very difficult situation of domestic discord not found normally in a family. It is truly an exceptional problem that I can’t discuss, and anyone hearing about it would think it was imaginary, not real. Eliezer’s treatment helped me get back on my feet when I was feeling helpless and afraid. I had been in a terrible state, barely functioning.

Today I am functioning, as is my hand, which the doctors had given up on. I hope that through another few treatments my hand will resume full function. I warmly recommend these treatment methods to anyone interested.”

 


 

Headaches

 

“Hello, this is Gad. For a long time I suffered from headaches and I tried all kinds of treatments, but nothing helped. But with this method of EFT the headaches are totally gone. Now and then, when I have some kind of pain, I use the technique on my own and it really helps. Thank you very much.”


Pain

“This T.A.T. technique is very good; it’s a method that helps a person to control and deal with his difficult emotions. This technique has helped me become calmer, happier.
In this technique, you don’t feel the direct connection to the treatment, everything just becomes better and more pleasant. Using this technique, I was able to overcome pains in my hand from a bad accidentand the use of my hand is much better and freer. In general, my attitude is better. Through this technique, you learn how to handle various problems, how to solve problems and not let them sink in, and how to have a more pleasant and better life.”

 


 

Pain, interpersonal relationship

I came some time ago not knowing logically what this method was, and realizing that the usual technical techniques were not going to be enough, for I had tried many before for many years, and still there were many relationships issues as well as psychical elements.

I was willing to try something that was really unknown to me and the process and benefits were unknown to me.

So I was open, which does help, and still wanted to know logically what this process was all about, so some time was spent on my trying to grasp what the technique was. The best part is doing the TAT and I’ve started the EFT on the body symptoms, and seeing that I had some break for the first time in probably twenty years, and that it not only was something temporary, which often happens with new techniques, but that there seems to be deepening of the process. It held even when the same triggers occurred again or there were similar stressful events, that normally would precipitate a systemic reaction. Once the body symptoms started to drop off, I could start to address circumstances, the history in the background, to what seemed to be big triggers from way backand current ones. Sometimes we went from the past and sometimes it was from the present, sometimes it was mixed, and I made a commitment to myself that this would be part of my weekly regiment until I started to feel growing patience and excessive peace.Just getting a taste of the peace, even if it’s for a few minutes, is encouraging and encouraged me to stay with it even though there were often times that I wanted to stop the process orcouldn’t understand how it could benefit the relationship issues.Then I saw the miracles that so many issues changed without my having to tell the other person to get help, even knowing what I did differently in terms of the interaction with family members, to bring out a different response on their part, and I couldn’t really put on paper what actually occured, I just saw and experienced changes that I never thought could happen. The process is continuing and it’s deepening, and I feel like a new integrity and a new dignity is within reach- not just for a few minutes, a week, or a few minutes a day. .It could actually be that I could live life, a quality life, if there is a god, spirit, something that is pushing us to connect with him, and to live in this world, in a positive and happy way, and he’s channeled it somehow, through certain people, and it’s spreading and it’s radiating throughout the worldand touching people of all backgrounds, of all countries and languages, economic and socio-economic backgrounds, and one doesn’t know who is working on themselves in such a way. So, step by step, I feel like I’m taking my place again in the world in a new way , and I have a new optimism about the life that I can actually have and the service that I can provide the world.So I can only suggest to people to go beyond your mind and be open enough to let the heart once again start beating, to learn how to live by your heart and by your truth, to connect that very long distance between the mind and the heart, so that we’re fully aligned and flowing in this beautiful world.

-You came to me full of pains, and, remember, we worked on a lot of bodily pains and issues like family issues, the relationship with your husband was terrible and relationship with your children was not o.k. So we worked on all these things, relations with your parents who were not in this country, but in another country,and you suffered from that, and it was expressed in the pains that you felt in your body, and couldn’t get hold of. Till it broke through, and now there remains just a small percentage of the pains, so you can find yourself without pains for the rest of your life and what you say your deepened your relations with Shalom Bait and everything surrounding you in your house and your family relationships .

 


 

 

Headache and severe back pains

We would like to thank you for your dedication in the treatment of our 19-year-old son.

He came to you six months ago for treatment of severe back pains and headache and mental difficulties that he had suffered from for the previous two years.

After four months of hard work – by both of you – you were able to end the treatment with him in good physical and mental health.

We feel that our son has been returned to us as he was in the past, and hope that the tools that he has acquired will help him if he needs them in the future.

Thank you from the bottom of our hearts.

We wish you only success and G-d’s help in healing others.

 


 

 

Asthma

 

I am twenty-one years of age, recently discharged from the army.

I came to Eleazar with acute asthma, completely dependent on inhalers, inhalants and other medications to open the respiratory organs.

After receiving instructions and walking me through TAT, I felt immediate relief and a widening of the respiratory organs.

My allergic reactions to dust and physical activity have diminished significantly.

 

Eleazar, thank you so much for your professionalism and your determination.

 


 

You Saved me from Surgery on my Hands

The nights were insufferable. My hands would go numb and I would wake shouting, “I can’t feel my hands”. I would bang on the walls trying to feel them. During the days, I was unable to cut vegetables, to clean the silver and clean the house. I was simply unable to use my hands for anything.

I consulted with a doctor and underwent a CT. The results showed some kind of blockage in my wrists that caused my hands to go numb. I would have to have surgery.

I was extremely nervous and very scared of the operation, and then I heard about Eleazar Spetter and his treatment with TAT. We began the treatment, I laughed,  yet I was eager to know whether the treatment had helped or not.

That night I did not wake up. My hands were perfectly fine! When I woke in the morning I asked my husband, “What happened? Why didn’t I wake up with numb hands?” My husband replied, “You’re right, you didn’t wake up. The night was very quiet.”

I started to prepare a salad, another and another. I cleaned the house and, of course, the silverware.

Eleazar,

Thank you a thousand times over.

Anger

 

 

There were fears and rages and much more

To Eliezer Spetter,

What can I say? There were fears and rages and much more… and G-d sent you as His good emissary.

And you did all you could to ensure that it would all turn out right. It is written in the Psalms, “Those who sew in tears will reap in joy”. You invested more in me than I expected.

May G-d bless you who helped me to a better life. May He give you a long and calm life, and bless you in return for helping me.

And all this doesn’t reverberate in me any more…

With warmest greetings and love,

 


 

 

Rage

Another child, nine years old, was always very tense and restless. Now he is pleasant and relaxed. According to his mother, his studies are going well and he is like a different child. He used to have attacks of rage and loss of control; now he is a good child.

 


Anger

“How did you make progress using this treatment?”

“I made progress.”

“How?”

“What happens now in the family, is that we pay more attention to what happens within the family.”

“And your happiness?”

“Calmer, less pressured by everything, now I’m not pressured at all. I used to suffer a lot from doubts; I also suffer less now from anger and am more patient. I have more control over myself.”

“And how is your relationship with your wife?”

“Much better”.


Anger, trauma

 

 

As I underwent treatments with Eliezer, as we worked over the course of many sessions we managed to decrease traumas, which greatly improved my relationships with people, with my children. We were able to take down the virtual wall that was built up over years, and today I am a much more open person, a much happier person, and that isn’t dependent upon financial, physical or environmental conditions. I am much happier within, and I am prepared to accept any situation regardless of anything, of criticism, I can live with criticism, any conditions. This is all due to the work I did with Eliezer, which was mostly using the T.A.T. method. I can say that I succeeded in cleaning out all my childhood traumas. I strongly recommend this treatment method. Using this method I also was able to neutralize all my angers; today I feel, thank G-d, that I’m not angry with anyone. I’m able not to get angry and it doesn’t matter under what conditions.

 


Anger

I, Avraham, in my 40’s, I imagine my life is like most people’s: work, home, family, etc.

And like all people, I also have good periods and difficult periods in my life; situations that cause me happiness and joy – and the opposite: situations that cause anger, sadness, worry.

In addition, apparently due to something in my character, there are things that are important to me, and when things don’t happen as I’d like, it totally throws me off kilter. One minor example: orderliness at home was very important to me. I wanted everything to be in its proper place, and if I came home and found disorder, it made me angry inside and moody.

I tried to cope with these situations mostly by repression; that is, I didn’t solve the problems, I just ignored them, so that they didn’t affect my day-to-day life, until the problem occurred once again.

Using the TAT method, I succeeded in overcoming the situations that cause me anger and sorrow and learned to neutralize the feelings of anger, instead of pushing those negative feelings aside. I even became able to confront problems that I had repressed for many years, things that caused me great unhappiness when I confronted them; using this method I was able to neutralize the pain, sadness and difficulty.

This method gave me tools to cope with my daily life on all levels, with the big and little things, the things that cause me unhappiness, anger, or any other negative feelings that leave me feeling helpless or discontented. This method is an instrument that helps me cope with any situation, neutralize negative emotions, in each and every situation occurring in my life.

The advantage of this method is that you can learn how to use it on your own, without needing continuing professional guidance.
This method gives you useful tools that can be used at any time, like having an umbrella with you, at any moment you can open it and protect yourself from the rain.

I feel that since I decided to use this method, my life has changed extensively. I am much more contented; things that used to cause me depression or irritability – today I am able to confront them and smile – and I believe that all my family can testify that I have become “a different person”.

Sincerely,
Avraham


 

Family Friction, Anger, Closure

As I underwent treatments with Eliezer, as we worked over the course of many sessions we managed to decrease traumas, which greatly improved my relationships with people, with my children. We were able to take down the virtual wall that was built up over years, and today I am a much more open person, a much happier person, and one that isn’t dependent upon financial, physical or environmental conditions. I am much happier within and I am prepared to accept any situation regardless of anything, of criticism, I can live with criticism, any conditions. This is all due to the work I did with Eliezer, which was mostly using the T.A.T. method. I can say that I succeeded in cleaning out all my childhood traumas. I strongly recommend this treatment method. Using this method I also was able to neutralize all my angers; today I feel, thank G-d, that I’m not angry with anyone. I’m able not to get angry and it doesn’t matter under what conditions.

 


Overcoming Stresses and Becoming Communicative

To Eliezer Spetter!

During the last year, my husband had to deal with many difficulties at his place of work and in addition to that, his father was seriously ill. These difficulties caused a situation of almost complete detachment from the happenings at home and with his family. When he returned home, he wasn’t attentive at all and unable to pay attention to his children or his wife. Actually, it felt as if he was in a bitter and sad bubble all the time, and not one of us was able to break through it.

This situation obviously caused a lot of pressure and unnecessary anger at home. All attempts to suggest some kind of solution were met with a refusal by him that stemmed from the deep despondency he was in.

At some point, my husband decided to find the strength to get some kind of help and chose you. Immediately after the first meeting, I felt that something had changed. He spoke with me! Finally, we returned to having real discussions as we used to, not only the passing necessary information.

The frequent meetings with you didn’t change the existence of the difficulties, but they did give him good, effective methods to deal with them. The ability to cope and the understanding of what was happening to him brought him back home! He became once again the father involved with his children’s lives and a husband sensitive to my needs, too.

I thank you for this very much!

 


 

Suffering from anger

 

Thank you so much Chava Spetter,

From a young age, I suffered from anger and bad moods. I would spend all day, every day, being cross with someone and could think of nothing else. I would always vent my anger and frustration on the members of my family.

A friend of my mother’s who had undergone treatment with Chava Spetter recommended her, and my mother decided to take me to them for treatment. In a phone conversation, Chava asked if I believe in the technique and if I am willing to come for treatment.

At that moment I didn’t think that the treatment could help me, but I agreed to go anyway. I, too, was fed up living with all of the confusion inside of me.

During the first treatment I felt a strange feeling, something like a light dizziness and an internal release that I had never felt before. It was as though something had left my body.

I had four treatments with Chava. I feel that the treatment helped me and my family thinks so too. I’m not angry the whole time and don’t waste valuable time. I am usually very skeptic, but after this experience I believe that everything is possible.

Thank you so much,


 

Anger and Stress

 

Eliezer Shalom.

I came to you angry and stressed, when everything angered me and aggravated me. After a series of treatments with TAT and an inquiry into the sources of the anger and stress, I feel much calmer today and the anger appears to be a thing of the past. In fact, the technique I learned helps me cope easily with life’s daily problems.

I wish to thank you for the uncomplicated and effective treatment.

 


   

My Life was Rules by Fear, Anger and Sadness

 

To Eliezer Spetter,

 

I would like to put pen to paper and express the feelings of esteem that I have for you and for the emotional healing that I have experienced with you, and to thank you for your willingness and efforts in my treatments and to heal all of the mental sickness that I experienced.

Throughout my childhood I suffered emotional and mental abuse from my parents. This brought about feelings of inferiority, fears, anxiety, anger and sadness. Outwardly everything seemed fine but deep down inside my feelings about myself were bad.

The main problem stemmed from my father who instilled negative beliefs and thoughts, as though the “the world is dangerous and against him”. My father was afraid of everyone and transmitted the same feeling to his children. Consequently, he was an angry person and all his family, including his wife and children, were afraid of him. He would repeatedly say “you won’t get on life – and if you do, you’ll eventually lose or someone will steal your success.” Bad feelings and anger were part of him, and this caused fights between the parents.

The fights and the anger caused instability in the home and serious problems to his wife and children.

I tried to find a solution, and after many years I found Eliezer. When I heard that the treatment “erased” childhood traumas, I was sure that this was an imaginary cure, but after the first meeting I realized that I had a chance to escape from the severe emotions that that I had been experiencing throughout my life.

After a few meetings with Eliezer, I noticed a far-reaching change in three emotional channels – fear, anger and sadness – and I began to shift from negative feelings about myself and my surroundings to a very positive position regarding myself, society and more.

I received positive feedback from those around me when they began to transmit appreciation, affection and even love.

It was simply unbelievable that the treatment could help me so quickly.

Now that I have finished the treatment I can see the light at the end of the tunnel – and the light is very bright.  Since you gave me tools to deal with myself and with those around me, I am now able to function in a normative and normal manner. TAT is there for me when I need it.

Not everything is perfect yet and I have a lot of work to do for myself, but I have the acquired tools for that journey.

I can now testify that throughout most of the day I am happy and experience positive thoughts regarding myself and the world around me.

I would like to finish with thanks and esteem to you, Eliezer. Thank you for your warm attitude and for your professionalism in TAT and EFT.

Everything I have written is only a fraction of the esteem which your you truly deserve.

 


 

All of the anger and frustration just melted away.

I have never felt so at peace in my entire life.

 

Dear Eliezer,

I want to thank you for all that you did for me when I came to you for help recently. I’m a 57 year old man who had a difficult childhood involving abuse and other difficulties. A few years ago I found out that the man who raised me was actually not my biological father. Finding this out so late in life was quite devastating even though I suspected it for much of my life. It affected me more than I ever could have imagined. I grew up with a lot of rage and anger and have been able to overcome these emotions for most of my adult life. Finding out about my father stirred these emotions up in me once again. I needed someone to help me deal with these feelings welling up inside of me and you were able to do that for me. You were so patient and insightful. I knew that you practiced TAT, EFT and other modalities, but I always thought that they were worthless and not “real” therapies. I thought I would give you a chance to work with me since I had heard what a good practitioner you were and I certainly found out for myself that what I had been hearing was true. I now know that these modalities are very effective and very powerful. I’m so happy that you helped me open my mind to working with you. After only two sessions, something “gave way” inside of me and all of the anger and frustration just melted away. I have never felt so at peace in my entire life. Thank you, Eliezer, so much for giving me back my life.

J.P.

Atlanta, GA

U.S.A.

 

 

I had been suffering from low self-confidence and self-image

I came to TAT because I had been suffering from low self-confidence and self-image, poor social skills, fear of success, and a need for approval from others for most of my life, all stemming from childhood trauma.

TAT has helped me reconnect with my true self by healing and removing the fears, pain, and false concepts I had about myself and my capabilities, step by step, painlessly and enjoyably. I say enjoyably because I was amazed at the changes within me after each session. Early on I had already found myself being more confident and secure at home and at work.

B”H, I am no longer plagued by self-doubts or feelings of inadequacy, and it shows in my professional and interpersonal relationships.

I can truly say that through TAT I have not just discovered a “new” me, but have rediscovered the real me — and I’m forever grateful!


Pressures & Self Confidence

 

I reached the conclusion that something was preventing me from succeeding.

Through a self-examination of the job interviews I had had in the past few years in my occupational and family life, I reached the conclusion that I had a problem with my self-confidence. As a result, I was overly pressured. After discussing the subject with my wife, she said that she loved

me, but I was the most stressed person she knew.’

I found out that Eliezer deals with this area, too.

The results:

I was bent over and stressed and after the first meeting, I left upright and unburdened.

After four meetings, I had a new job.

After a number of meetings, I had my blood pressure tested. The results: I hadn ‘ t had such low blood pressure in 12 years !

I am more open now- less concentrated on myself ,willing to accept criticism and capable of understanding other people more easily. I express myself ,more clearly. I have learned basic tools to help myself.

In conclusion, the turn to treatment was an investment in interpersonal skills and in health. And it has repercussions on all aspects of life.

My thanks to G-d and to Eliezer for the tool to the rectification of the serious mistakes that were made in the past.


 

I was insecure about the way I looked and who I was.

I began treatment with TAT because I felt stuck due to things I had experienced throughout my life: I felt that I could not open up to people and connect with them, especially so when I tried to go out with men. I also felt that I did not appreciate myself enough; I felt that although they told me that they love me, those around me did not really do so and I felt very negative about myself. I was insecure about the way I looked and who I was. I have a complex relationship, with my mother and never knew how to deal with it.

Following treatment, I felt things released within. Suddenly I believe in myself. I believe that people really like me for who I am. I decided to appreciate myself far more! I never felt this way before – I’ve always been self-critical in everything but, due to TAT, I don’t feel that way any longer: I am now far more open and connect with people. I hope that soon I’ll be able to go out on shiduchim and be’ezrat Hashem soon find a husband. My attitude towards my mother has also improved due to small tips I received during the treatment sessions.

This is an opportunity to say a huge “thank you” for everything; I do not know what I’d have done without TAT. By the way, I previously never believed in any kind of treatment, but a friend managed to convince me to try “just once”. Thank G-d I listened. My experience with TAT was very successful and has helped me tremendously.

 

 


 

 

Total humiliation to a new life and feeling a new person

I am married with three children. I came to Eliezer Spetter due to the accumulation of thoughts that made me crazy. From the beginning of the first treatment, I saw a light at the end of the tunnel: an overflowing light to a new world and liberation from the oppressive thoughts and troubles that I had suffered from the beginning of my childhood: in short, to begin my start life over again relaxed and feeling free.

From a feeling of worthlessness that came after being humiliated and called names from my childhood through adulthood, after pressure from others and zero tolerance towards me, I realized that I was worth something, someone who can act positively and not be hurt by other people’s anger; I can look people in the eye and forgive them without a trace of fear – Now I know how to respond, how to relate to other people and succeed in life.

 


 

I had problems with my belief in myself and was really scared to talk to people.

Greetings to all who read this letter,

I first met dear Eliezer six years ago. I can honestly say that I did not know what to expect. I had problems with my belief in myself and was really scared to talk to people. I felt that I was really “small” and had to always consider other people’s opinions without allowing myself to express my own feelings. This was all before I met Eliezer.

Eliezer was able to solve everything through an thorough series of steps while explaining everything that we were doing. We found that I had hidden problematic behaviours that I did not know about, and these were cured as well and an emotional block that I had carried with me for years was released.

To summarize, I would like to encourage everyone who is on this journey. Believe in yourselves and believe in the method! It works one hundred percent.

Good luck to all, and thank you Eliezer from the bottom of my heart.

Post-natal depression, I had suicidal thoughts. And now I am back to myself

Dear Eliezer,

I would like to thank you for your help and devotion.

I suffered from post-natal depression for almost six months. I was, and nervous and angry had suicidal thoughts as well. I also had other, personal problems, but after three treatments with you my condition improved vastly. Now I am able to see life more calmly.

I remembered that I had not wanted the pregnancy

To Eliezer Spetter,

My son is 23 and I had a lot of problems with him, and he would get angry at me and try to get back at me the whole time.  I decided to come to Eliezer Spetter to learn what the problem was. Eliezer told me that when a woman has an unwanted pregnancy, the child who is eventually born will feel unwanted and lack self confidence.

I remembered that I had not wanted the pregnancy. I was having a hard time because the child before him was only five months old and did not stop crying. I had an umbilical hernia and needed surgery. This pregnancy came as a surprise since I was nursing.

I did TAT on the unwanted pregnancy, and on that same day my son called me (he does not live at home) and spoke to me very nicely. I was shocked and thought that it was just an off-chance, but since then he has become my best friend, he is devoted and tells me what is going on in his life.

I underwent an abortion which resulted in a guilty conscience

Dear Eliezer,

I want to thank you for the wonderful and liberating process.

A month and a half ago I underwent an abortion which resulted in a guilty conscience, anger and anxiety, fear of punishment and enormous frustration. I suffered from severe anxiety attacks and thought I was going crazy. Worst of all I had suicidal thoughts and loss all taste for life.

I want to point out that from the moment I entered your home I felt a sense of peace, and as treatment progressed, the guilt feelings became compassion and self-forgiveness.

After four treatments, I feel great (I even find it amusing when I realize the root of the panic attacks) I came to a place of self-acceptance, self-forgiveness, and the release of past mistakes.

Thank you very much for your part in my journey.


Extremely scared of the birth, fears that seemed so real and tangible…

I would like to thank you from the bottom of my heart for being the emissary who helped me.

I came to you in the ninth month of my pregnancy, extremely scared of the birth, fears that seemed so real and tangible… all this due to a trauma experienced some years previously when my baby died of crib death.

Chava, with her knowhow of TAT and her special calm, helped me in treatments before the birth and even during the birth process. Thank God, the birth was easy and calm – and was the easiest that I have experienced until now.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart.


I then had four miscarriages and since then have been unable to get pregnant

Dear Eliezer,

Two years after my wedding, I gave birth naturally.

I then had four miscarriages and since then have been unable to get pregnant.

Everything is fine physically, yet I suffered from fears and traumas connected to hospitals since my mother was ill for four years, and the back and forth to and from the hospital and the difficulty in seeing people like her in their suffering caused the fear that this could happen to me as well.

It is impossible to know why people are “stuck”…

Six years passed since the last miscarriage, yet Rav Kanievsky שליט”א suggested that I not have fertility treatments.

Thank G-d, I found TAT and was treated over a few months. Lo and behold, thank G-d I had a spontaneous pregnancy.

Moreover, most important of all, I live my life happily without fears…


TAT and the birth of my 5th child

Happily, we had a baby boy on Tuesday 9 Tevet, at 7:03 a.m.The contractions began in the night, approximately at 11:00. They were light contractions, every 15-20 minutes. I thought that this would stop at some point, and I prepared for sleep, knowing that I needed to pay attention to the clock. I awoke intermittently, and noticed that I was wakening, breathing, and returning to sleep.

I looked at the clock and saw that the contractions were arriving every few minutes (four, five or seven minutes apart).Around 5:00 a.m. we left for Yerushalayim, and arrived before 6:00.The birth progressed rapidly. I breathed deep breaths. I didn’t suffer during the contractions.

Only with the last contractions, which were at the point of eight centimeters dilation, when I had no chance to rest, did I feel pain, but this lasted for only several minutes. I got to the hospital, and after two pushes, the baby was out.Meanwhile, the midwives discovered that I was in active labor after two Cesarean births, and became anxious.

However, I remained totally calm, and didn’t understand what all the full was all about. Because I was bleeding heavily, I was taken to the operating room for revision (cleaning of uterus in order to check that there is no endometrial tearing). During this, they had me sign an agreement for surgery, emphasizing that if G-d forbid there is tearing, the uterus would need immediate removal. I remember telling them that all is well, and that the uterus is intact.

I was in a state of internal peace that didn’t let me be pressured from without. (Afterwards, I remembered that after my other births I had bled copiously, so it was normal for me and not a result of the surgeries. Another thing that calmed the doctors was my high hemoglobin level).

It was plain and clear to me that I would have a regular birth and not a C-section. The labor passed by so quickly (there wasn’t even time for an epidural) and so easily, that I had a hard time believing that I had already given birth.

This is the first birth out of five that I have undergone, where I was calm. Even the stress of those around me didn’t affect me, and they were very stressed!I had a normal birth after two Cesarean births.I arrived physically and psychologically prepared for a regular birth.

I didn’t countenance the possibility of an addition Cesarean surgery, even though it is usual after two Cesareans to give birth only through surgery.Concerning an epidural – there is nothing to say. Everything happened so swiftly that it was unnecessary, and I even forgot about the possibility of an epidural.I think that this birth was so quick and easy because of the work I did with TAT and that gave me the feeling of preparedness, the knowledge of what I should do, and the calm that I felt.It all happened so quickly that I couldn’t believe that I was already “after”.I thank G-d that He heard my prayers for a regular birth with the help of TAT, easy and swift, and that He sent me the right emissaries at the right time, who helped me prepare myself for this birth.


TAT and pregnancy and personality change

I wanted to express briefly and concisely a small bit of the emotions I feel. Your aid, dedication, self-sacrifice and above all your professionalism and sincerity were of tremendous benefit to me. My husband, who has a very calm nature as is- and everyone who knows him is amazed how calm and moderate he is-expressed an interest in learning your method himself in order to use it and aid himself, too. A number of times he has expressed an interest in meeting you in order to learn.

We were especially amazed how the method helped me to survive one of the difficult periods that I’ve had- after I’d already given up any hope that someone could aid me- and that’s pregnancy. I have suffered tremendously during every pregnancy, especially during the first months, from extreme nausea and vomiting. We tried all the medicines and various suggestions and had almost despaired of finding some kind of solution. Thank G-d that I heard of your method and thought it might be able to help me since body and soul are tied together. When the soul is calm- something that is quite rare today- then it has the strength to deal with physical problems.

Truthfully, today when I read in the newspapers about all the common conflicts and the many different and often unusual kinds of problems that exist in each one of us, such as tension and anxieties and all the other problems of the time, I feel that the problems aren’t mine anymore.

In the first meetings, I didn’t feel any dramatic changes. However, after the next meetings, I felt very perceptible changes in my life at least in one area( things that I thought were part of my personality and could not change such as a lack of self-confidence, etc. These are things that everyone looks at as inborn traits.

I must emphasize that in society I am thought of as smooth, accepted and sought-after. This is in an intellectual and logical society that doesn’t tend to believe in all kinds of methods that appear all the time. But, after thought and investigation, I reached the conclusion that your method combined with your special professionalism and the way you teach and implement the method (from my experience, not everyone is able to implement the method effectively) will be able to aid me- with G-d’s help, of course.

I will end with the blessing that may you merit to a new year full of blessing and success in every area and all your requests will be filled to the best.


Pregnancy and relaxed and swift birth of my last baby

In my fifth pregnancy, I came to Eliezer Spetter with the intention of alleviating difficulty in the process of birth. I thought this would be a technique that I could use myself during the birth.

I arrived at the session and we worked in a very pleasant and relaxed manner on my other births, etc. I left the treatment session feeling very calm, as if I had released a heavy weight that I had been carrying on my back without being aware of it. (The reason that I came was to work on the birth itself, but actually I discovered that I was in somewhat of a state of anxiety about what was going to take place).

In my other births, the contractions weren’t so difficult due to the epidural, but during the transition stage the contractions were horrible and the epidural didn’t help (even when they increased it), like a Heavenly decree.

In each birth, it took around half an hour or more at the end of long and painful contractions.

On April 24th I arrived calm and received an epidural, dozed and awoke.

During the transition stage after 10 minutes the infant was out.

Actually it was like a 10 minute labor. All day I felt that I couldn’t believe that I had already given birth. I didn’t feel at all as if I had been through labor; it was like a miracle. Again and again I said that I just couldn’t believe that I had given birth like this. I felt strong and relaxed.

Thank you!


In the advanced stage of pregnancy

 

I was in the advanced stage of pregnancy when he asked me what I wanted to work on in connection with birth giving. I didn’t have to think much as I was afraid of the after birth pangs awaiting me as I had suffered through unpleasant nursing sessions the first days after birth with my previous children. As every mother of a few children knows and possibly has experienced, the contractions after birth, which are there to contract the womb back into its original shape, are far from pleasant. It is a common sight in the nursing room to see the nursing mothers grimacing over the stomach ache they experience while they nurse their babies. Some mothers as a rule take some Acamol before the nursing as they find those contractions so difficult to bear.

As I was telling the therapist the above he exclaimed: That’s an erroneous belief! But it is true, I countered, ask any mother expecially one who has gone through several births and they will tell you that it is a fact. Any doctor will explain it to you. However, my therapist kept insisting that it is an erroneous belief. It is not an absolute truth. Only HaShem is an Absolute Truth! Any truth or statistics have exceptions. The thing is that because we have heard about things we, so to speak, invite them to happen to us. The same idea as the self-fullfilling prophecies that parents are cautioned about with the upbringing of their children.

Since “mind over matter” is not just a saying but a very true reality of the human psyche, the thoughts and beliefs we have of ourselves and life make a tremendous impact on us.

In any case as we kept arguing back and forth, he suggested, let’s just work on it. And so we did.

Well, seeing is believing as they say. I can truly say that this time for the first time I didn’t suffer from after birth pangs. Did I have them? Yes I did, but I didn’t suffer from them! Let me explain what I mean. This time thanks to the TAT I did I had a totally different experience. Every time when I sat down to nurse and the nursing hormone that contracts the milk ducts and gets the milk flowing, started also contracting the stomach I felt like shouting, “hurray, the hormones work, and I will have milk and my womb shrinks nicely back into shape”.

So I did feel the sensation but it was entirely positive and not negative. Neither did I fight the sensation but almost welcomed it. Besides all of that since I saw it positively I didn’t pile on top of the pain all previous associations of pain and fear and what not, which then would have made me feel even more pain than the actual sensation of the contracting muscle.

It is really very much the idea of the Swiss method of birthing where they teach the mothers-to-be to interpret the sensation of the stomach contractions not as pain from which we try to flee but rather a sensation we welcome and work along with.

That real life example showed me very clearly that it is all in the mind. We make life so hard for us because of all these erroneous beliefs. This concept is known nowadays in the conventional medicine too, as they call it psychosomatic illnesses. Illnesses that seem imagined but where the patient has an actual physical pain eventhough everything is physically alright. It is triggered by his mind. Besides that conventional medicine admits that certain deceases are causes partly or mainly from stresses or fears etc. i.e. that inbalances of the emotions and thoughts of man can have a direct influence on his physical wellbeing, what with high bloodpressure, heart deceases, cancer.


Hard time finding a husband

To Dear Chava,

Today, Thank G-d, I am a married woman, expecting a baby. When we first met two years ago this was something that I couldn’t even dream about.

Thank you and Eliezer for your devoted treatment, for my progress, for your devotion and your desire for my success.

When we first met, I was in my late thirties. I was having a hard time finding a husband. Everyone else was married, and I was left alone.

I was full of feelings of guilt and frustration, and had reached a point where I did not believe that I could change things.

Thank G-d, I was fortunate to find my soul mate, but after some time it became clear that I was unable to get pregnant. I underwent many difficult treatments.

At one point, I again approached Chava and together we worked on more unsolved matters… I was soon expecting a baby.

I would like to add that the pleasant feelings that came across during the TAT treatments enabled me to open up and talk truthfully about the most unpleasant things that had happened to me, about what I really felt.

Thank G-d, people now consider me a walking miracle – they did not believe that I would ever marry…

Happy Pesach


Emotional preparation for birth joy

When I was past my due date by almost two weeks, the doctor told me that he would have to induce labor the next day.

I didn’t like the idea because I believe in the natural way to give birth and not through chemical intervention.

I went to Chavah Spetter for a TAT treatment immediately after my visit with the doctor. I had just one session with Chavah, during which it came up that I was hold back giving birth, that I really had not wanted this pregnancy. Throughout all these months, I had felt that I couldn’t love this baby.

I left Chavah with joy and looking forward to seeing this new baby.

That same night my little girl was born so easily and with so much simcha – simcha that I had never encountered before with my previous babies.

Thank you Hashem and Chavah.


Dear Chavah

Anxieties for miscarriages, which just about crippled me

The truth is I am very pleased to write this letter. Right from the start, when I first came to you and saw all the letters from people you had treated, I wished that one day I would be able to write a similar letter saying I had changed and that the treatment really works.

Now, I, too, have the privilege of being one of those who can write a thank-you letter.

Chava, when I first came, I was not doing too well, I was suffering from anxieties which just about crippled me. I was nervous, and the whole family suffered, mainly my children and my husband.

After my second miscarriage (caused by stress and fear), I realized that I had to get to the root of the problem.

A good friend recommended TAT, and the truth I was very skeptical about this because I’ve been through so many treatments of all kinds, but thank to haShem my fears were proven wrong and by the second session, I started to feel better. My husband was able to travel alone (I was extremely scared when he was on the road), and gradually I saw and felt how the fear moved further and further away. Even if I have occasional “down days”, I still have tools to deal with fears (thank to haShem they grow more and more rare), and I know that if I needed anything you will always be there for me!

Thank you so very much Chavah

I hope you continue to succeed – your work is really important.


Fears for giving birth
TAT for the trauma of the brit (circumcision) and the pain afterwards.

Dear Chava,

First of all, I would like to express my gratitude for your listening and patience, and for the help over and beyond. I would like to tell about my experiences with TAT.

I came for treatment to deal with fears that I had before giving birth. I was in my eighth month of pregnancy, and through the treatment I felt really comfortable towards the birth. I was not scared of anything, neither stitches, complications nor pain.

Now, postpartum, I can say that even the labor pains weren’t too bad. I gave birth without an epidural, and thank G-d, I arrived at the birth emotionally prepared and it was a happy and uplifting experience – thanks to the treatments and of course thanks to Hashem.

Additionally, after my sweet son’s brit, I did TAT on him, naturally under Chava’s instruction. The treatment is to extract the trauma that he experienced during the brit and the pain afterwards. That night, my baby was relaxed and quiet, and did not cry when urinating or when having his diaper changed.

So dearest Chavale, thank you again, both for the treatments and patience and for your concern and help after the treatments were over.

With love and blessings for much success and happiness.

 

Diseases

 

Bronchiectasis

 

I came to Chava due to my problem with Bronchiectasis from which I have suffered during the past fourteen years. According to conventional medicine, this is a chronic condition, but I could not accept this prognosis and searched for alternative options.

TAT was extremely helpful. I received treatments for events that had affected me in my past, and I can say that within two months I was a different person.

I can now withstand cold and dust, and other things do not harm my health as in the past.

I am happier and feel that I am progressing in all walks of life.

Now I can live like everyone else and do everything that everyone else can do.

 


 

My health was affected by everything that happened

I came because of my background, coming from a broken home, and as a result of that I had a lot of difficulties throughout my life and developed physical and emotional problems. I felt it weighing down on me. I came to Eliezer to be released from this and B”H after a few sessions and a lot of work, I felt healed.

My sister died when I was a child and I came from a dysfunctional family, which affected my relationships later in life. B”H I went on to marry and raise a family.

My health was affected by everything that happened. I’ve had thyroid problems, I’ve had a blood clotting problem, I’ve had candida that was brought on by stress and I started working with a natural practitioner for the candida, but I found once I got to Eliezer, my physical health vastly improved very quickly because I released the tension which was a major cause of the candida.

I am blown away from the results. It takes a lot of courage on one’s part to do it, but if you are willing to confront the past, head on, there is always hope to fix it. I was flabbergasted by how quickly it went, but that was because I was open to going through the TAT process and confronting the past, and because I was so open, the healing came quickly.

 

 


 

I felt very ill – physically – due to the many different traumas that I had experienced

 

To Dr. Eliezer Spetter, expert in TAT,

I would like to thank you for the treatments that literally changed my whole life. When I first came to you, I felt very ill – physically – due to the many different traumas that I had experienced over the past ten years, both in Yeshiva and at home. Even though I had undergone many different kinds of treatments and therapies, nothing seemed to improve until I found you and TAT.

Through TAT, I began to forget the past and found new strength and motivation to do things that I could not be bothered doing until now. I began to realize whom I really am and was not affected by the disturbing things around me. I could now connect to the real me, to my own needs and act accordingly.

Another level in the treatment was the spiritual level, the forgiveness and the thanks to Hashem. Through you and TAT, I was able to envisage new horizons and change bad habits.

I would certainly recommend TAT to others who need treatment. This is the only treatment that gives such positive results – believe me, I’ve been there.

With all my heart,

Y.Yaakov

 

 

 

 

 


 

 

Cancer

 

I had a large lump in my breast

I had a large lump in my breast. I did a series of chemotherapy but to no avail. The doctors decided that I would have to undergo surgery to remove the growth.

I decided to approach Eliezer Spetter. We worked with TAT and The Journey on several beliefs. For example: “If I don’t do anything soon it will spread”. We worked on my childhood and on the fact that my mother did not love me. Subsequently other traumas came up and we dealt with them too.

I showed up at the hospital for the scheduled operation. The doctors opened me up and were astounded when they found no trace of a tumor.

I am doing great now.

 

 


 

Diabetes

 

To people whom I’m addressing it should be known that, my work with Mr. Spetter has improved the following things: One thing it’s improved my state of diabetes, my sugar is much more under control, I’m able to eat. Nondiabetic foods that diabetics don’t eat, like white flour, sugars. Fruits and things like that without having any diabetic reaction. Also I suffered from diabetic food ulcers whichwhich refused to close. Which after treatment and concentration on these problems they started to close. And have started to heal. further more on personality level, psychological matter I’ve improved my temper. I’m no longer depressed. I’m no longer in a state of frustration and anger as I was before. And, generally speaking, I’ve worked through various traumas, disability I’ve felt I’ve had in the past.

 

 


 

 

To Dear Chava Spetter

Words are really not enough to truly thank you, nor to describe or illustrate…

When I first came to Chava, I was very anxious, sad and insecure, very emotional and helpless and that was how my days were – how my life was; no self-confidence and not connecting with myself. At first, I was not even aware of my situation (only of one particular problem that I wanted to solve by myself). I had a lot of anger and frustration of which I was unaware. The past traumas of childhood and adolescence were below the surface. I also suffered from a certain physical problem, the cause of which no one knew and no one could find a solution – not even modern medicine. These were cured during the treatment, and I was truly cleansed in a manner that cannot be described in words.

The wonderful thing about the treatment is there is no need to relive the pain of the past experience or to talk about it, or even to know the cause. The subconscious knows all. It knows why you have a specific problem or a certain thought pattern, if you are stuck emotionally or in behavioral traits. It knows the root of one’s suffering and the treatment with TAT cures things without the conscious mind even knowing it. It is fast and specific and everything can be cured! Everything!

The healing method is awesome! A fascinating journey of self-discovery and connection. A healing process of understanding, acceptance and true release!

During the treatment, one also acquires tools for fast and targeted incredible self-help. These tools can be used after treatment as well.

TAT is not painful, it is not difficult to do, and does not necessarily take a long time. Quite the opposite. Things can happen very quickly. The healing is physical, mental and emotional in the best possible way.

Every problem that we have, be it physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, has its own source. We are not at fault and anything can be healed. I thank God so much; he just is good and healing.

Moreover, I thank you, dear and precious Chava. I am now far more relaxed, accept myself and understand myself on a level that I did not know existed. (My physical problem also disappeared, this after having thought that G-d forbid, I could not bear children), childhood traumas disappeared as though they had almost never existed, anger and fear were cleansed my thoughts and mind are now clear and happy, I feel wonderful with a happy and optimistic view that changes everything!

The thing is that did not know previously about the existence of trauma and lies from my past and present , that I was influenced by them and that they affected my perceptions, habits and certain behavioral traits. Before the treatment, I thought that things happen and one moves on with one’s life. Through the treatment with TAT, I realize that the subconscious remembers everything in every cell, in our bodies and our memories. Therefore one needs a thorough healing and internal cleansing because if not, there may be unknown negative factors of which we are unconscious and which run our lives.

The treatment is tranquil, empowering and simple. One really has to experience it to really understand! It is really amazing and I recommend it to everyone! Without exception!

With thanks to the Creator. My self-confidence has returned and is getting stronger by the day and is reaching levels that I could never have imagined previously. I am far more loving, respectful and I understand myself. I am relaxed, happy and satisfied.

 


 

 

Bulimia

From Liat’s Diary (fictional name)

“The only time that I can eat sweets, cookies, etc. is when bingeing. During a binge nothing else is important. I have no control of my thoughts and my conscience turns off, I don’t care. not interested.I know that I will vomit it all, but after I finish eating everything I can get my hands on, my conscience begins to bother me. why?” 

“.All the systems of equilibrium in my body are ruined; I don’t know when I am hungry and when I’m full. I even forget how it feels to be hungry of satiated.”. 

“.There were times that I thought that I was going crazy, that I would explode, and I didn’t know what was worse: that my brain would blow up because I wasn’t on a food binge, or that my stomach would explode because I was bingeing. The second possibility is easier, since I didn’t have to deal with what I was feeling; the only thing I thought about all day was how and when to vomit”. 

“I am tired of it, sick of it, I can’t stand it.help! A constant feeling of restlessness and no peace, that I can stifle only by escape and the escape is through food binges, crazy and uncontrolled. I feel like I’m drugged. I salivate just from thinking that I’m about to binge, and I grab on any food, sweet, bitter, salty, fresh, frozen, etc. without discrimination. I eat knowing that soon I will need to continue my routine: work, etc. 

But the binge overtakes my senses. I suppress my mind, and after the binge I tell myself: what have I done? I ruined my day. Instead of being like any other 24-year-old, that spends his time moving ahead, I am regressing without control. What haven’t I tried, where haven’t I gone? I’ve gone to almost every type of treatment and nothing has helped (or maybe helped for a month). I’ve wasted thousands of shekels while my friends used their money for st udi es, I wasted vacation time, etc. and I wasted money on buying food. 

Solving the Problem
Finally I heard of a treatment method used by Eliezer Spetter. At first I was skeptical, but Eliezer Spetter appeared to be a trustworthy person, so we began treatment. It was unbelievable: the bingeing attacks vanished gradually, I am able to control my mind, and I got my life returned to me. My life got back on a normal track, therefore, I warmly recommend joining the treatment method of NLP and EFT. 

Through this treatment I learned to recognize the real Liat, and not the Liat that forced herself to fit society (a twisted society invented in my own mind). 

I learned to love myself, and not to try to be someone or something that I’m not.

I learned to recognize and to activate the potential within me. 

I gained recognition of my inner feelings and of how to express them in words. 

My view of the world changed, from a twisted and mistaken critical view to a more rational and honest view, and I put my life into real and proper proportions. 


 

Bulimia

“After three sessions of EFT I no longer have a compulsion and inner need to fall upon food like an addict”.

 


 

 

Swallowing food and drinks and my learning Torah

 

10th Av 5771

Dear Eliezer Spetter,

“Praise the Lord for He is good, His kindness is everlasting”

I am so happy, Eliezer, that you have helped so many people with so many problems in a wide range of areas for such a long time. So many people, myself among them, are now able to stand on their own feet and are living better lives due to your help.

I first came to you six months ago, lacking self confidence and afraid of my own shadow. I was anxious and living in perpetual stress. I was unable to eat and drink properly, and was simply sad. I very much wanted to get on with my life and believed that I could, yet I did not success in doing so alone. As our sages of blessed memory said, “A prisoner is unable to free himself from prison”.

Eliezer helped to free me from the many strange things that had been my lot since childhood and that throughout the years had just piled on top of each other without the help of suitable treatment. Added to that were the traumatic deaths of my Rabbi and his wife who were killed in a car accident four and a half years ago. As much as I tried, I was unable to recover from that trauma.

Thanks to the treatment, I am now happy and all who know me remark how I shine with a special light. I feel an internal happiness and gratitude to the Creator and his faithful emissary, Eliezer Spetter, and consequently try to help those in need.

Since I started becoming more religious over thirteen years ago, I have felt very pressured learning Torah and have strived to make my learning more pleasurable and peaceful. This distressed me and caused me to enjoy my learning less. Due to Eliezer’s devoted treatment, I was able to improve my learning drastically, and today I learn with more happiness and zeal, and am satisfied with my lot. May it be G-d’s will that we all grow in Torah, and that Rav Eliezer Spetter continue to reap his rewards.

May it be G-d’s will that there should be others like him.

 


 

 

Anorexia ,no one knew and no one could find a solution,

I was very anxious, sad and insecure!

 

To Dear Chava Spetter

 

Words are really not enough to truly thank you, nor to describe or illustrate…

When I first came to Chava, I was very anxious, sad and insecure, very emotional and helpless and that was how my days were – how my life was; no self-confidence and not connecting with myself. At first, I was not even aware of my situation (only of one particular problem that I wanted to solve by myself). I had a lot of anger and frustration of which I was unaware. The past traumas of childhood and adolescence were below the surface. I also suffered from a certain physical problem, the cause of which no one knew and no one could find a solution – not even modern medicine. These were cured during the treatment, and I was truly cleansed in a manner that cannot be described in words.

The wonderful thing about the treatment is there is no need to relive the pain of the past experience or to talk about it, or even to know the cause. The subconscious knows all. It knows why you have a specific problem or a certain thought pattern, if you are stuck emotionally or in behavioral traits. It knows the root of one’s suffering and the treatment with TAT cures things without the conscious mind even knowing it. It is fast and specific and everything can be cured! Everything!

The healing method is awesome! A fascinating journey of self-discovery and connection. A healing process of understanding, acceptance and true release!

During the treatment, one also acquires tools for fast and targeted incredible self-help. These tools can be used after treatment as well.

TAT is not painful, it is not difficult to do, and does not necessarily take a long time. Quite the opposite. Things can happen very quickly. The healing is physical, mental and emotional in the best possible way.

Every problem that we have, be it physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, has its own source. We are not at fault and anything can be healed. I thank God so much; he just is good and healing.

Moreover, I thank you, dear and precious Chava. I am now far more relaxed, accept myself and understand myself on a level that I did not know existed. (My physical problem also disappeared, this after having thought that G-d forbid, I could not bear children), childhood traumas disappeared as though they had almost never existed, anger and fear were cleansed my thoughts and mind are now clear and happy, I feel wonderful with a happy and optimistic view that changes everything!

The thing is that did not know previously about the existence of trauma and lies from my past and present , that I was influenced by them and that they affected my perceptions, habits and certain behavioral traits. Before the treatment, I thought that things happen and one moves on with one’s life. Through the treatment with TAT, I realize that the subconscious remembers everything in every cell, in our bodies and our memories. Therefore one needs a thorough healing and internal cleansing because if not, there may be unknown negative factors of which we are unconscious and which run our lives.

The treatment is tranquil, empowering and simple. One really has to experience it to really understand! It is really amazing and I recommend it to everyone! Without exception!

With thanks to the Creator. My self-confidence has returned and is getting stronger by the day and is reaching levels that I could never have imagined previously. I am far more loving, respectful and I understand myself. I am relaxed, happy and satisfied.

 

 


Aches and Pains

 

Back Pain, Hand Pain, Physical and Mental Abuse


“I suffered terribly from strong back pain and hand pain; about the hand pain I was told that there wasn’t a chance that the hand would recoverand the hand barely functioned. In an X-ray, slipped discs were found and other problems showed up in a CAT scan.

During treatments with Eliezer Spetter using EFT and TAT, the pain disappeared almost entirely, and the hand resumed functioning. It appears that there is a powerful connection between a person’s physical feeling and his emotional state.

I came for treatment because of a personal trauma that I recently had undergone; the trauma was very difficult, and on this point, too, I received vast help from the unique treatments of Eliezer Spetter . My childhood trauma was being unloved by my mother; after that I was sexually exploited from age 7 until 12 , not rape, but physical en mental abuse, and the treatments also freed me from this trauma. 

Recently I underwent a family trauma concerning my husband, a very difficult situation of domestic discord not found normally in a family. It is truly an exceptional problem that I can’t discuss, and anyone hearing about it would think it was imaginary, not real. Eliezer’s treatment helped me get back on my feet when I was feeling helpless and afraid. I had been in a terrible state, barely functioning.

Today I am functioning, as is my hand, which the doctors had given up on. I hope that through another few treatments my hand will resume full function. I warmly recommend these treatment methods to anyone interested.” 

 


 

Headaches

 

“Hello, this is Gad. For a long time I suffered from headaches and I tried all kinds of treatments, but nothing helped. But with this method of EFT the headaches are totally gone. Now and then, when I have some kind of pain, I use the technique on my own and it really helps. Thank you very much.”


Pain

“This TAT technique is very good; it’s a method that helps a person to control and deal with his difficult emotions. This technique has helped me become calmer, happier. 
In this technique, you don’t feel the direct connection to the treatment, everything just becomes better and more pleasant. Using this technique, I was able to overcome pains in my hand from a bad accidentand the use of my hand is much better and freer. In general, my attitude is better. Through this technique, you learn how to handle various problems, how to solve problems and not let them sink in, and how to have a more pleasant and better life.”

 

 


 

Pain and Interpersonal Relationships

I came some time ago not knowing logically what this method was, and realizing that the usual technical techniques were not going to be enough, for I had tried many before for many years, and still there were many relationships issues as well as psychical elements.

I was willing to try something that was really unknown to me and the process and benefits were unknown to me.

So I was open, which does help, and still wanted to know logically what this process was all about, so some time was spent on my trying to grasp what the technique was. The best part is doing the TAT and I’ve started the EFT on the body symptoms, and seeing that I had some break for the first time in probably twenty years, and that it not only was something temporary, which often happens with new techniques, but that there seems to be deepening of the process. It held even when the same triggers occurred again or there were similar stressful events, that normally would precipitate a systemic reaction. Once the body symptoms started to drop off, I could start to address circumstances, the history in the background, to what seemed to be big triggers from way backand current ones. Sometimes we went from the past and sometimes it was from the present, sometimes it was mixed, and I made a commitment to myself that this would be part of my weekly regiment until I started to feel growing patience and excessive peace.Just getting a taste of the peace, even if it’s for a few minutes, is encouraging and encouraged me to stay with it even though there were often times that I wanted to stop the process orcouldn’t understand how it could benefit the relationship issues.Then I saw the miracles that so many issues changed without my having to tell the other person to get help, even knowing what I did differently in terms of the interaction with family members, to bring out a different response on their part, and I couldn’t really put on paper what actually occured, I just saw and experienced changes that I never thought could happen. The process is continuing and it’s deepening, and I feel like a new integrity and a new dignity is within reach- not just for a few minutes, a week, or a few minutes a day. .It could actually be that I could live life, a quality life, if there is a god, spirit, something that is pushing us to connect with him, and to live in this world, in a positive and happy way, and he’s channeled it somehow, through certain people, and it’s spreading and it’s radiating throughout the worldand touching people of all backgrounds, of all countries and languages, economic and socio-economic backgrounds, and one doesn’t know who is working on themselves in such a way. So, step by step, I feel like I’m taking my place again in the world in a new way , and I have a new optimism about the life that I can actually have and the service that I can provide the world.So I can only suggest to people to go beyond your mind and be open enough to let the heart once again start beating, to learn how to live by your heart and by your truth, to connect that very long distance between the mind and the heart, so that we’re fully aligned and flowing in this beautiful world. 

-You came to me full of pains, and, remember, we worked on a lot of bodily pains and issues like family issues, the relationship with your husband was terrible and relationship with your children was not o.k. So we worked on all these things, relations with your parents who were not in this country, but in another country,and you suffered from that, and it was expressed in the pains that you felt in your body, and couldn’t get hold of. Till it broke through, and now there remains just a small percentage of the pains, so you can find yourself without pains for the rest of your life and what you say your deepened your relations with Shalom Bait and everything surrounding you in your house and your family relationships .

 


 

 

Headache and Severe Back Pains

We would like to thank you for your dedication in the treatment of our 19-year-old son.

He came to you six months ago for treatment of severe back pains and headache and mental difficulties that he had suffered from for the previous two years.

After four months of hard work – by both of you – you were able to end the treatment with him in good physical and mental health.

We feel that our son has been returned to us as he was in the past, and hope that the tools that he has acquired will help him if he needs them in the future.

Thank you from the bottom of our hearts.

We wish you only success and G-d’s help in healing others.

 


 

Asthma

 

I am twenty-one years of age, recently discharged from the army.

I came to Eliezer with acute asthma, completely dependent on inhalers, inhalants and other medications to open the respiratory organs.

After receiving instructions and walking me through TAT, I felt immediate relief and a widening of the respiratory organs.

My allergic reactions to dust and physical activity have diminished significantly.

 

Eliezer, thank you so much for your professionalism and your determination.

 


 

You Saved me from Surgery on my Hands

The nights were insufferable. My hands would go numb and I would wake shouting, “I can’t feel my hands”. I would bang on the walls trying to feel them. During the days, I was unable to cut vegetables, to clean the silver and clean the house. I was simply unable to use my hands for anything.

I consulted with a doctor and underwent a CT. The results showed some kind of blockage in my wrists that caused my hands to go numb. I would have to have surgery.

I was extremely nervous and very scared of the operation, and then I heard about Eliezer Spetter and his treatment with TAT. We began the treatment, I laughed,  yet I was eager to know whether the treatment had helped or not.

That night I did not wake up. My hands were perfectly fine! When I woke in the morning I asked my husband, “What happened? Why didn’t I wake up with numb hands?” My husband replied, “You’re right, you didn’t wake up. The night was very quiet.”

I started to prepare a salad, another and another. I cleaned the house and, of course, the silverware.

Eliezer,

Thank you a thousand times over.

 

 

 


 

Family disputes

 

 

 

 

 

I Couldn’t be Truly Happy:

 

I had no contact with my mother
and I was scared of my father

 

Dear Eliezer,

 

I came to you because I wanted to help myself. My life wasn’t flowing. Every so often, something would make me cry. I couldn’t be truly happy. I am surrounded by people who love me, yet I felt alone. I had no contact with my mother, and I remember telling you that I don’t need any contact with her, that I don’t want it and that there is no way that I can have contact with her. I was scared of my father, and I suffered from a medical problem that I could not come to terms with. I was dependent on others, and was never completely sure of myself. All these took from my joie de vivre and often caused me frustration.

And then G-d allowed me to me you and TAT. When I first came to you, I said that I didn’t know what was wrong, why my life wasn’t flowing and why I wasn’t happy, and together with your help, I managed to do away with the sadness and found happiness.

Today, I am in contact with both my mother and my father – something I could never have imagined, and I am sure that I have a loving family, I love them and I am happy with them. I am happy with who I am, I have self-confidence, and I have reached a stage of happiness and tranquility.

During our meetings, I had to pinch myself to make sure I was living in reality, that it was really me who felt so good. During the whole time, I could not stop being amazed. I am absolutely enchanted by TAT; it is a technique in which one does not need to return to old, painful stories, and, most importantly, one can see results very quickly.

My life has changed. I am happy that G-d enabled me to meet you and find out about your technique. You are an emissary with the objective of saving Jewish souls.

I wish you all success and that G-d be with you always.

Thank you so much.

I am truly grateful.

 

 

 

 


 

 

My life passed mostly according to my mother’s opinions

I came to the first meeting dependent on others. I had not been able to live my life as myself, or to assert my rights and desires. My life passed mostly according to my mother’s opinions, to what she said and did during my childhood, my youth and even after my marriage.

It turns out I had developed some kind of belief in the mother figure and had not allowed myself my own space.

Thanks to the meetings and the treatment with TAT, I was completely released from this dependency on my mother. I learned to appreciate her and love her even more, but as a separate identity, and the amount of her influence upon me and my life is now totally dependent upon my decision.

My communication with my husband has greatly improved, as have my self-confidence and ability to be natural and flow with everyone around me.

With special thanks.

 

 


 

 

 

Family Friction, Anger, Closure

 

 
 

 

As I underwent treatments with Eliezer, as we worked over the course of many sessions we managed to decrease traumas, which greatly improved my relationships with people, with my children. We were able to take down the virtual wall that was built up over years, and today I am a much more open person, a much happier person, and one that isn’t dependent upon financial, physical or environmental conditions. I am much happier within, and I am prepared to accept any situation regardless of anything, of criticism, I can live with criticism, any conditions. This is all due to the work I did with Eliezer, which was mostly using the TAT method. I can say that I succeeded in cleaning out all my childhood traumas. I strongly recommend this treatment method. Using this method I also was able to neutralize all my angers; today I feel, thank G-d, that I’m not angry with anyone. I’m able not to get angry and it doesn’t matter under what conditions. 

 

 


 

Pain and Family Issues

 

 

I came some time ago not knowing logically what this method was, and realizing that the usual technical techniques were not going to be enough, for I had tried many before for many years, and still there were many relationships issues as well as psychical elements. I was willing to try something that was really unknown to me and the process and benefits were unknown to me. So I was open, which does help and still wanted to know logically what this process was all about, so some time was spent on my trying to grasp what the technique was.The best part is doing the TAT and I’ve started the EFT on the body symptoms, and seeing that I had a break for the first time in probably twenty years, and that it not only was something temporary, which often happens with new techniques, but that there seems to be deepening of the process, so that it held even when the same triggers occurred again or there were similar stressful events, that normally would precipitate a systemic reaction. Once the body symptoms started to drop off, I could start to address circumstances, the history in the background, to what seemed to be big triggers from way back and current ones; sometimes we went from the past and sometimes it was from the present, sometimes it was mixed and I made a commitment to myself that this would be part of my weekly regiment stay with, until I started to feel accumulating patience, and excessive peace. Just getting a taste of the peace even if it’s for a few minutes is encouraging and encouraged me to stay with it when there were times that I wanted to end the process or couldn’t understand how it could benefit the relationship issues. Then I saw the miracles that so many issues changed without my having to tell the other person to get help. I even know what I did differently in terms of the interaction with family members that brought a different response on their part, and I couldn’t really put on paper what actually occured, I just saw and experienced changes that I never thought happenand the process is continuing and it’s deepening and I feel like a new integrity and a new dignity is within reach- not just for a few minutes, a week, or a few minutes a day. it could actually be that I could live life, a quality life, if there is a god, spirit, something that is pushing us to connect with him, and to live in this world, in a positive and happy way, and he’s channeled it somehow, through certain people, and it’s spreading and it’s radiating throughout the world, and touching people of all backgrounds, of all countries and languages, economic and socio-economic backgrounds. One doesn’t know who is working on themselves in such a way, so step by step.I feel like I’m taking my place again in the world in a new way , and I have a new optimism about the life that I can actually have and the service that I can provide the world, so I can only suggest to people to go beyond your mind and be open enough to let the heart once again start beating, to learn how to live by your heart and by your truth, to connect that very long distance between the mind and the heart, so that we’re fully aligned and flowing in this beautiful world. -You came to me you full of pains, and remember we worked on a lot of bodily pains and issues like family issues, the relationship with your husband was terrible and relationship with your children was not o.k. So we worked on all these things- relations with your parents who were not in this country, but another country, and you suffered from that, and it was expressed in the pains that you felt in your body, and couldn’t get hold of it. Till it broke through, and now there remains ljust a small percentage of the pain. So you can find yourself without pains for the rest of your life and what you say your deepened your relations with Shalom Bait and everything surrounding you in your house and your family relationships.

 

 

 


Relationships

 

 

“Through NLP and EFT, I improved the quality of my relationship with my wife”.

 

 


I couldn’t stand my mother

 

 

A grandmother, and I was still suffering from the stress of my mother’s influence upon me. She ruled my life and needed to know every single detail.

One day I broke down. I couldn’t handle it any more. Even though I love my mother, I couldn’t stand her. I only wanted to run away,

Then I heard about TAT. I came to Hava. In a very short time, I felt relief. Now I can face my mother and can even hug her with warmth and not because I have to.

 

 


 

 

I was scared of the reactions of those around me – most especially those of my mother.

 

 

Dear Eliezer,

I first came to you for treatment six years ago on the recommendation of the lawyer who was working with me. I was divorced from a violent husband. I was scared of him; I was scared of the reactions of those around me – most especially those of my mother.

I did not believe in my capabilities – I was scared to cook, to bake, to make any kind of changes in my life. I had no motivation whatsoever.

During the first treatment, we worked on my fear of my ex-husband, and we continued in this vein. Later, the matter of my family arose since there were many problems there as well, problems that prevented me from connecting to my real self.

Six months later, I suddenly called the social worker who had accompanied me since the divorce. She was responsible for arranging meetings between my daughter and my daughter’s father). I told her that I was willing to speak with my ex-husband. She was in shock. Previously, if I had seen him I would freeze; I was incapable of looking at him, and suddenly I was willing to speak to him…

My relationship with my mother had not been a healthy one, and now, thank G-d, things are completely different.

Once I had released everything, Eliezer suggested that I learn the technique.

I attended the first two workshops, after which my life changed in a number of ways. Then came third workshop – Being Present.

I completed the workshop about a year ago. Since then, I have opened up a lot and made many changes in my life. I feel as though I am a different person…

• I am suddenly motivated to cook and bake – and everything is tasty.

• I am a fat person! A few months ago, I underwent bariatric surgery to reduce the size of my stomach. Since then I have lost 32 kilos – and I am still losing weight. With each kilo lost, I feel so much better, and my self-confidence is continues to improve.

• I have begun to work out at the gym. Previously I hardly moved my body…

• I have started driving lessons.

• I will soon begin to study animal-assisted therapy.

 

I now have the motivation for change, to concentrate on my life and progress.

I now love myself, am in touch with who I am, with my intuitions and needs, without thinking “What will my mother say?” or “What will people say?”

I now recognize my own needs and those of my daughter and give them priority.

A few months ago, I had a few meetings with Chava where we dealt with anger. I was a very nervous person, and almost everything made me react by screaming and shouting. Thank G-d, that is almost completely behind me.

Dear Chava and Eliezer,

You have helped save so many Jewish souls, and I am just one of those…

I don’t even want to imagine where I would be if I had not met you.

You are two angels disguised as human beings.

Eliezer, I really connected with you and the technique. You are a special person with a sensitive and gentle soul; you drew me out of the pit where I had so experienced so much badness, darkness, sadness, fear… to a full and happy life, a life of belief, light and love …

Thank you G-d who directed me to you…

Thank you both, that in your merit I am who I am today.

With much love and esteem,

 

Shalom Bayit

 

Shalom Bayit – Marital therapy

My Marriage Physical Problems

I got married 10 months ago. After the wedding we managed to have sexual relations only once, after which I felt a physical block and was unable to resume a physical relationship

I felt not loved enough, unwanted and sometimes even not worth anything.

We came to Eliezer after six months of marriage, and slowly, treatment after treatment I felt more relief. Each treatment untied another knot, and with it a little more release. I understood more and more that with G-d’s help, the treatment helped to strengthen me emotionally and to build thoughts and feelings, and the physical problem was solved as well.

Thank you very much to Eliezer who fulfills his mission faithfully and helped me to reach peace of mind, and to live my life more correctly and comfortably.


angry outbursts

I started treatment with Eliezer due to some kind of anxiety attacks and angry outbursts at my wife and family. I felt totally different after three or four treatments, but continued to come to Eliezer to ensure that they would not come back. Now I see results in other issues that seem to have disappeared without any treatment specifically for them, such as tiredness.


I felt respect and love, and I felt it!!

I was born in a haredi environment, and consider myself as a haredi person. I married a haredi woman from a Chasidic family. Immediately after the wedding, I felt that she was not interested in me. She did everything she was supposed to do, but only technically. Her tone of voice when talking to me was quite sharp while mine was very soft. I felt that she was spoiling the code of conduct suitable for a Jewish home – both spiritually and materially, and she wouldn’t even let me express myself and say what I think. Anything I said she would rebut or say, “That’s not normal”. I would plead with her: “Before you decide something, please ask what I think first.”  But she would laugh at me, “Are you a baby or something?” or “If you think differently, so tell me and argue with me, and if you have nothing to say, so then I’m right. Any time you don’t say otherwise, I’ll do as I wish.” I felt that if I did try to say something, it caused a whole argument so it was better to keep my mouth closed. In short, I began to feel that she had no faith in me and that she didn’t love me. My self-confidence was completely destroyed, she made all of the halachic decisions, and when I would begin to say something at the Shabbes table, she would interrupt and finish what I was saying (usually not what I had intended to say…). She did not understand physical relations at all; she couldn’t have anyone stand or sit too close… and certainly nothing beyond that.

I began to feel that I had been swindled. I tried to find more strength through my [religious] beliefs, but it was as though I was some kind of lustful brute and that everything was my fault, which led me to live with self-accusations and to work against myself. Inside, I was angry with her. I am embarrassed to admit it, but in truth I would sometimes secretly pray that she would die, G-d forbid. I couldn’t see a way out.

After a few years, the secret began to come out through jokes with my friends about women in general and in particular about my wife. I went to therapists who told me that they had never met such a tough case. At first she refused to go – until the therapist prepared me and I was ready to leave her. Then she absolutely had to go for treatment. Over the next two years, we learned how to communicate better, to make ourselves clear and to speak respectfully to each other. We learned various tactics for use during crises, and our physical relationship improved. But the thoughts that I had been swindled and that she didn’t love me continued – it was even worse than before since it was all very finely veiled, and not emphasized as it had been in the past. My close friends who knew and who heard what was happening, those who heard how she would talk to me on the phone in her harsh, loud voice would laugh with me on her account. They made me feel that they would not put up with such a woman. This all added fat to the fire secretly burning in me, and I would cry internally about my circumstances – and I was generally depressed.

The whole time I was searching for techniques and books that could perhaps help me get out this state of affairs or for someone who could perhaps understand me. We went to all kinds of therapists and learned something from each of them. When we would go to a new therapist, my wife would start to talk, and then the therapist would complain about the things that I had done. I would feel as though a knife was being twisted in my guts. I tried to show how much I was suffering, and if I had failed in something, so what? I became the victim, and the more I suffered, all the better for me. This was the best way I found that I could deal with the affair (but on the other hand, I had no rest from it).

Providence led me. It is written in Psalms 37, 23″מה’ מצעדי גבר ודרכו יחפץ” – Hashem plans a man’s actions and he delights in his way. I wanted to learn a certain technique from Eliezer Spetter and I made a course of appointments with him to coincide with a two-week visit to Jerusalem – two meetings a day to learn a certain technique. When I told him a little about what I was suffering from, he changed our plans and did TAT with me instead.

That was in 2005. I had been married for more than twelve years. Over those two weeks, we had eighteen meetings. What can I say? They changed my whole life from stern to stern. I have to admit that while we were doing it, I was very skeptic. I felt as though he was playing with my real feelings, but when he said that it was all over, that it was finished and that I was cured, I looked at him as though he was out of his mind. What did he mean that it’s all over, etc? In the course of the meetings, we also discussed why I needed therapy – since it was she who needed it. She was the one who needs to change. What will change if I leave the pain and the sorrow behind? And the list continued, all different kinds of thoughts and feelings. But since all the meetings had been planned in advance, I allowed myself to go the full course. Inside, I laughed, but Eliezer, innocently continued without changing a thing.

After I had returned home, I thought to myself, “Nu, another kind of therapy”. I considered it all nonsense. My condition was too bad for anything to have any real effect. I returned to my wife, and to my great surprise, I regarded her quite positively. I laughed to myself, “Who are you kidding?”. Yet I couldn’t deny the fact that I began to life this positive approach. A few weeks later I found myself living in a different reality, something had turned around and I was able to put up with her. When my friends made jokes about her it really hurt. I did not know what to say to them, but I couldn’t bear them putting her down.

A few weeks passed, and wonder of wonders, she started to compromise, without my asking her to. It was like magic. I am a very practical person, and I thought, “Ah, you’re imagining things”, but it was so powerful that I couldn’t deny it. Most important, I “felt” respect and love for her, and that she returned them!!! I can truly admit that since then we may have had harsh words but no more than once or twice, and certainly not the way we had in the past. We both knew how to prevent that. “מה אשיב לה’ כל תגמולוהי עלי” – How can I repay the Lord for all of his goodness to me? Any you, Rav Eliezer were the emissary to implement it. “People of good merit, merit good deeds.” May G-d give you the merit of being the emissary to help many more people who are in need of healing.

With great esteem,


I run away from my husband ,because I had no other choice!!

I came to you hoping you could help me, but I had a lot of doubts. I had run away from home because my husband laughed at me, he picked on my family, and did not appreciate me. I felt like an outsider with him. He had also often told me that I was not a priority in his life. I could not trust him anymore.

He is an impulsive man with a lot of anger, he has ADHD and always talks negatively. He always criticized and made fun of me. He is a man who only thought highly about himself. He is certainly not humble, and is devoted only to his side of the family. He thinks that you can buy everything with money, and he lives as though he has a lot of money even though he does not.

He was always out to get me. I was his punching bag – not important in his eyes.

He was always on his computer or IPhone, not doing anything to change the situation and he never listening to me when I needed to tell him something.

So, Eliezer with all that, and a lot more, I came to your sessions where I felt a lot of relief and change. But I could not picture myself going back to this man. I had no life with him.

Eliezer you told me that when I work on myself and my background I would be able to change to our relationship, but I could not believe you.

Nonetheless, during the TAT sessions I felt so good, as though everything was dissolving, but it was not real: here I am, sitting here in a therapy session and feeling good, but how will it be when I get home? I suppose that nothing will change because he refuses to work on himself. I am the only one to go to sessions to change my life. I think that it is impossible that there will be changes when only one of the couple works on himself. I cannot foresee any change.

We finished the sessions and finally I decided to go back to him and give it a chance.

I was totally in wonder and shock coming home and see that things really have changed even though only I have worked on myself. It is unbelievable, Yes, Eliezer, you were so very right; things can change when one of the couple does therapy.

I have no words to thank you for getting my life and my husband back to me

S.


My physical marriage problem

The reason that I came to Eliezer was due to a problem that began when I got married. I could not be with my husband. I was closed. This caused a great deal of frustration.

After one treatment, I started to feel a change. Later, I became more sure of myself and more physically relaxed and was able to be with my husband.

All is well now – just after a few treatments.

We are really thankful to Hashem for TAT.

Thank you Eliezer.


My wife, asked for a divorce… her attitude towards me changed to one of love!

For a long time I had been going through a bad period in general, both at home and at work. I felt particular difficulty with what I felt inside and with my relationships with other people. The relationships were not negative because I get along with everyone very well, but I did not always answer people appropriately – only saying what was expected in the relevant situation.

But at home, it was different. My wife, asked for a divorce. For a long time we had shared nothing apart from the technical issues of the house and children.

Her father asked me to go to Eliezer Spetter for a series of treatments for Rabbi Eliezer Spetter and I agreed.

Once a week for eight weeks, through TAT, he treated the problematic issues that interfered with my life. Even though I could not see any changes until the third time or so, I knew that they would appear and I continued. After the seventh meeting a lot of things began to change between my wife and myself, and her attitude towards me changed to one of love, thank God.

Rav Eliezer’s approach to my issues was to get down to the smallest details which were actually the source of everything that happened later.

Thank you very much. May you go from strength to strength.

Your neighbor.

I must note that Rav Eliezer worked with me and only with me, not with my wife at all. This proves that you can change things when only one partner works on the issues.


To Eliezer Spetter,

To be completely free to fill my life with real content

I’m  so very glad that I chose to use TAT to get rid of my “unwanted baggage” and bad experiences, and thus to succeed in controlling myself in not getting angry and to restore peace and tranquility in my life.
During the treatment, I discovered new insights:
•  One does not need “large traumas” for big upsets to happen. Miscomprehension of some small matter or a seemingly insignificant, yet unpleasant incident can have major implications, and through Eliezer Spetter’s therapeutic method one can change and be changed easily.
• Treatment is necessary and important even in the early stages of difficulties. “Shlepping” one’s issues can worsen them. Repression, denial, burying one’s head in the sand and the thought that we are strong and not affected by anything do not prevent issues from growing –  and the consequences are significant throughout our lives.

• To be mentally free is not an unaffordable luxury! Especially with the advantage of discovering amazing abilities that I never dreamed I had within me. In addition, I am now able to look at life properly, more realistically – an approach which now allows me to live my life in a more relaxed way without the previous heavy feeling which always accompanied me. To be completely free to fill my life with real content. The pressure and the difficulty which filled my life have completely vanished!
• However, we must not forget to thank G-d for the wonderful tool named TAT, and must always remember that it is all His doing.

Eliezer,
Some treatments seem too simple and their power too great..
I thank you for helping “renew” my life and improving its quality.


 

 

Shalom Bayit and personal growth

To Dear Chava and Eliezer,

There are no words to describe the great change in my life due to the treatment.

I am 45 years of age and after a few months of treatment from Chava my whole life has changed.

  • Medical problems from which I have suffered for many years have disappeared completely.
  • Emotional problems: pressure and tension that were an integral part of my life have gone and I am more relaxed and calm in my day to day life.
  • In my relationship with my husband, TAT and Chava’s treatments have helped me understand how to change and improve myself, and have also made an enormous impression on my husband (he did not have treatment).  Thus, our whole relationship has changed beyond recognition.

In addition to all of the above, my sixteen year old son was treated by Eliezer.  After only a few sessions we saw him change from a mixed up, insecure boy to a strong and self assured young man.

A thousand thanks to Eliezer and Chava for their wonderful work.


My Family changed because I changed

Chava,

I came for treatment. I felt extremely bad. I had a lot of problems at home with my husband and the children. I was angry.  I could not deal with the children. I couldn’t cope on my own. I was very depressed, very sad. I cried a lot and took pills to calm me down. Two hours later it would all start again.

I came to Chava Spetter and learned how to deal with all of my issues. After three months I feel wonderful. I don’t cry any more and I am not depressed. Happy, and function better at home.  I have calmed down and so has my home.

All of this through Chava Spetter and TAT.

Thank you.


I had many problems in my relationship with my husband and my children

Adar 5771 March 2011–04–04

Dear Rav Eliezer,

First of all I must thank Hashem who sent me to you to be treated through TAT.

I had many problems in my relationship with my husband, my children, in society in general – and with myself.  I was uptight; I was uncomfortable to be around people and could not trust them. Thank G-d, after six TAT treatments with Rav Eliezer Spetter I can say that I live in peace and harmony with my family, with people in general and, most important, with myself. I don’t let my feelings get the better of me, I can control them, I have belief in Hashem and my life is beautiful.

I would also like to point out something to all those who still hesitate.  Contrary to the psychological treatment that I underwent, this treatment, TAT, does not demand a long period of time nor does it cost a lot of money,

I thank you with my heart and soul.

Anonymous.

P.S. I saw the changes from week to week when my wife returned from the treatments.  It was as though layers of obstruction were being peeled away. It seemed unbelievable at the time, unreal, and happened so quickly.  Believe me, it works was worth it.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart – the husband.


TAT CAN SAVE MARRIAGES

I came to Eliezer after someone had recommended a treatment called TAT. I knew nothing about this or any similar technique. I came for treatment and did not understand exactly what would happen.

I was in an uncomfortable emotional state. We were about to be divorced and the situation at home was not pleasant. I felt as though I needed to get help as soon as possible.

I sat opposite Eliezer and we began the treatment. I remember that while talking and just doing the other things connected to the treatment, I felt really connected to very deep things – in my consciousness, my soul, my past, my life. Things that came up just overwhelmed me.

The first treatment helped me immensely. First of all by bringing some calm to myself, some composure. There was a feeling of healing, of a prayer for healing, a direct connection and full enjoyment of what I was experiencing  – and even though I had not said anything I felt connected to a source and tried to treat the root of my problems.

Then came the second, third and fourth meetings and I can honestly say that all this helped my relationship with my wife. I felt an enormous change in my attitude towards her. I remember that two days after a treatment, a week before the date that we were to be divorced, I suddenly said to my wife, “We have to go out for a meal together”. She did not understand what I was talking about, and then I explained that we should finish it all off in a pleasant manner, and not be mad at each other. To my astonishment even though she was cross with me she agreed. We sat in the restaurant and we had the most sincere conversation; the deepest things came out. I know that Eliezer and I had worked on my relationship with my wife and how she regards me. And it all proved itself in the most wonderful way. We had prayed for a miracle, and this miracle was the only thing that could save us.

I finally understood that all that I had worked on was for not only myself but also my spouse, and I gained from all of that.

I understood from Eliezer that even though I came with the attitude of “that’s it” that’s the end of the relationship, I could work on anything  and everything that had been stored up throughout my life with the help of  this technique.

At the restaurant I expressed all of this and I saw how my wife listened, how she was open to hear me, and slowly things changed. Within two or three weeks we began we began to live differently. I noticed her, I realized her needs, and her behavior towards me changed as well. She didn’t want the divorce any more. I have no explanation except that she understood that I had changed.

A month later, a therapist asked her what had been so wonderful about the past month. My wife answered that she feels that I notice her, that she finally feels that I have made a change in my life, that I am less angry and more understanding. She feels the change and that is what made her decide to go ahead, to do away with the divorce and rebuild our relationship.

I cannot say what will happen one or two years down the line, but I do know that this period has been crucial for us personally, for our relationship, and I also know that it has given me a lot of fuel to continue in the future.


Shalom Bayit and serious problems in communicating with my father-in-law

My husband and I had serious problems in communicating with his father. Over the years, this harmed and disturbed our marriage.

My husband and I understood each other and understood the situation, but sometimes something regarding his father would arise again and cause friction between us.

It should not be understood that we were resigned to the situation or accepted it, but things just continued as they were.

We felt that it had something to do with us. We knew that my father-in-law could help us and give us things, but somehow he always left us out and gave to my husband’s siblings instead. We never said anything.

During one of my treatments with Dr. Spetter, I felt the need to be honest with myself and we began working on this particular issue. Dr. Spetter emphasized the need to be with myself and to be honest.

I must add that I had met with my father-in-law and spoken to him bluntly, but my husband found it much harder to do so and shrunk from the actual task of speaking to him. Their only communication would be in short sentences such as “How are you?”

That day I did not tell my husband which issue we had worked on at Dr. Spetter’s dedicated treatments.

The following day my husband called me and said that I would not believe what he was about to tell me. I wondered what had happened.

He told me that he did not know how, but he called father and decided to meet with him and discuss all those unsolved matters. The meeting was excellent and my husband was very pleased with the outcome. Their talk led to more serious developments and now my father-in-law realizes that we are humans too and that he cannot do as he likes with us or with our feelings.

We are now a few months after the treatment and I recently. I revealed to my husband what had led to the push to his contacting his father.

With much thanks,


My husband ignored me, I was depressed and I was thinking about getting a divorce.

Dear Chavah,

Baruch Hashem, I’m doing well.

Thanks so much for all your help – you helped me get to where I am now.

I came to you in a state of depression and sadness and I was thinking about getting a divorce.

I was so scared of being hurt and I felt that my husband ignored me and the children. I had no hope anymore. Whenever I was happy, I felt he was bringing me down. I was always defending myself. We were blaming each other for everything. I felt unloved and my memories from my youth were blocked.

After we worked with TAT, memories of my father came up: his anger, his criticism and comments, and I noticed that my husband behaved the same way. So you and I started working on all the past memories, and slowly I started to feel better and became happier and I had more fun with my children. Although my husband has not changed, it does not affect me anymore. So we talk better, we laugh more together and I am happy that I stayed with him.

Thanks to Hashem for getting me in contact with Chavah so I could heal using TAT.

 

Shalom Bayit after many years of therapy and Searching……. Then came TAT .

I’m happy!  I believe that most people who meet me see a positive, energetic, confident, happy woman.  Generally, I believe that I am that person, but too often, those stuck feelings of rejection, not being smart enough/good enough/punctual enough would surface, despite the years of cognitive therapy.  Reacting with stress, being on defense, having trouble letting go [of making my point that wasn’t being heard/acknowledged], reacting with even more stress brought on by not being seen in a positive light… contributed to being not happy too often.

 

I sought out Eliezer Spetter to try TAT because I was feeling frustrated with the most important relationship in my life – my husband – not knowing how to finally make things better between us.  I did not want to spend the “best years of our lives” not happy.  And, we have every reason to be happy!  We love each other, but seldom were able to discuss something that we had different opinions about without it erupting into my partner being aggravated at me.  I would let myself be reduced to not being heard or taken seriously.  I hated the “number” I would do on myself, but didn’t know how to change “the dance” that rendered feeling distant from the other.  My husband was against going to a therapist with me nor on his own.  Sure, I was willing to change, but was frustrated and mad that “it was always me who needed to change.”

 

From the first session with Eliezer, I made a quantum leap.  Real change was happening.  Eliezer is amazing.  The method of TAT and Eliezer’s insight in how he utilized this tool with me, brought about the genuine change that I have been seeking for years.

 

I came to Eliezer with complete trust (he had helped and taught  dear friend of mine) . I was open with my frustrations, anger and negative emotions that were not helping me to be truly happy.

 

At the first session, we quickly focused on one negative feeling that I chose to deal with – rejection.  I had previously sent Eliezer an e-mail briefly describing my background so we would not need to spend too much time of our session on “all that stuff” that was analyzed in cognitive therapy over the years.  Eliezer had me in “the pose” of TAT and talked me through feeling rejected; that being rejected really did happen to me; that all those places that the feeling of rejection is stuck in is being healed.  He continued with more of what he does to help me get that feeling of rejection and the hurt of being rejected unstuck. That was the amazing key! 

 

Each visit, I dealt with another stumbling block that interfered with the me I am determined to keep flourishing.  We’ve done it!  I am happy.  I love life.

 

Yes, my heart is soaring with overflowing happiness and I can’t help but keep smiling.

 

Thank you Eliezer!  I am grateful to you – your skills & your persona.  You truly care and it comes through.  And your humor helps keep emotionally very difficult sessions an actual pleasure!  Each time leaving your office, I felt uplifted, lighter, freer and happier!

 

Whoever would like to talk to me personally may get my name from Eliezer.

I would be happy to share my learning/freeing experience if it would be a spring-board for you.   Sincerely, LG

 

 

 

 

I thank Jennifer Williamson in her Morning Affirmations for phrasing so aptly what I’m feeling.  Here’s a sampling:

 

I play because that, too, is love.  p.55

My heart is recovering its childlike wonder.

My eyes remember how to discover.

I am willing to see just how joyous life can be.

I am willing to treat any given moment today like another opportunity to play.

I decide to be free.

 

Joy is my truth.  p.44

Joy speaks my name – it is closer to the truth than anything that stress might say.

I believe in what brings me into a lighter state of mind.

I believe in the place where joy grows like wildflowers.

I am learning the language of the heart, again.

 

 

 

I show up for everything that shows up for me.  p.47

I greet this and every moment like it has come to meet me.

Everything shows up to remind me to show up – For this splendid sliver of eternity.

My soul is dancing in rhythm with what the universe sends me.

 

I’m still working to achieve…

I play with new ways of seeing.  p.44

I dip into my infinite reservoir of pure awareness.

I am sincerely and completely awake.

I do not need to judge whatever I see today –

    I seek only to see with a relaxed curiosity.

I am the conscious master of how & what I see.

 

This one resonates within me:

I am the change.  p.66

The change I want to see is alive within me.

I think about solutions and possibilities.

I start to see things differently and the universe reorganizes its energy accordingly.

My flame of passion kindles change and action.

I start lighting up the world around me.  J

עדויות של הכח והנס שמתחולל בשיטת טאט

× ?Can I help
Skip to content